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The Smart but Scattered Guide to Success

The Smart but Scattered Guide to Success

How to Use Your Brain's Executive Skills to Keep Up, Stay Calm, and Get Organized at Work and at Home
by Peg Dawson 2016 294 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. Executive Skills Are Your Brain's Daily Manager

Wrapped inside the prefrontal cortex (the part of the brain just behind the forehead) is a set of skills called executive skills—skills that are designed to help you manage tasks of daily living.

Your brain's command center. Executive skills (ES) are the higher-level cognitive abilities located in the prefrontal cortex, essential for managing everyday tasks and achieving goals. They act like the executive functions of a company, overseeing planning, organization, time management, and self-regulation. Life in the 21st century, with its complexity and constant demands, taxes these skills more than ever before.

The Essential 12. The book identifies twelve key executive skills crucial for navigating work, home, and relationships:

  • Response Inhibition
  • Working Memory
  • Emotional Control
  • Task Initiation
  • Sustained Attention
  • Planning/Prioritizing
  • Organization
  • Time Management
  • Flexibility
  • Metacognition
  • Goal-Directed Persistence
  • Stress Tolerance

Foundation for success. Strong executive skills enable you to execute tasks efficiently, stay organized, manage your time, control impulses, and adapt to change. Weaknesses in these areas can lead to chronic stress, missed deadlines, disorganization, and difficulties in achieving personal and professional goals. Understanding these skills is the first step to managing the pressures of modern life.

2. Understand Your Unique Executive Skills Profile

We have found that when people can identify their individual profile of strengths and weaknesses, they can use this information to function better in relationships and in home and work settings.

Know thyself. Everyone possesses a unique pattern of executive skill strengths and weaknesses. Identifying this personal profile is fundamental to improving daily functioning and reducing stress. Self-assessment tools, like the Executive Skills Questionnaire, help pinpoint which skills come naturally and which require more effort.

Strengths and weaknesses. Your profile reveals why some tasks feel easy and even enjoyable, while others are consistently challenging or aversive. For example, someone strong in planning might excel at organizing complex projects, while someone weak in organization might struggle with keeping their workspace tidy. Recognizing these patterns provides clarity and reduces self-blame.

Impact on daily life. Your executive skills profile significantly influences your comfort level in different environments and situations. It explains why certain job demands might be a good fit or a source of frustration, or why managing specific household tasks feels effortless or overwhelming. This self-awareness is empowering, allowing you to make informed choices and target areas for growth.

3. Manage Weaknesses by Modifying Your Environment

The place to start in grappling with your executive skill weaknesses is to look for ways to work around them.

Work smarter, not harder. Before attempting to improve a weak executive skill directly, explore strategies to modify your environment to minimize its negative impact. This involves altering the physical space, adjusting tasks, or leveraging support from others. These modifications can significantly reduce the effort required to function effectively.

Environmental adjustments. Modify your physical surroundings to provide cues and reduce distractions. Examples include:

  • Placing items you need to remember by the door.
  • Designing organized spaces with labeled bins or trays.
  • Setting up a workspace free from tempting distractions.
  • Using visual reminders like whiteboards or Post-it notes.

Task and social modifications. Break down overwhelming tasks into smaller, manageable steps. Pair unpleasant tasks with enjoyable activities to make them less aversive. Enlist the help of friends, family, or coworkers by asking them to provide reminders, hold you accountable, or trade tasks based on complementary strengths. This "off-loading" reduces the burden on your weak skills.

4. Improve Executive Skills Through Targeted Practice

But suppose as an adult you want to try to change one or more of your executive skills, improve an area that you’ve identified as weak and that is an impediment in your work or personal life. Since the areas of the brain that underlie executive skills are no longer undergoing significant change, is it really possible for you to change one of your executive skills? The answer is an emphatic yes.

Neuroplasticity in adulthood. While the brain's optimal period for executive skill development is childhood and adolescence (peaking around age 25), the adult brain retains the capacity for change through neuroplasticity. Improving a weak skill requires conscious effort and consistent practice, but it is achievable. This effort leads to underlying brain changes, making the skill more efficient over time.

