Why People Don't Heal and How They Can

1. Woundology: The Danger of Defining Ourselves by Our Wounds

When we define ourselves by our wounds, we burden and lose our physical and spiritual energy and open ourselves to the risk of illness.

The concept of woundology refers to the tendency of people to identify themselves primarily through their past traumas or ongoing struggles. This mindset can become a significant obstacle to healing and personal growth.

• Dangers of woundology:
  • Creates a victim mentality
  • Limits personal growth and potential
  • Drains energy needed for healing
  • Can lead to manipulation of others

Breaking free from woundology involves recognizing this pattern in ourselves and consciously choosing to focus on strength and resilience rather than past injuries. It requires a shift in perspective, viewing challenges as opportunities for growth rather than defining characteristics of our identity.

2. The Five Myths About Healing: Overcoming Mental Barriers

Any treatment that can enhance your healing and bring hope and strength back to your body is worth considering.

The five common myths about healing often prevent people from fully engaging in their recovery process:

1. My life is defined by my wound
2. Being healthy means being alone
3. Feeling pain means being destroyed by pain
4. All illness is the result of negativity
5. True change is impossible

Overcoming these myths requires a conscious effort to reframe our thinking about health, illness, and the healing process. It involves embracing change, accepting support from others, and recognizing that healing is a holistic process involving body, mind, and spirit.

3. Three Forms of Power: Tribal, Individual, and Symbolic

As long as we remain in the sway of Tribal power, our ability to choose and our capacity to grow in self-responsibility are limited.

Tribal power is rooted in group consciousness and external authority. It provides security but can limit individual growth.

Individual power emerges as we develop personal identity and autonomy. It allows for greater self-expression but can lead to isolation.

Symbolic power represents the highest level of perception, allowing us to see beyond personal circumstances to universal patterns and meanings.

• Evolution of power:
  • Tribal (Arien age): Group survival, external authority
  • Individual (Piscean age): Personal identity, autonomy
  • Symbolic (Aquarian age): Universal patterns, higher consciousness

Understanding and integrating these forms of power can lead to more balanced and effective healing approaches.

4. The Chakra System: Understanding Energy Centers for Healing

Each chakra roughly corresponds to a location in the physical body. I like to think of the chakras as "energetic" computer disks or data banks that collect information of all sorts.

The seven chakras are energy centers in the body that correspond to different aspects of our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being:

1. Root (Muladhara): Survival, grounding
2. Sacral (Svadhisthana): Creativity, sexuality
3. Solar Plexus (Manipura): Personal power, self-esteem
4. Heart (Anahata): Love, compassion
5. Throat (Vishuddha): Communication, self-expression
6. Third Eye (Ajna): Intuition, wisdom
7. Crown (Sahasrara): Spiritual connection, enlightenment

Understanding and balancing these energy centers can promote overall health and facilitate healing. Each chakra is associated with specific physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of our lives, and addressing imbalances in these areas can lead to improved well-being.

5. Igniting the Healing Fire: Practical Steps for Self-Healing

Verbs heal, nouns don't.

Taking action is crucial for initiating and maintaining the healing process. Myss provides several practical steps for igniting the healing fire within:

• Learn to say no and manage your time effectively
• Change course immediately when current approaches aren't working
• Practice cyclic thinking to understand life's ebbs and flows
• Set realistic goals for yourself
• Develop your willpower through consistent practice
• Cultivate grace and gratitude in your daily life
• Use sacred imagery to connect with spiritual energy
• Learn something new every day to keep your mind engaged
• Create a new, positive vocabulary for your healing journey

Implementing these practices consistently can help shift your mindset and create an environment conducive to healing on all levels - physical, emotional, and spiritual.

6. The Power of Forgiveness in the Healing Process

Forgiveness frees up the energy necessary for healing.

Forgiveness is a crucial component of the healing process, not just emotionally but also physically. Holding onto anger, resentment, and past hurts consumes valuable energy that could be directed towards healing.

• Benefits of forgiveness:
  • Releases emotional burdens
  • Frees up energy for healing
  • Improves mental and physical health
  • Promotes personal growth and spiritual development

Practicing forgiveness doesn't mean condoning harmful actions or forgetting what happened. Instead, it's about releasing the negative emotions associated with past events and freeing yourself from their ongoing impact on your life and health.

7. Symbolic Sight: Seeing Life's Challenges Through a New Lens

Symbolic perceptions allow us to see that the real meaning of a crisis lies in showing us what we need to learn about ourselves.

Symbolic sight is the ability to perceive events and challenges in our lives from a higher, more universal perspective. This approach allows us to see beyond the immediate circumstances and recognize the deeper lessons and growth opportunities inherent in our experiences.

• Benefits of symbolic sight:
  • Provides a broader perspective on life events
  • Reduces personal attachment to outcomes
  • Enhances ability to learn from challenges
  • Facilitates spiritual growth and understanding

Developing symbolic sight involves consciously shifting our perspective from a personal, ego-centered view to a more detached, universal one. This practice can significantly reduce stress and anxiety while promoting healing and personal growth.

8. The Eighth Chakra: Exploring Archetypal Patterns

As we enter the age of Aquarius, our unconscious minds are emerging from the depths of the unseen aspects of our being and are stepping more and more into direct contact with our conscious minds.

The eighth chakra represents an emerging level of consciousness that connects our personal awareness with universal archetypes and patterns. This energy center is becoming increasingly accessible as human consciousness evolves.

• Key aspects of the eighth chakra:
  • Located above the traditional seven chakras
  • Contains archetypal patterns and universal themes
  • Bridges personal and impersonal consciousness
  • Provides access to deeper spiritual insights

Working with the eighth chakra can help us understand our personal experiences in a broader context, leading to greater self-awareness and spiritual growth.

9. Integrating Chakras and Sacraments for Holistic Healing

Both of these systems can guide us to develop an internal spiritual authority and a consciousness of healing and Divine power.

The integration of chakras and sacraments provides a powerful framework for holistic healing, combining Eastern and Western spiritual traditions. This approach allows for a deeper understanding of the energy dynamics involved in healing and personal growth.

• Chakra-Sacrament correspondences:
  1. Root Chakra - Baptism
  2. Sacral Chakra - Communion
  3. Solar Plexus Chakra - Confirmation
  4. Heart Chakra - Marriage
  5. Throat Chakra - Confession
  6. Third Eye Chakra - Ordination
  7. Crown Chakra - Extreme Unction

By working with these correspondences, individuals can tap into the symbolic power of both systems, enhancing their healing journey and spiritual development. This integrated approach offers a rich tapestry of symbols and practices that can support holistic healing on multiple levels.

Last updated: January 23, 2025