Tiny Experiments

1. Embrace Systematic Curiosity Over Linear Goals

Systematic curiosity provides an unshakable certitude in your ability to grow even when the exact path forward is uncertain, with the knowledge that your actions can align with your most authentic ambitions.

Beyond traditional goal-setting. Traditional goal-setting frameworks, like SMART goals, are designed for predictable environments, but today's world demands a more adaptable approach. Systematic curiosity offers a way to navigate uncertainty by focusing on exploration and learning rather than rigid targets. This involves a conscious commitment to inhabit the space between what you know and what you don't, not with fear, but with interest and openness.

The flaws of linear goals. Linear goals often stimulate fear, encourage toxic productivity, and breed competition and isolation. They conflate ambition with the single-minded pursuit of an end destination, creating a discouraging perspective where we are far from success. Instead, embrace the in-betweens, the liminal spaces where new possibilities emerge.

Shifting your mindset. Replace the old linear model of success with an experimental model of personal and professional growth. This new model involves committing to curiosity, practicing mindful productivity, collaborating with uncertainty, and growing with the world. By embracing systematic curiosity, you can transform uncertainty from something to escape to somewhere to explore.

2. Unleash Potential by Unlearning Cognitive Scripts

We each have within us unlimited possibilities; purpose is therefore never a singular discovery.

Breaking free from constraints. Cognitive scripts, internalized patterns that govern our thoughts and actions, can limit our perception of what is possible. These scripts, such as the Sequel, Crowdpleaser, and Epic scripts, confine us within artificial boundaries, hindering our ability to discover our true potential. To unlock new possibilities, we must unlearn these scripts and reclaim our cognitive freedom.

The three questions to ask. To avoid the trap of cognitive scripts, ask yourself:

• Are you following your past or discovering your path?
• Are you following the crowd or discovering your tribe?
• Are you following your passion or discovering your curiosity?

Becoming a self-anthropologist. To escape old ideas, think of yourself as an anthropologist with your own life as your topic of study. Conduct fieldwork by taking notes on your insights, energy levels, moods, and encounters. Use this data to formulate hypotheses and design experiments that challenge your assumptions and open new doors.

3. Design Tiny Experiments with Purpose and Flexibility

The beauty of shifting from linear goals to experiments is that you don’t have to force your decisions to fit into any notion of who you thought you were or wanted to be.

The power of pacts. A pact is a simple and repeatable activity that will inevitably bring you closer to achieving your authentic ambitions, regardless of the actual result of each trial. It follows a simple format: "I will [action] for [duration]." This commitment device encourages action and provides a framework for learning and growth.

Key characteristics of a pact:

• Purposeful: Provides meaning through the learning journey itself.
• Actionable: Doable with your current resources.
• Continuous: Simple and repeatable.
• Trackable: Easy to monitor progress.

Repeated trials. Committing in advance to a specific duration for your experiment forces you to wait until after a pre-agreed number of iterations before making a decision. This makes you less likely to abandon your pact because of one particularly challenging week. Shorter time frames are often more effective.

4. Cultivate Mindful Productivity by Honoring Time's True Nature

Embracing Kairos means letting go of the Taylorist ideal of maximizing every minute and instead appreciating the unique qualities of each moment that make up a life.

Beyond time management. Instead of treating time as a commodity to be managed, embrace the Greek concept of Kairos, which emphasizes the quality of time. This involves being more present, engaged, and attuned to the unique qualities of each moment. Shift the focus from what you do with your time to how you experience each moment.

Managing resources. Mindful productivity is centered around managing your physical, cognitive, and emotional resources. This involves:

• Energy: Aligning tasks with natural rhythms.
• Executive function: Avoiding multitasking.
• Emotions: Adapting stress response.

Kairos rituals. Design small acts that help you open a magic window for something you want to direct all your resources toward. These rituals can shift your mood, reconnect you to your body, or give you the chance to check in with yourself.

5. Transform Procrastination from Foe to Friend

The problem with procrastination is not that you’ve been lazy. The problem is that you shot the messenger.

Understanding procrastination. Procrastination is not a moral failing, but a listening failure. It's a signal that something is amiss, a disconnect between your head, heart, and hand. Instead of fighting against it, treat it as a helpful indicator and explore its underlying causes.

The Triple Check. When you're procrastinating, ask yourself:

• Head: Is the task appropriate?
• Heart: Is the task exciting?
• Hand: Is the task doable?

Addressing the root cause. By identifying the source of your procrastination, you can take steps to address the underlying issues. This might involve redefining your strategy, redesigning the experience, or requesting support or training.

6. Achieve Sustainable Excellence Through Intentional Imperfection

The classic understanding of perfection assumes a fixed state in which nothing is left to improve.

The myth of perfection. The pursuit of perfection can lead to burnout and prevent us from seeing and seizing new opportunities. Instead of striving for unattainable perfection, embrace intentional imperfection, which involves being deliberate about where you invest your efforts. This means recognizing that you cannot be at the very top all the time and across all areas of life.