The Action Plan. A structured approach is key to skill improvement. The book outlines a 10-step Action Plan:

  • Identify a specific challenging activity.
  • Describe your current performance level.
  • Set a realistic, specific goal.
  • Set a deadline for achieving the goal.
  • Make a detailed practice plan (what, when, how long).
  • Pick a specific start date and time.
  • Create visible or audible reminders.
  • Stick to your plan, even partially.
  • Use positive self-statements.
  • Find a motivator or reward.

Start small, build momentum. Begin with small, manageable practice sessions (e.g., 5-10 minutes daily) to avoid burnout and build confidence. Gradually increase the duration or complexity as the skill strengthens. Consistency is more important than intensity in the early stages of habit formation and skill development.

5. Effort and Practice Build Stronger Brains

So, in the world of executive skills, an old dog can learn new tricks.

Effort fuels change. Improving executive skills as an adult requires significant effort, especially initially. This effort draws from a limited "pool" of energy, which can be temporarily depleted. Understanding this helps manage expectations and avoid discouragement during the change process.

Practice makes permanent. Consistent practice is the engine of neuroplasticity. As you repeatedly engage in a new behavior or use a weak skill, the neural pathways supporting that skill become stronger and more efficient. This reduces the energy required over time, making the skill feel more automatic and less effortful.

Replenish your energy. Certain activities can help replenish the mental energy needed for effortful practice:

  • Physical exercise
  • Relaxation or meditation
  • Visualizing successful outcomes
  • Small, periodic rewards
  • Positive self-talk and self-efficacy statements
  • Daily short practice sessions

By managing your energy and consistently engaging in targeted practice, you can build stronger executive skills and make lasting behavioral changes.

6. Leverage Strengths to Compensate for Weaknesses

Ideally, after reading this book, you will not only be able to use your own strengths to get around your weaknesses, but you may even be able to figure out how to tap into the strengths of others to make up for your weaknesses.

Play to your advantages. Your executive skill strengths are valuable resources that can be used to counteract your weaknesses. Identify your strongest skills and brainstorm ways they can support areas where you struggle. This involves consciously applying a strength to navigate a challenging situation.

Examples of leveraging strengths:

  • Using strong planning skills to break down a task you struggle to initiate.
  • Relying on strong working memory to keep track of details when organization is weak.
  • Drawing on goal-directed persistence to push through tasks requiring sustained attention.

Collaborate with others. Recognize that others have different executive skill profiles. In work or home settings, identify the strengths of those around you and explore opportunities for collaboration. Trading tasks or responsibilities based on complementary skills can benefit everyone involved and improve overall efficiency.

Mutual support. Building relationships where individuals leverage each other's strengths creates a supportive environment. This works best when it's a two-way street, with everyone contributing their unique abilities to help the group function more smoothly. Understanding profiles fosters empathy and reduces conflict arising from skill differences.

7. Executive Skills Impact Work, Home, and Relationships

Our hope for the readers of this book is that you will carry away two things in particular. First of all, we hope to give you tools and strategies for improving whatever executive skill weaknesses you want to work on. Second, we hope you will become more forgiving of yourselves and others for the evident executive skill weaknesses as well as more appreciative of your strengths and those of the people you live and work with...

Different contexts, same skills. Your executive skills profile influences your functioning across all major life domains: work, home, and relationships. While the specific manifestations might differ (e.g., disorganization at home vs. at work), the underlying skill patterns remain consistent. The demands of each environment highlight different strengths and weaknesses.

Workplace dynamics. Executive skills are critical for job performance, task management, and collaboration. Understanding your profile helps assess job fit and navigate interactions with colleagues who have different skill sets. Strategies involve modifying tasks, seeking support, and potentially discussing skill development with supervisors.

Home management. Running a household requires a diverse set of executive skills, from organization and time management to task initiation and planning. Identifying which chores or responsibilities are effortful due to weak skills allows for targeted strategies, including task modification, creating routines, and distributing tasks among family members based on strengths.

