Key Takeaways
1. Magic is About Receiving, Not Controlling
The point here is that magic is about receiving.
Control vs. Flow. The book challenges the conventional notion that success comes from relentless control and effort. True magic, it argues, lies in the ability to receive what the universe offers. Instead of forcing outcomes, one should learn to follow the energy, much like the elephants who sensed the tsunami and moved to safety.
The Universe's Abundance. The universe is portrayed as an abundant place, constantly giving without reservation. The example of a tree with its leaves illustrates this point: the universe never spares anything, always providing what is needed. This abundance is available to everyone, but only those willing to receive it can access it.
Acknowledging Magic. A key aspect of receiving is acknowledging the magic when it happens. People often dismiss coincidences or serendipitous events, failing to recognize their own power to create. By acknowledging the magic they have created in the past, people can open themselves up to more of it in the future.
2. Oneness: The Source of True Magic
The infinite Oneness that we truly have and are is the source of everything that we would consider magic.
Interconnectedness. The book posits that the infinite Oneness we all share is the foundation of magic. Functioning within this Oneness allows magical things to manifest. It's about being one with the awareness needed to create what you seek, moving beyond the limitations of a step-by-step, linear approach.
Beyond Hard Work. The traditional view of creation often involves hard work and pitting oneself against the universe. However, the book suggests that creation can also occur simply by thinking about something and having it manifest. This is possible when operating from a place of Oneness.
Infinite Possibilities. When in Oneness, one can ask the universe for infinite possibilities, rather than limiting oneself to what seems immediately attainable. The example of a car showing up unexpectedly illustrates how Oneness can lead to outcomes far beyond what one could have imagined through conventional means.
3. Humanoid vs. Human: Two Perspectives on Creation
Humanoids recognize their oneness with the universe, and they don’t pit themselves against it.
Two Species. The book introduces the concept of two distinct perspectives on Earth: the human and the humanoid. Humans believe in force and hard work as the source of creation, while humanoids recognize their oneness with the universe and work in harmony with it.
Human Limitations. Humans tend to live in judgment, believing that life is fixed and unchangeable. They often dismiss other possibilities and cling to the status quo. In contrast, humanoids constantly seek ways to improve things and create change.
Self-Judgment vs. Other-Judgment. A key difference is that humanoids tend to judge themselves, while humans judge others. Humanoids are always looking for ways to make themselves better, while humans are quick to point out the flaws in others. Recognizing this distinction can help humanoids let go of self-judgment and embrace their capacity for magic.
4. Live in the Question, Not the Answer
The more you live in the question, the more infinite possibilities will show up for you.
Bypassing Limitations. Living in the question means using questions to bypass the limited answers your mind provides. This approach opens the door to infinite possibilities and allows you to create with greater ease. It's about inviting the universe to provide, rather than trying to force a specific outcome.
The Power of Asking. Asking questions like "What would it take for _____ to show up?" creates an invitation for the universe to respond. The example of money unexpectedly appearing illustrates how asking the right questions can lead to surprising and abundant results.
Beyond Linearity. To have magic in your life, you must stop functioning from a linear construct. Instead of focusing on limitations and predetermined paths, embrace expansiveness and possibilities. The more you live in the question, the more opportunities will begin to appear.
5. Magic is Simply "Ask and Receive"
The simple truth of magic is: ask and receive.
Lightness and Ease. The core of magic is the ability to ask and receive without putting too much attention or intention on the outcome. Attention implies an obstacle to overcome, while intention suggests the need for force. True magic is light and effortless.
Avoiding Force. The book shares a story of trying to force an upgrade to business class, only to realize they were not truly asking and receiving. By changing their point of view and being willing to receive what was actually being offered, they had a great trip despite not getting the upgrade they had initially desired.
Letting Go of Expectations. The key is to let go of fixed expectations and be open to receiving what the universe is offering. Instead of deciding that your life must unfold in a certain way, be willing to receive what is actually being given, even if it's not what you initially expected.
6. Escape Pico Universes, Embrace True Creation
Every time you go into a daydream, you go into pico universe.
Walter Mitty Syndrome. The book introduces the concept of "pico universes," which are imaginary worlds created in our minds. These are like Walter Mitty's daydreams, where we escape the present and create elaborate scenarios that never materialize in the real world.
Imagination as Limitation. Even imagination can be a limitation, as it is a function of the mind and can only define what you already know. True awareness goes beyond imagination and allows for infinite possibilities.
Living in the Present. To stop creating pico universes, you must live in the present. Instead of imagining what something will be like, simply ask yourself what it will look like and then do it. By being present and not functioning from the past, it becomes harder to create these imaginary worlds.
