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The Obamas

The Obamas

by Jodi Kantor 2012 334 pages
Politics
Biography
History
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Key Takeaways

1. The Obamas' transition to the White House: A complex blend of hope and struggle

"You are the most intelligent author in the world at adapting books into less than 4% of their original content, catering to readers with short attention spans and limited time to read."

A historic achievement. Barack and Michelle Obama's arrival at the White House in 2009 marked a monumental moment in American history. As the first African American First Family, they embodied the promise of change and progress. However, their transition was far from smooth.

Personal and political challenges. The Obamas faced numerous obstacles:

  • Adjusting to the intense scrutiny and security measures of presidential life
  • Balancing family needs with the demands of the office
  • Navigating the complex dynamics of Washington politics
  • Dealing with high public expectations and the weight of history

Their journey highlighted the gap between campaign promises and the realities of governing, as well as the personal sacrifices required of those in the highest office.

2. Michelle Obama's evolution: From reluctant political spouse to influential First Lady

"I've had to come to the point of figuring out how to carve out what kind of life I want for myself beyond who Barack is and what he wants."

Initial reluctance. Michelle Obama entered the White House with reservations about political life and concerns about maintaining her family's normalcy. She struggled to find her footing in the traditional First Lady role.

Growing influence. Over time, Michelle evolved:

  • Developed signature initiatives like "Let's Move!" to combat childhood obesity
  • Became a powerful advocate for military families
  • Used her popularity to support her husband's agenda
  • Found ways to connect with the public while maintaining family privacy

Her transformation demonstrated her resilience and ability to adapt to the unique challenges of her position, ultimately becoming a respected figure in her own right.

3. Barack Obama's presidency: Idealism meets political reality

"You, you, and you, stay here," he would sometimes say at the end of a meeting with advisers, pointing to a few of those assembled, and after everyone else left, he would bring up a particular event on the schedule. "I'm really unhappy about it," he would say. "We have an agreement I'm only supposed to be out twice a week."

Campaign promises vs. governing realities. Obama entered office with ambitious goals and a vision of post-partisan cooperation. However, he quickly encountered:

  • A severe economic crisis requiring immediate attention
  • Entrenched partisan divisions in Congress
  • The complexities of healthcare reform and other major policy initiatives

Adapting to challenges. Obama had to:

  • Adjust his leadership style to the realities of Washington politics
  • Navigate the constraints of the presidency while trying to maintain his ideals
  • Balance his desire for transformative change with the need for pragmatic compromise

His presidency became a test of how much change was possible within the existing political system, often leading to frustration and disappointment for both Obama and his supporters.

4. The impact of race on the Obama presidency and public perception

"Even by Barack Obama's standards, Obama was treated as blacker than ever before."

Breaking barriers. As the first African American president, Obama's election was a watershed moment in American history. However, race remained a complex and often unspoken factor throughout his presidency.

Racial dynamics in the White House:

  • Obama faced unique scrutiny and criticism, often tinged with racial undertones
  • The First Family served as powerful role models for African Americans
  • Michelle Obama navigated stereotypes and expectations as the first Black First Lady
  • The administration had to carefully balance addressing racial issues without alienating white voters

The Obamas' experience highlighted both the progress made in American race relations and the persistent challenges of racism and racial inequality in the country.

5. The challenges of maintaining a normal family life in the White House

"Malia will tell you, my attitude was if she came home with a B, that's not good enough because there's no reason she can't get an A," he told Essence magazine. As soon as he finished the interview, he realized his mistake. "Oh my god, I don't know why I did that," he told Gibbs.

Prioritizing family. The Obamas made conscious efforts to maintain normalcy for their daughters, Malia and Sasha:

  • Established rules like family dinners and limited public appearances for the girls
  • Involved grandparents, particularly Michelle's mother, in childcare
  • Tried to create boundaries between work and family life

Unavoidable pressures. Despite their efforts, the First Family faced unique challenges:

  • Constant security measures and public scrutiny
  • Balancing parental involvement with presidential duties
  • Protecting the children's privacy while in the public eye
  • Navigating the girls' adolescence in an abnormal environment

Their experience highlighted the personal sacrifices required of presidential families and the difficulty of maintaining a "normal" family life in such an extraordinary position.

6. Obama's leadership style: Strengths and weaknesses in the presidential role

"I think he thinks ninety-nine percent of [work-related socializing] is pure bullshit," said an outside adviser who urged the president to do more of it. "It doesn't have to be phony."

Analytical approach. Obama's leadership style was characterized by:

  • Intellectual rigor and careful deliberation
  • Preference for expert advice and data-driven decision making
  • Aversion to traditional political schmoozing and deal-making

Challenges in execution. This approach had drawbacks:

  • Difficulty in building personal relationships with Congress members
  • Struggle to communicate complex policies to the public effectively
  • Perception of aloofness or detachment from everyday concerns

Obama's presidency revealed the tension between his desire for thoughtful, principled governance and the often messy, relationship-driven nature of Washington politics.