Relationship harmony. Mismatches in executive skill profiles are common sources of tension in relationships. Recognizing these differences fosters empathy and provides a framework for managing conflict. Strategies include open communication, leveraging complementary strengths, setting clear expectations, and working together on shared challenges.

8. Specific Strategies for Each Executive Skill

We take each executive skill separately and identify common problems that arise when the skill is a weakness and propose some strategies you can use to tweak it, improve it, or work around it.

Tailored interventions. The book provides detailed strategies for each of the twelve executive skills, acknowledging that each presents unique challenges and requires specific approaches. These strategies are categorized into environmental modifications (working around the weakness) and practice-based skill building (improving the weakness).

Examples of skill-specific strategies:

  • Response Inhibition: Avoiding triggering environments, using "wait time," practicing replacement behaviors.
  • Working Memory: Using checklists, routines, visual/auditory cues, off-loading information to technology.
  • Emotional Control: Identifying triggers, practicing coping strategies (deep breathing, self-talk), seeking support.
  • Task Initiation: Breaking tasks into small steps, setting short time limits, using external prompts.
  • Sustained Attention: Minimizing distractions, building in breaks, pairing tasks with enjoyable activities.
  • Planning/Prioritizing: Using templates, brainstorming, breaking down complex tasks, seeking input from others.
  • Organization: Decluttering, creating and maintaining systems, using visual labels, practicing daily tidying.
  • Time Management: Setting alarms, using timers, estimating time, tracking actual time spent, creating schedules.
  • Flexibility: Practicing small changes in routine, anticipating potential obstacles, developing "Plan B" strategies.
  • Metacognition: Reflecting on mistakes, asking for feedback, practicing problem-solving steps, using self-questioning.
  • Goal-Directed Persistence: Setting clear goals, creating action plans with deadlines, using visual reminders, rewarding progress.
  • Stress Tolerance: Avoiding stressful environments, modifying stressful tasks, practicing relaxation techniques, seeking support.

Personalized approach. The most effective strategy is one that is tailored to your specific weakness, personal preferences, and the context in which the weakness occurs. Experiment with different techniques to find what works best for you.

9. Technology Can Be Your Executive Skills Assistant

So another question to ask yourself as you’re figuring out ways to manage an executive skill weakness is this: Is there some way I can off-load aspects of the task that make it effortful and therefore likely to be avoided?

Off-loading to technology. Technology offers a powerful array of tools to compensate for executive skill weaknesses, particularly those related to working memory, organization, and time management. Using apps and digital devices allows you to "off-load" cognitive tasks, freeing up mental resources and reducing the likelihood of errors or omissions.

Examples of technological support:

  • Reminders and Alarms: Smartphone alarms, calendar notifications, and voice memo apps for appointments and tasks.
  • Organization: Digital note-taking apps, cloud storage, email filters, and specialized organizing apps for files, photos, or receipts.
  • Time Management: Time-tracking apps, timers (like Pomodoro), and website blockers to manage focus and productivity.
  • Planning & Goal Setting: Project management software, to-do list apps (like Wunderlist), and goal-tracking platforms (like stickK.com).
  • Emotional Control: Meditation apps (like Headspace) and relaxation tools.

Externalizing cognition. Technology helps externalize plans, goals, and information, making them more salient and less reliant on internal memory or willpower. This is particularly beneficial for individuals with weak working memory or task initiation. Explore different apps and tools to find those that best fit your specific needs and preferences.

10. Mindfulness and Self-Talk Boost Emotional Control

Basically, self-talk helps you achieve emotional control both at a behavioral level and at a brain level.

Mindfulness meditation. This ancient practice, now supported by modern research, can significantly improve emotional control and other executive skills like sustained attention and flexibility. Regular meditation practice helps regulate the amygdala (the brain's alarm system) and strengthens the connection to the prefrontal cortex, allowing for calmer responses to stress and triggers.

Self-talk as a tool. What you say to yourself profoundly impacts your emotions and behavior. Positive self-talk, affirmations, and instructional self-statements can help manage difficult feelings, increase confidence, and improve performance in challenging situations. Research shows that using your own name or "you" (second person) in self-talk can be particularly effective.

