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Retire Before Mom and Dad

Retire Before Mom and Dad

The Simple Numbers Behind A Lifetime of Financial Freedom
by Rob Berger 2019 268 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. The Money Multiplier: Your Financial Superpower

Every dollar we put to work is like an employee.

Compound interest is powerful. Over time, even small amounts of money invested regularly can grow into substantial wealth. This is due to the effect of compound interest, where you earn returns not just on your initial investment, but also on the accumulated interest over time.

Time is a crucial factor. The earlier you start investing, the more time your money has to grow. For example, investing $208 per month for 45 years at a 9.3% annual return can result in over $1.7 million. This demonstrates the power of starting early and investing consistently.

Small changes matter. Even minor adjustments to your savings or investment strategy can have significant long-term effects:

  • Increasing your monthly investment by just $17 (from $208 to $225) over 45 years can add nearly $140,000 to your final balance
  • Improving your annual return by 1% (from 8.3% to 9.3%) can increase your final balance by almost $500,000 over 45 years

2. Seven Levels of Financial Freedom: A Journey, Not a Destination

Financial Freedom is about how much you spend, not how much you make.

Financial Freedom is progressive. The author defines seven levels of Financial Freedom based on the number of months of expenses saved:

  1. 1 month
  2. 3 months
  3. 6 months
  4. 1 year
  5. 5 years
  6. 10 years
  7. 25 years (Ultimate Financial Freedom)

Each level provides benefits. As you progress through these levels, you gain more control over your life and career decisions. For example, at Level 5 (5 years of expenses saved), you have significant flexibility to change jobs or take career risks without financial stress.

Focus on expenses, not income. The key to achieving these levels is controlling your spending rather than focusing solely on increasing your income. This principle applies regardless of your income level, making Financial Freedom achievable for people across various income brackets.

3. The 4% Rule: Your Guide to Retirement Savings

The 4% Rule is a guideline on how much of our Freedom Fund we can spend each year without running out of money.

Understanding the 4% Rule. This rule suggests that you can safely withdraw 4% of your retirement savings in the first year of retirement, and then adjust that amount for inflation each subsequent year, with a high probability of not running out of money for at least 30 years.

Calculating your target. To determine how much you need to save for retirement using the 4% Rule:

  1. Estimate your annual retirement expenses
  2. Multiply that number by 25

For example:

  • If you need $40,000 per year in retirement
  • Your target retirement savings would be $1,000,000 ($40,000 x 25)

Limitations and considerations. While the 4% Rule is a useful guideline, it's not guaranteed and may need adjustment based on:

  • Your expected retirement duration (longer than 30 years may require a lower withdrawal rate)
  • Market conditions and investment returns
  • Changes in your expenses or lifestyle in retirement

4. Saving Rate: The Key to Accelerating Your Financial Freedom

The more we save, the less we spend. As our Saving Rate goes up, it impacts our years to Financial Freedom in two important ways.

Saving Rate's dual impact. Your Saving Rate, which is the percentage of your income you save, affects your journey to Financial Freedom in two crucial ways:

  1. It increases the amount you're investing, helping your wealth grow faster
  2. It decreases your expenses, reducing the amount you need to save for Financial Freedom

The Slingshot Effect. As you increase your Saving Rate, you create a powerful Slingshot Effect:

  • A higher Saving Rate means you're accumulating wealth faster
  • A lower Spending Rate means you need less money to maintain your lifestyle in retirement

Time to Financial Freedom. Your Saving Rate dramatically affects how long it takes to reach Financial Freedom:

  • 10% Saving Rate → 43 years to Financial Freedom
  • 20% Saving Rate → 32 years to Financial Freedom
  • 30% Saving Rate → 25 years to Financial Freedom
  • 50% Saving Rate → 15 years to Financial Freedom

5. The Money Audit: Painless Ways to Save

There are two important things to learn from this example: First, our minds do not intuitively grasp the power of compounding.

The Money Audit process. This is a systematic approach to reviewing and optimizing your expenses:

  1. List all your monthly bills and their amounts
  2. For each item, ask:
    • Do I really need or want this?
    • Do I need exactly what I have?
    • Can I get what I need for less?
  3. Execute changes based on your answers

Focus on recurring expenses. The most impactful savings often come from recurring expenses. For example, reducing a monthly bill by $65 can result in savings of over $126,000 over 30 years when invested at a 9.3% return.

One-N-Done principle. Prioritize changes that require action just once but result in ongoing savings. Examples include:

  • Negotiating a lower rate for insurance or utilities
  • Switching to a cheaper cell phone plan
  • Refinancing debt to a lower interest rate

6. Index Funds: The Simple Path to Investing Success

Index funds are like having your cake and eating it too. They are cheap, simple, and most outperform actively managed funds over the long run.