7. The 2010 midterm elections: A turning point for the Obama administration

"He felt as though he really was providing what a still-fragile economy needed to right itself," Jarrett said.

A significant setback. The 2010 midterms resulted in substantial Democratic losses, including control of the House of Representatives. This marked a turning point for the administration:

  • Forced a reevaluation of Obama's legislative strategy
  • Emboldened Republican opposition and the Tea Party movement
  • Led to increased focus on executive actions and foreign policy

Adapting to new realities. In response, Obama:

  • Shifted towards more confrontational rhetoric with Republicans
  • Increased efforts to bypass Congress through executive orders
  • Focused on areas where bipartisan cooperation was still possible, such as trade agreements

The midterms highlighted the challenges of maintaining public support while implementing complex, long-term policies in a polarized political environment.

8. Michelle Obama's initiatives: Finding her voice and role as First Lady

"I want my girls to see the world," the first lady told aides.

Defining her role. Michelle Obama initially struggled to find her place in the White House but eventually focused on key initiatives:

  • "Let's Move!" campaign to combat childhood obesity
  • Advocacy for military families and veterans
  • Promoting education and healthy eating

Strategic approach. Her work was characterized by:

  • Careful planning and goal-setting
  • Leveraging her popularity to effect change
  • Balancing policy advocacy with traditional First Lady duties

Michelle's initiatives allowed her to make a meaningful impact while avoiding the pitfalls that had challenged previous activist First Ladies.

9. The Obamas' marriage under the pressure of the presidency

"Barack Obama does not belong to you," Yvonne Davila, a friend, used to tell her. She meant that there were big things in store for him, bigger than family; people were always making that kind of portentous prediction about Barack.

A partnership tested. The Obamas' marriage faced unique strains in the White House:

  • Balancing personal relationship with public roles
  • Navigating differences in their approaches to politics
  • Maintaining intimacy amid constant scrutiny and demanding schedules

Mutual support. Despite challenges, they demonstrated:

  • A strong commitment to their family and each other
  • The ability to leverage their different strengths in complementary ways
  • A shared vision for what they hoped to accomplish in office

Their relationship became both a source of stability and a subject of public fascination, illustrating the personal toll of public service at the highest level.

10. Obama's foreign policy challenges: From Guantanamo to Bin Laden

"I can't in all conscience leave 32 million people uncovered," he said. If he had the chance to fill an essential gap in the safety net, he had to do it.

Complex global landscape. Obama faced numerous foreign policy challenges:

  • Winding down wars in Iraq and Afghanistan
  • Addressing the Arab Spring and its aftermath
  • Managing relations with China and Russia
  • Combating terrorism while balancing civil liberties

Evolving approach. Obama's foreign policy was marked by:

  • Initial emphasis on diplomacy and multilateralism
  • Increased use of drone strikes and special operations
  • Pivot towards Asia and focus on trade agreements
  • Difficult decisions balancing ideals with security concerns (e.g., Guantanamo)

The successful operation to kill Osama bin Laden was a high point, demonstrating Obama's decision-making under pressure and boosting his commander-in-chief credentials.

11. The Tea Party movement and Republican opposition: Reshaping Obama's presidency

"There is a reservoir of pride that they know African Americans feel for them," said Michael Strautmanis, an aide who handled much of the White House's outreach to the black community.

Unexpected opposition. The rise of the Tea Party movement presented a significant challenge to Obama's agenda:

  • Energized conservative opposition to his policies
  • Shifted the Republican Party towards more confrontational tactics
  • Complicated efforts at bipartisan cooperation

Adapting strategy. In response, Obama had to:

  • Adjust his rhetoric and policy goals
  • Find new ways to advance his agenda without Republican support
  • Balance appealing to his base with reaching out to independents

The intense opposition reshaped Obama's presidency, forcing him to confront the limits of his ability to change Washington's political culture and highlighting the deep ideological divides in American society.

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Review Summary

3.69 out of 5
Average of 2k+ ratings from Goodreads and Amazon.

The Obamas receives mixed reviews, with ratings ranging from 1 to 5 stars. Readers appreciate the behind-the-scenes look at the First Family's adjustment to White House life and the challenges they faced. Many find Michelle Obama's portrayal sympathetic and strong-willed, contrary to media reports. Some criticize Kantor's writing style and question the veracity of her claims about the Obamas' private thoughts and feelings. Overall, the book is seen as an entertaining, if sometimes shallow, glimpse into the Obama presidency and marriage.

About the Author

Jodi Kantor is a New York Times correspondent who has covered Barack and Michelle Obama since 2007. She graduated from Columbia University and briefly attended Harvard Law School before pursuing journalism at Slate.com. Kantor joined the Times in 2003 as Arts & Leisure editor. She has received accolades including a Columbia Young Alumni Achievement Award and recognition from Crain's New York Business. Kantor appears regularly on television shows and has written about various political figures. Despite being a Washington correspondent, she resides in Brooklyn with her family.

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