Adjusting ambition dials. To practice intentional imperfection:

• Identify perfectionist patterns.
• Challenge unrealistic targets.
• Choose progress over perfection.

The art of kintsugi. Like the ancient Japanese art of kintsugi, embrace imperfections and celebrate the beauty that emerges from them. This involves accepting limitations, focusing on what truly matters, and allowing for creative constraints.

7. Harness the Power of Growth Loops for Continuous Evolution

Just like in the myths, life is made of cycles of being lost and finding ourselves again.

Trial and error. Making progress requires two essential components: trial and error. The trial part of the loop involves taking action with limited information; it requires a willingness to step into the unknown and explore possibilities. The error part involves observing the results and making adjustments based on that data.

The power of metacognition. Metacognition, the ability to reflect on your own learning process, is essential for designing growth loops. This involves both awareness and analysis, allowing you to synthesize insights, appreciate how far you've come, and determine where to focus next.

Plus Minus Next. Use the Plus Minus Next tool to incorporate metacognition into your everyday life. This involves reflecting on what worked (Plus), what didn't (Minus), and what you plan to do next (Next). This simple tool can help you identify patterns, make adjustments, and continuously improve.

8. Make Informed Decisions by Broadening Your Perspective

We can deal with the heavy load of uncertainty like the frightened flier, by closing our eyes and waiting for an unnamed pilot to land the plane—or we could make a brave go at exploring the possibilities of this in-between space.

Beyond rational thinking. Our choices are significantly influenced by the manner in which options are presented, and that decision-making can be irrationally driven by emotional responses. To make better decisions, practice decision framing, which involves widening your cone of uncertainty and explicitly taking into account not only external signals but also internal ones.

The Steering Sheet. Use a Steering Sheet to capture both external and internal signals. This involves asking yourself:

• External signals: How does your pact fit with your current circumstances?
• Internal signals: How do you feel about your pact now?

Embrace the journey. There is no right choice. As long as you keep on adapting, learning, and growing, you are winning.

9. Navigate Disruption with Grace and Adaptability

The most difficult thing is the decision to act.

The nature of disruption. Disruptions create a jarring gap between what we expect will happen and what does actually occur. To navigate these challenges, we must learn to dance with disruption, embracing life's inherent unpredictability.

The Two-Step Reset. Finding your footing again is a two-step process:

1. Processing the Subjective Experience: Label your emotions to manage your physiological responses.
2. Managing the Objective Consequences: Map out potential consequences and take action accordingly.

Active acceptance. Instead of trying to control what you can't change, practice active acceptance, which involves acknowledging a difficult situation and dealing with it in a constructive way. This allows you to redirect your energy into more constructive actions and maintain a positive outlook.

10. Unlock Social Flow Through Community and Connection

Don’t let anyone rob you of your imagination, your creativity, or your curiosity.

The power of collective curiosity. While individual curiosity can produce incredible feats, our collective curiosity is the motor behind humanity's biggest innovations. Conversations feed our imagination and collaboration enables us to dream bigger.

Benefits of community:

• Pooling Effect: Access to a collective set of knowledge, skills, and physical assets.
• Ripple Effect: Unexpected opportunities and connections that emerge from community interactions.
• Safety Effect: Emotional support, advice, and a sense of belonging.

Building a curiosity circle. To tap into collective curiosity, create a community centered around genuine connection and peer learning. Start scrappy, be up front, don't overthink it, and make it cozy.

11. Amplify Growth by Learning and Sharing in Public

The most difficult thing is the decision to act.

From secrecy to transparency. Instead of shielding your work until you can share a polished final product, openly document the meandering process, missteps and all, and invite fellow explorers to join your quest. This act of radical transparency allows others to build on your embryonic ideas much faster and for everyone to grow together.

The Public Pillars. To learn in public:

• Make a Pledge: Commit to sharing your learning journey with others.
• Choose a Platform: Select a platform that aligns with your project's nature and feels easy to navigate.
• Practice and Iterate: Document what you learn along the way and tweak your approach based on feedback.

Overcoming fears. Address the fears that stop you from learning in public, such as the fear of judgment, the fear of distraction, and the fear of negatively impacting your professional reputation. Remember that learning in public is about sharing the journey, not pretending to have all the answers.

12. Live a Generative Life Beyond the Pursuit of Legacy

The urge to start experimenting will hit you around page two, and it just builds from there.

From legacy to generativity. Instead of focusing on what you leave behind, focus on what you give now. Generativity is about actively contributing to your community, creating opportunities for others, and sharing your experiences in ways that enable collective growth.

The Five Keys to a Generative Life:

1. Do the Work First: Create value before seeking validation.
2. Grow Lateral Roots: Expand your skills beyond your primary area of expertise.
3. Prioritize Impact Over Image: Focus on making a positive difference rather than building a personal brand.
4. Close the Loop to Open Doors: Share your insights and lessons learned.
5. Play Along the Way: Find joy in the process and embrace playfulness.

Embrace the journey. By adopting these principles, you can transform the twists and turns of your career into generative adventures, enabling you to grow with others and make a meaningful impact on the world.

Last updated: April 6, 2025