Understanding index funds. These are mutual funds that aim to track the performance of a specific market index, such as the S&P 500. They offer several advantages:

  • Low costs (typically much lower fees than actively managed funds)
  • Broad diversification
  • Consistent performance relative to the market

The case for index funds. Research consistently shows that index funds outperform most actively managed funds over long periods:

  • In 2016, two-thirds of actively managed large-cap U.S. funds underperformed the S&P 500 Index
  • Over 15-year periods, 90% of actively managed funds underperform their respective indexes

Simple investing strategies. You can create a well-diversified portfolio with just a few index funds:

  1. Target Date Retirement Fund: A single fund that automatically adjusts its asset allocation as you approach retirement
  2. Three-Fund Portfolio:
    • U.S. Total Stock Market Index Fund
    • International Stock Index Fund
    • U.S. Bond Index Fund

7. Debt: Understanding Its Impact on Your Financial Journey

Debt is like trying to run a race with a thumb tack in your shoe.

The true cost of debt. Debt, especially high-interest debt like credit cards, can significantly hinder your journey to Financial Freedom:

  • A $4,268 credit card balance at 16.49% APR, paying only the minimum, can take 17 years to pay off and cost over $9,000 in interest
  • This same debt, if invested instead at 9.3% return, could grow to over $20,000 in 17 years

Types of debt. Not all debt is created equal:

  1. Lifestyle debt (credit cards): Generally the worst kind, often funding unnecessary expenses
  2. Car loans: Can encourage overspending on depreciating assets
  3. Mortgages: Can be reasonable if not excessive, as homes tend to appreciate over time
  4. Student loans: Can be worthwhile if the degree leads to higher earning potential

Debt's impact on Financial Freedom. While debt doesn't make Financial Freedom impossible, it does make it harder:

  • Debt payments increase your monthly expenses, requiring a larger Freedom Fund
  • However, paying off debt can help develop good financial habits and dramatically increase your Saving Rate once the debt is gone

8. Automation: The Secret to Consistent Savings

Do not save what is left after spending, but spend what is left after saving.

The power of automation. Setting up automatic transfers for savings and investments removes the need for willpower and ensures consistent progress toward your financial goals. This approach leverages behavioral psychology to make saving effortless.

Implementing automation. Follow these steps to automate your savings:

  1. Determine your Saving Rate
  2. Set up automatic transfers from your paycheck or checking account to:
    • Retirement accounts (401(k), IRA)
    • Emergency fund
    • Other investment accounts
  3. Automate bill payments to avoid late fees and maintain a good credit score

The impact of auto-enrollment. Research shows that automatic enrollment in 401(k) plans significantly increases participation and savings rates:

  • Companies using auto-enrollment have higher percentages of employees contributing to 401(k) plans
  • Auto-enrolled employees tend to contribute more on average

9. The Progress Principle: Small Wins Lead to Big Results

Of all the things that can boost emotions, motivation, and perceptions during a workday, the single most important is making progress in meaningful work.

The power of small wins. Achieving small, regular progress towards your goals can significantly boost motivation and productivity. This principle applies to financial goals as well as other areas of life.

Applying the Progress Principle to finances. Instead of focusing solely on long-term financial goals, break them down into smaller, more achievable milestones:

  • Increase your Saving Rate by 1% every few months
  • Celebrate paying off individual debts, even if small
  • Track and acknowledge monthly increases in your net worth

Strategies for creating progress. Implement these ideas to generate a sense of progress in your financial journey:

  • Set up automatic increases to your 401(k) contributions (e.g., 1% per year)
  • Use half of each raise or bonus to increase your Saving Rate
  • Create a visual representation of your progress, like a debt thermometer or savings tracker

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Retire Before Mom & Dad receives overwhelmingly positive reviews, with readers praising its clear explanations of complex financial concepts and practical advice for achieving financial freedom. Many appreciate the book's accessibility for beginners while still offering valuable insights for more experienced investors. Readers highlight the author's straightforward writing style, emphasis on the power of saving and investing, and actionable strategies for building wealth. Some reviewers note that the content may be too basic for those already familiar with personal finance principles, but overall, the book is highly recommended for anyone seeking to improve their financial situation.

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About the Author

Rob Berger is a Forbes Deputy Editor, investor, blogger, and former lawyer. He founded the popular personal finance website doughroller.net in 2007, which has since attracted millions of visitors. Berger's work has been featured in prominent publications such as MSN Money, U.S. News and World Report, and Yahoo! Finance. He hosts the "Dough Roller Money Podcast" and is known for sharing practical financial advice. A graduate of Boston University School of Law, Berger has experience as a litigation attorney and securities industry regulator. He resides in Fairfax, VA with his wife and has two grown children.

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