Cognitive restructuring. Challenge negative or irrational thoughts that contribute to emotional distress. Replace them with more balanced and realistic appraisals. This cognitive-behavioral technique, combined with self-talk, helps reframe stressful situations and build emotional resilience.

Practice and consistency. Both mindfulness and self-talk require consistent practice to become effective tools. Start with short sessions or integrate them into daily routines. Over time, these practices can lead to a greater sense of calm, improved emotional regulation, and a more positive outlook.

11. Planning and Persistence Drive Long-Term Goals

The capacity to have a goal, follow through to the completion of the goal, and not be put off by or distracted by competing interests.

Goal-directed persistence. This executive skill is the ability to select a goal, create a plan, and stick with it despite obstacles or distractions. It integrates many other executive skills, including planning, task initiation, sustained attention, and flexibility. Strengthening this skill is crucial for achieving significant personal and professional milestones.

Implementation intentions. Simply setting a goal is often not enough. Developing specific implementation intentions, outlining how and when you will take action, significantly increases the likelihood of success. This involves creating "If..., then..." plans for potential obstacles and scheduling specific times and places for goal-related activities.

Break it down. Large, long-term goals can feel overwhelming. Break them down into smaller, discrete subgoals or tasks with interim deadlines. Achieving these smaller victories provides motivation and a sense of progress, fueling persistence towards the ultimate goal. Visualizing the desired outcome and the steps to get there can also enhance motivation.

Research-backed strategies. Other techniques to boost persistence include:

  • Mental contrasting (visualizing success and overcoming obstacles).
  • Decision balance sheets (weighing gains and losses of pursuing the goal).
  • Booster plans (periodically revisiting and updating implementation intentions).
  • Focusing on actions rather than just the outcome for difficult goals.
  • Publicly stating your goals for accountability.

12. Preserve Your Executive Edge as You Age

It turns out there are things you can begin doing now, no matter what your current age is, to preserve your cognitive functioning in your later years.

Aging and executive skills. While some decline in executive skills, particularly working memory, is a normal part of aging, it is not inevitable or uniform. Lifestyle choices and targeted activities can significantly impact cognitive health and help preserve executive functions throughout life. Neurogenesis (the birth of new neurons) continues in adulthood.

A prescription for preservation. Engaging in activities that challenge the brain and body can build cognitive reserve and maintain neural connections. Key strategies include:

  • Physical Exercise: Regular aerobic exercise improves blood flow to the brain and supports neurogenesis.
  • Mental Stimulation: Continuously learning new things, engaging in complex tasks, and challenging your mind builds new neural pathways.
  • Social Engagement: Maintaining strong social connections is linked to better cognitive function and emotional well-being.
  • Stress Management: Chronic stress is detrimental to brain health; practicing relaxation techniques is crucial.
  • Healthy Lifestyle: Eating a balanced diet, getting sufficient sleep, and avoiding toxins (like excessive alcohol) support overall brain health.

Lifelong learning. Embrace opportunities to learn and grow throughout your life. This doesn't have to mean formal education; it can be learning a new language, playing a musical instrument, taking up a new hobby, or engaging in mentally stimulating games. These activities keep your brain active and resilient.

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The Smart but Scattered Guide to Success receives mostly positive reviews for its practical approach to improving executive skills. Readers appreciate the accessible language, questionnaires, and strategies provided. Many find it helpful for understanding and addressing executive function challenges, particularly those with ADHD or neurodivergent traits. Some criticize the repetitive nature and simplistic solutions, while others praise its comprehensive overview. The book is noted for its usefulness in both personal development and professional settings, though some suggest it may be overwhelming for beginners.

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About the Author

Peg Dawson, Ed.D. is a highly experienced psychologist specializing in learning and attention disorders. She received her doctorate from the University of Virginia and has worked extensively as a school psychologist and at the Center for Learning and Attention Disorders. Dawson has held leadership positions in various professional organizations, including serving as president of the National Association of School Psychologists. She has authored numerous articles and books on topics such as retention, reading disorders, and executive skills. Dawson's contributions to the field have been recognized with the National Association of School Psychologists' Lifetime Achievement Award in 2006.

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