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Living a Jewish Life, Updated and Revised Edition

Living a Jewish Life, Updated and Revised Edition

Jewish Traditions, Customs and Values for Today's Families
by Anita Diamant 2009 322 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. Jewish Life is a Balance of Tradition and Personal Choice

"Judaism purposefully mixes and confuses these categories: community, prayer, and learning."

Tradition meets modernity. Judaism is not a one-size-fits-all religion, but rather a rich tapestry of traditions, customs, and personal interpretations. Liberal Judaism encourages individuals to make informed choices about their level of observance and practice.

Personal responsibility. Each Jew is empowered to:

  • Study and interpret Jewish texts
  • Choose which mitzvot (commandments) to observe
  • Decide how to integrate Jewish values into daily life

The key is to approach Judaism with intention and thoughtfulness, finding a balance between honoring ancient traditions and adapting them to contemporary life.

2. The Jewish Home: A Sacred Space for Living Judaism

"The Jewish home has been called a mikdash ma'at, a little sanctuary."

Creating a Jewish atmosphere. The home is the primary arena for living out Jewish values and practices. This involves:

  • Observing Shabbat and holidays
  • Keeping kosher (to varying degrees)
  • Displaying Jewish art and ritual objects
  • Engaging in Jewish learning and discussions

Family rituals. Regular practices help create a Jewish identity:

  • Lighting Shabbat candles
  • Reciting blessings over food
  • Discussing the weekly Torah portion
  • Celebrating lifecycle events

By infusing the home with Jewish content and meaning, families create a foundation for Jewish continuity and personal spiritual growth.

3. Jewish Time: Shabbat and Holidays as Spiritual Anchors

"Shabbat is re-created weekly as Jews make Shabbat."

Sanctifying time. The Jewish calendar provides a framework for connecting to Jewish values and history throughout the year:

  • Shabbat: Weekly day of rest and renewal
  • High Holidays: Time for reflection and repentance
  • Pilgrimage Festivals: Connecting to agricultural and historical roots
  • Minor Holidays: Celebrating Jewish resilience and culture

Rituals and observances. Each holiday has its own customs and practices:

  • Special foods
  • Unique prayers and liturgy
  • Symbolic objects and rituals
  • Community gatherings

By observing these special times, Jews step out of the everyday and connect to something larger than themselves, reinforcing their Jewish identity and values.

4. Tzedakah and Tikkun Olam: Core Jewish Values in Action

"To elaborate on the story is praiseworthy."

Ethical imperatives. Judaism places a strong emphasis on social justice and repairing the world:

  • Tzedakah: Righteous giving, not just charity
  • Gemilut Hasadim: Acts of loving-kindness
  • Tikkun Olam: Working to repair and perfect the world

Practical application. These values are lived out through:

  • Regular charitable giving
  • Volunteering in the community
  • Advocating for social and environmental causes
  • Ethical business practices

By engaging in these actions, Jews fulfill the prophetic call to pursue justice and create a more equitable world for all people.

5. Jewish Education: A Lifelong Journey of Learning and Growth

"Study may be the only undisputed and shared value upon which all Jews, regardless of affiliation or belief, can agree."

Continuous learning. Jewish education is not limited to childhood but is seen as a lifelong pursuit:

  • Formal education: Day schools, supplementary schools, adult education classes
  • Informal education: Summer camps, Israel trips, youth groups
  • Personal study: Reading Jewish texts, attending lectures, engaging in discussions

Multiple approaches. Jewish learning can take many forms:

  • Text study: Torah, Talmud, commentaries
  • History and culture
  • Hebrew language
  • Contemporary Jewish issues

The goal is to cultivate a love of learning and a deep engagement with Jewish wisdom, allowing individuals to continually grow in their understanding and practice of Judaism.

6. The Jewish Life Cycle: Marking Milestones with Meaning

"Every Jewish baby is considered a link in the chain that extends back to the birth of Isaac, the first Jewish baby, and extends forward to the day when the world will be peaceful and whole."

Sacred transitions. Judaism provides rituals and ceremonies to mark significant life events:

  • Birth and naming
  • Bar/Bat Mitzvah
  • Marriage
  • Death and mourning

Communal celebration. These lifecycle events are not just personal milestones but opportunities for community involvement and support:

  • Welcoming new members to the community
  • Celebrating individual growth and achievement
  • Providing comfort and support during times of loss

By marking these transitions with Jewish ritual and meaning, individuals and families connect their personal stories to the larger narrative of the Jewish people.

7. Community and Belonging: The Heartbeat of Jewish Life

"Do not separate yourself from the community."

Communal structures. Jewish life is inherently communal, with various institutions providing support and connection:

  • Synagogues
  • Jewish Community Centers
  • Jewish Federations
  • Cultural organizations

Participation and engagement. Being part of the Jewish community involves:

  • Regular synagogue attendance
  • Volunteering for Jewish organizations
  • Participating in Jewish cultural events
  • Supporting Jewish causes

The community provides a sense of belonging, mutual support, and a framework for living out Jewish values and practices.

8. Israel: A Spiritual Homeland and Source of Jewish Identity

"Israel exerts a gravitational pull on Jewish hearts and minds."

Multifaceted connection. Israel plays a complex role in Jewish life:

  • Religious significance: Biblical homeland
  • Cultural center: Modern Hebrew language and Israeli arts
  • Political entity: A Jewish state in the modern world

Engagement options. Jews can connect with Israel through:

  • Travel and study programs
  • Supporting Israeli causes and organizations
  • Engaging with Israeli culture and current events
  • Aliyah (immigration to Israel)

While opinions on Israeli politics may vary, Israel remains a central part of Jewish identity and a source of connection to Jewish history and destiny.

9. Jewish Diversity: Embracing Multiple Paths Within Judaism

"Liberal Judaism is just over 200 years old, which in the context of Jewish time is relatively young."

Denominational spectrum. Modern Judaism encompasses a range of approaches:

  • Orthodox: Traditional observance
  • Conservative: Balancing tradition and modernity
  • Reform: Emphasizing personal choice and social justice
  • Reconstructionist: Judaism as an evolving civilization
  • Renewal: Incorporating spirituality and mysticism

Unity in diversity. Despite differences, there is a shared sense of Jewish peoplehood:

  • Common history and texts
  • Shared holidays and lifecycle events
  • Commitment to Jewish continuity

The diversity of Jewish expression allows individuals to find a path that resonates with their personal beliefs and values while remaining connected to the larger Jewish community.

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Average of 1k+ ratings from Goodreads and Amazon.

Living a Jewish Life is generally well-received, with readers praising its accessibility and comprehensive coverage of Jewish customs and traditions. Many find it useful as an introductory guide, particularly for those new to Judaism or looking to enrich their practice. The book focuses on liberal Judaism and provides practical information on holidays, rituals, and daily life. Some readers note its limitations in covering Orthodox practices and wish for more theological depth. Overall, it's considered a valuable resource for understanding Jewish lifestyle and culture.

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About the Author

Anita Diamant is a prolific author known for her bestselling novel The Red Tent and numerous books on Jewish life and culture. She has written thirteen books, including four other novels and six non-fiction guides on contemporary Jewish practices. Diamant's works cover topics such as weddings, raising children, and living a Jewish life. Her writing extends beyond books to include journalism, with articles appearing in various magazines and newspapers. Diamant's latest non-fiction work, released in 2021, explores menstrual justice, connecting thematically to her earlier novel The Red Tent. Her books have been widely published internationally, demonstrating her global impact on literature and Jewish cultural understanding.

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