Return of the Prodigal Son

1. The Prodigal Son: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Return

I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.

The universal journey. The story of the prodigal son represents the human journey of leaving home, losing oneself, and ultimately returning. This journey is not just a physical departure but a spiritual one, where we seek love and fulfillment in places that can never truly satisfy us.

The moment of realization. The turning point comes when we "come to our senses" and recognize our true identity as beloved children of God. This awakening often occurs in our darkest moments, when we have exhausted all other options and finally understand that our deepest needs can only be met by returning to our spiritual home.

The courage to return. Returning home requires courage and humility. It means letting go of our false identities, admitting our mistakes, and trusting in a love that seems too good to be true. The journey back is not about earning forgiveness but about accepting the unconditional love that has always been waiting for us.

2. The Elder Son: Overcoming Resentment and Finding Compassion

The lostness of the resentful "saint" is so hard to reach precisely because it is so closely wedded to the desire to be good and virtuous.

The hidden struggle. The elder son represents the struggle of those who have always tried to do the right thing but harbor deep resentment and jealousy. This internal conflict is often more challenging to overcome than the obvious transgressions of the younger son.

Breaking free from comparison. The elder son's resentment stems from a mentality of comparison and competition. To overcome this, we must learn to embrace God's non-comparing love, understanding that each person is uniquely valued and loved.

The path to freedom. True freedom comes from letting go of our need for recognition and embracing gratitude. By choosing to celebrate others' joy rather than resenting it, we can break free from the prison of our own making and experience the fullness of God's love.

3. The Father's Unconditional Love: A Model of Divine Compassion

Here is the God I want to believe in: a Father who, from the beginning of creation, has stretched out his arms in merciful blessing, never forcing himself on anyone, but always waiting; never letting his arms drop down in despair, but always hoping that his children will return so that he can speak words of love to them and let his tired arms rest on their shoulders.

The nature of divine love. The father in the parable embodies God's unconditional love, which is:

• Patient and waiting
• Freely given without expectation of return
• Equally abundant for all children
• Restorative and healing

Breaking human expectations. This love challenges our human notions of justice and fairness. It doesn't keep score or demand penance but freely offers restoration and celebration.

A call to imitation. Jesus invites us to embody this same love in our own lives, becoming "compassionate as your Father is compassionate." This radical love becomes the cornerstone of our spiritual transformation.

4. Rembrandt's Painting: A Visual Representation of Spiritual Transformation

Rembrandt's painting has remained very close to me throughout this time. I have moved it around many times: from my office to the chapel, from the chapel to the living room of the Dayspring (the house of prayer at Daybreak), and from the living room of the Dayspring back to the chapel.

A lifelong companion. Rembrandt's "The Return of the Prodigal Son" becomes more than a painting; it serves as a spiritual guide and mirror for self-reflection. Its power lies in its ability to reveal different aspects of the spiritual journey as we return to it throughout our lives.

Visual theology. The painting communicates deep spiritual truths through its visual elements:

• The father's hands: one masculine and strong, one feminine and tender, representing the fullness of God's love
• The contrast between light and darkness: symbolizing the spiritual journey from lostness to homecoming
• The bystanders: representing our own journey from observers to participants in God's love

Personal transformation. As we engage with the painting, we are invited to see ourselves in each character – the prodigal son, the elder son, and ultimately, the father – reflecting our own spiritual growth and transformation.

5. Becoming the Father: The Ultimate Spiritual Journey

The return to the Father is ultimately the challenge to become the Father.

Beyond sonship. The spiritual journey doesn't end with experiencing God's love as a son or daughter. The ultimate call is to grow into spiritual fatherhood or motherhood, embodying God's compassion for others.

A radical transformation. This shift requires:

• Moving from seeking love to freely giving it
• Letting go of our need for control and recognition
• Embracing the vulnerability of unconditional love

The challenge of spiritual maturity. Becoming the father means facing our own fears, insecurities, and limitations. It calls us to a place of spiritual adulthood where we take responsibility for offering God's love to others, even when it's difficult or costly.

6. The Challenge of Spiritual Fatherhood: Grief, Forgiveness, and Generosity

Grief, forgiveness, and generosity are, then, the three ways by which the image of the Father can grow in me.

Grief as a pathway. Spiritual fatherhood requires us to grieve for the brokenness of the world and our own participation in it. This grief opens our hearts to genuine compassion and solidarity with others.

The discipline of forgiveness. True forgiveness means letting go of our need for apologies, explanations, or change in the other person. It's a choice to offer love freely, just as we have been freely loved.

Generosity without limits. Spiritual fatherhood calls us to give ourselves away completely, without seeking anything in return. This radical generosity reflects the inexhaustible love of God and creates the family it believes in.

7. Homecoming: Embracing Our True Identity as God's Beloved

From God's perspective, one hidden act of repentance, one little gesture of selfless love, one moment of true forgiveness is all that is needed to bring God from his throne to run to his returning son and to fill the heavens with sounds of divine joy.

The heart of the Gospel. At its core, the parable of the prodigal son reveals the fundamental truth of our identity: we are God's beloved children, unconditionally loved and welcomed home.

Living from our true identity. Embracing this identity transforms how we see ourselves and others:

• We no longer need to prove our worth
• We can let go of comparison and competition
• We become free to love others as we have been loved

A continual return. Homecoming is not a one-time event but a lifelong process of returning to the truth of who we are in God. Each time we choose trust over fear, forgiveness over resentment, and love over indifference, we participate in the divine celebration of homecoming.

Last updated: July 25, 2024