On Death

1. Death: The Great Interruption, Schism, and Insult

Death is hideous and frightening and cruel and unusual. It is not the way life is supposed to be, and our grief in the face of death acknowledges that.

Death as an enemy. Death is the ultimate enemy of humanity, relentlessly pursuing every person. It interrupts our lives, tearing loved ones away from us. It creates a schism, separating the material and immaterial parts of our being. Death is also an insult, reminding us of our mortality and fragility.

Biblical perspective. The Bible portrays death as an intruder, not part of God's original design for the world and human life. This view is exemplified in Jesus' reaction to Lazarus' death, where he wept and was angry, despite knowing he would soon raise Lazarus from the dead.

Cultural responses. Throughout history, cultures have developed various ways to cope with death:

• Belief in afterlife or reincarnation
• Focus on legacy through family and descendants
• Philosophical detachment from worldly concerns
• Religious rituals and practices

2. Modern Society's Struggle with Death and Mortality

Modern culture, then, is the worst in history at preparing its members for the only inevitability—death.

Denial of death. Modern society, particularly in the West, struggles with confronting death due to several factors:

• Advances in medicine have hidden death from everyday life
• Secularization has reduced belief in afterlife
• Cultural emphasis on youth and vitality

Consequences of denial:

• Unprepared for the reality of death
• Difficulty in grieving and supporting others in grief
• Unrealistic expectations for medical interventions at end of life

Historical contrast. In the past, death was a more visible part of life:

• Higher infant and child mortality rates
• Shorter life expectancies
• Deaths occurring at home rather than in hospitals

This visibility helped people be more reconciled to their own mortality, unlike the modern tendency to avoid thoughts of death.

3. The Problem of Insignificance in a Secular World

If we come from nothing and go to nothing, how can we avoid, even now, a sense of nothingness?

Existential crisis. In a secular worldview that sees death as the absolute end, many people struggle with a sense of ultimate insignificance. This can lead to:

• Anxiety and fear about death
• Difficulty finding meaning in life
• Overemphasis on worldly achievements or pleasures

Cultural responses. To combat this sense of insignificance, modern culture often emphasizes:

• Career success and material wealth
• Romantic relationships and family
• Social causes and activism
• Pursuit of fame or legacy

Limitations of secular comfort. These cultural responses, while potentially fulfilling in the short term, ultimately fail to address the fundamental problem of death and non-existence.

4. Christianity's Unique Hope in the Face of Death

Christianity is different. It doesn't leave you to face death on your own, by holding up your life record and hoping it will suffice. Instead it gives you a champion who has defeated death, who pardons you and covers you with his love.

Jesus as champion. Christianity offers a unique perspective on death through the person of Jesus Christ:

• He died to pay the penalty for sin
• He rose from the dead, defeating death itself
• He offers this victory to those who believe in him

Assurance of salvation. Unlike other religions that offer uncertain hope based on personal merit, Christianity provides assurance of salvation through faith in Christ's work, not one's own.

Christian hope includes:

• Personal, continuing existence after death
• Bodily resurrection, not just spiritual survival
• Reunion with loved ones
• Perfect communion with God

5. Grieving with Hope: A Christian Perspective

We should grieve, yet we should have hope; we should wake up from our denial and discover a source of peace that will not leave us; and finally, we should laugh and sing.

Balance in grief. Christianity encourages a unique approach to grief:

• Acknowledging the pain and wrongness of death
• Expressing sorrow and anger, as Jesus did at Lazarus' tomb
• Maintaining hope in the resurrection and future joy

Avoiding extremes:

• Not suppressing grief in a stoic manner
• Not giving in to despair or bitterness
• Embracing both sorrow and hope simultaneously

Practical application. This balanced approach to grief can lead to:

• Greater emotional health
• Ability to comfort others more effectively
• Deeper appreciation for life and relationships

6. The Transformative Power of the Beatific Vision

When at last you see the God of the universe looking at you with love, all of the potentialities of your soul will be released and you will experience the glorious freedom of the children of God.

Ultimate fulfillment. The Christian hope culminates in the beatific vision - direct, face-to-face communion with God:

• Satisfies the deepest longings of the human heart
• Transforms the believer into the fullness of their potential
• Provides perfect love, joy, and peace

Present impact. Even the anticipation of this future reality can have a profound effect on believers:

• Provides comfort in the face of death
• Motivates holy living and service to others
• Offers a foretaste of future joy through spiritual experiences

Contrast with other views. This personal, transformative hope contrasts with:

• Secular views of non-existence after death
• Eastern religious concepts of absorption into an impersonal ultimate reality
• Vague notions of an ethereal afterlife

7. Practical Guidance for Facing Death and Loss

Jesus sits down, takes her by the hand, and speaks to her the way any father or mother would speak to a child on a sunny morning. Jesus says, "Honey, it's time to get up."

Preparing for your own death:

• Reflect on the promises of Scripture
• Cultivate assurance of salvation through faith in Christ
• Meditate on the future hope of resurrection and eternal life

Comforting the bereaved:

• Acknowledge the pain and wrongness of death
• Allow for expression of grief and anger
• Gently remind of the Christian hope without minimizing sorrow

Practical steps in grief:

• Take time to process emotions
• Avoid major life decisions immediately after a loss
• Seek support from faith community and professional counselors if needed
• Engage in remembrance and celebration of the deceased's life

Long-term perspective. While the pain of loss may never fully disappear, the Christian hope offers:

• Comfort that the deceased believer is with Christ
• Anticipation of future reunion
• Opportunity for personal growth and deepened faith through grief

Last updated: July 22, 2024