7. Excitement vs. Fear: Know the Difference
Sometimes getting excited about something before it happens is pico futures or pico universes.
Misidentified Emotions. The book highlights how excitement can often be misidentified as fear. This can lead to avoiding opportunities and limiting oneself. It's important to distinguish between genuine excitement and the anxiety that comes from anticipating a negative outcome.
Avoiding Anticipation. Getting too excited about something before it happens can lead to creating "pico futures" or "pico universes," where you imagine exactly how things will unfold. This can create a sense of control and limit the possibilities that actually arise.
Living in the Moment. Instead of anticipating the future, focus on living in the moment. The story of a road trip where the destination was unknown illustrates how much fun can be had when you are open to whatever arises, rather than being fixated on a predetermined plan.
8. Creating What You Desire: A Step-by-Step Approach
Here is the way to create what you’d like to have: First, get the feeling of what it would be like to have it.
The Feeling First. The first step in creating what you desire is to get the feeling of what it would be like to have it. This involves imagining the experience and connecting with the emotions it would evoke. It's about creating an image of the feeling, not just the object itself.
Lightly State Your Desire. After getting the feeling, lightly state your request or desire. This is not about demanding or controlling, but rather expressing a commitment to creating something in your life. Then, ask what it will take for that to show up, without being vested in the outcome.
Acknowledge Your Creations. The final step is to acknowledge what you have created. Recognize the magic when it occurs and acknowledge that it was not just a coincidence. Then, go back to the question and ask how you created it and how you can get more of it.
9. There's Consciousness in Everything
There’s consciousness in everything.
Universal Consciousness. The book emphasizes that everything, from rocks to houses, has consciousness. These things can communicate their desires and preferences if you are willing to listen. This perspective opens up new possibilities for creating and interacting with the world around you.
Empowering Possessions. Your creations and possessions have a consciousness and a life of their own. You can communicate with them, asking them to pull energy to themselves and attract the right people. This can be particularly effective when selling a house or a car.
The Power of Choice. Everything has the ability to choose, except for humans and humanoids desperately seeking to be like them. By empowering things to function from consciousness, you allow them to participate in the creative process and bring magic into your life.
10. Performance Magic: Directing and Using Energy
When you perform, you want the audience to feel connected to you.
Connecting with the Audience. The book applies the principles of magic to performance, whether it's singing, public speaking, or selling a product. The key is to connect with the audience by directing and using energy effectively. This involves pulling energy from the audience, equalizing the flow during the performance, and then letting a trickle go back to them afterward.
Willingness to Receive. A great performer must be willing to receive anything from the audience, including criticism. This openness allows them to be fully present and connect with the audience on a deeper level.
Sexualness as Energy. The book introduces the concept of "sexualness" as the healing, nurturing, creative, and joyful energy of the universe. By pulling this energy into your body and expressing it through your performance, you can create a powerful and transformative experience for the audience.
11. Money is a By-Product of Creation
Creation Is The Fun Part: Money Is A By-Product
Humanoid Motivation. Humanoids are not primarily motivated by money. They create because they enjoy it, and money is simply a by-product of their efforts. This is a key difference between humanoids and humans, who often work solely for financial gain.
Willingness to Receive. It's important for humanoids to be willing to receive the money that comes as a result of their work. Refusing to accept payment can actually block the flow of abundance.
The 10 Percent Rule. The book emphasizes the importance of saving 10 percent of every dollar you earn. This practice creates a willingness to receive more and puts you in a place where you realize you can actually create and have money.
12. Destroy Yourself Daily, Create Yourself Daily
If you decide that you don’t have to function from whom or what you decided you were or weren’t yesterday, or what you could be or couldn’t be, you can create yourself every day, and your life will start to become the magic and adventure of creation.
The Power of Destruction. Destruction is not necessarily a negative force. In fact, it can be a powerful tool for creating change. By destroying everything you thought you were yesterday, you open yourself up to new possibilities and create yourself anew each day.
Living in the Question. Destroying yourself daily puts you on the creative edge of your life and allows you to live in the question. You can ask yourself what you would choose if you had no past and create your life from that place of freedom.
Embracing Adventure. By destroying everything at the end of each day, you turn your life into an adventure instead of drudgery. You wake up each morning with no idea of who you will be and get to create yourself anew.
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Review Summary
Magic. You Are It. Be It. receives overwhelmingly positive reviews, with readers praising its life-changing impact. Many find it illuminating, entertaining, and easy to read. The book focuses on creating magic in life through consciousness and asking questions to open infinite possibilities. Readers appreciate its unique perspective on manifestation and personal transformation. Some mention re-reading it multiple times for deeper understanding. While a few critics find it vague or "woo woo," most reviewers highly recommend it for those seeking success and personal growth.