Do You Talk Funny?

1. Overcome fear of public speaking through comedy techniques

"Modern-day public speaking forces you to become a performer, and as such your happiness will often be determined by the happiness of those for whom you perform."

Comedy as a gateway skill. By studying and applying stand-up comedy techniques, you can transform your fear of public speaking into confidence. This approach allows you to develop engaging content, improve delivery, and connect with your audience more effectively. Comedy provides a structured framework for crafting memorable presentations and helps you overcome stage fright by focusing on entertaining your audience.

Harness nervous energy. Understand that the physical symptoms of nervousness, such as increased heart rate and sweating, are actually signs that your body is preparing for peak performance. Embrace this heightened state of alertness and channel it into your delivery. Avoid using alcohol or other substances to calm your nerves, as they can impair your performance. Instead, use techniques like stretching and deep breathing to manage your energy and focus.

2. Craft compelling stories to engage your audience

"The most powerful stories are not about the storyteller; they are about the person who is hearing the story."

Start with personal experiences. Draw from your own life to create relatable and authentic stories that resonate with your audience. Focus on moments of vulnerability, failure, or transformation, as these tend to be the most engaging and memorable. Use the "story funnel" technique to make your narrative accessible:

• Begin with a broad, relatable topic
• Narrow down to your specific experience
• Share the key details that make your story unique and interesting

Structure your story effectively. Follow the three-act structure to create a compelling narrative arc:

1. Setup: Introduce the characters and setting
2. Confrontation: Present the main challenge or conflict
3. Resolution: Share the outcome and lessons learned

Include elements like a clear protagonist, specific challenges, emotional depth, and a transformative lesson or realization to make your story more impactful.

3. Incorporate humor strategically in presentations

"The safest humor involves personal stories, because they are guaranteed to be original and unheard, they can be practiced and perfected, and they are highly personalized to your style."

Use the Rule of 3. This classic comedy technique involves setting up a pattern with two items and then breaking it with an unexpected third item for comedic effect. For example: "I celebrated Thanksgiving in an old-fashioned way. I invited everybody in my neighborhood to my house, we had an enormous feast, and then I killed them and took their land." (Jon Stewart)

Leverage different types of humor. Incorporate various humor techniques to keep your presentation engaging:

• Self-deprecating jokes (in moderation)
• Observational humor about common experiences
• Wordplay and puns
• Visual gags or funny images
• Callbacks to earlier jokes or references

Remember to keep your humor appropriate for your audience and relevant to your message. Avoid offensive or controversial topics that could alienate listeners.

4. Master the art of writing funny material

"Good writing helps good marketers become great marketers. If you have a website, you are a publisher. If you are on social media, you are in marketing. And that means we are all writers."

Focus on brevity and punch. When crafting jokes or humorous anecdotes, aim to use as few words as possible to get to the punchline. Edit ruthlessly, cutting out unnecessary details that don't contribute to the humor. Remember the "three-line rule": if you go more than three lines without something funny, it's too long.

Utilize comedy writing techniques:

• Use inherently funny words (e.g., "kerfuffle," "bamboozle")
• Employ misdirection to surprise your audience
• Create analogies and metaphors to explain complex ideas humorously
• Exaggerate for comedic effect
• Incorporate current events or pop culture references

Develop a "funny file" to collect observations, anecdotes, and ideas that you can draw from when preparing your presentations. Regularly practice writing jokes and humorous stories to improve your skills.

5. Practice and refine your delivery for maximum impact

"The harder you work, the more natural you will be on stage."

Rehearse extensively. Practice your material as much as possible, focusing on your delivery, timing, and body language. Record yourself and review the footage to identify areas for improvement. Aim to practice in conditions similar to your actual presentation setting:

• Stand up while rehearsing
• Use a microphone if you'll have one during the presentation
• Practice in front of a small audience (friends, family, or colleagues)

Master your stage presence. Pay attention to non-verbal aspects of your delivery:

• Maintain eye contact with your audience
• Use natural hand gestures to emphasize points
• Vary your vocal tone and pacing for emphasis
• Move purposefully on stage to engage different sections of the audience

Develop a pre-presentation routine to help you get into the right mindset, such as stretching, deep breathing, or visualizing success.

6. Control the audience and manage disruptions effectively

"You need to make the audience like you, but you also need to be able to control them collectively, as they will decide collectively if they want to listen to you."

Establish authority from the start. Begin your presentation with confidence and energy to set the tone for your audience. Use techniques like asking for applause or engaging the audience with a quick question to assert control and focus their attention.

Handle interruptions gracefully:

• Acknowledge and repeat questions or comments to buy time and ensure everyone heard
• Use humor to defuse tension or redirect attention
• Be prepared with polite but firm responses to potential hecklers or disruptive audience members
• Practice improvisation techniques to adapt to unexpected situations

Always maintain a professional demeanor and avoid getting into arguments or confrontations with audience members.

7. Continuously evaluate and improve your performance

"Permanently Beta: Close the book on your story but never fully on your performance."

Implement a scoring system. After each presentation, evaluate your performance using a structured approach:

• 5 points: Everyone laughs out loud and applauds
• 4 points: Laughter and one or two claps
• 3 points: Laughter but no applause
• 2 points: Medium laughs
• 1 point: Very few laughs

Calculate your "laughs per minute" (LPM) score to track improvement over time. Aim for 4-9 LPM in a business context to be considered very funny.

Seek feedback and iterate. Regularly solicit input from trusted colleagues, mentors, or audience members. Use this feedback to:

• Identify your strongest material and most effective techniques
• Pinpoint areas for improvement in content and delivery
• Refine your jokes and stories for maximum impact

Remember that even experienced speakers and comedians continually work to improve their craft. Embrace a growth mindset and view each presentation as an opportunity to learn and refine your skills.

Last updated: March 31, 2025