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Overcoming Anxiety

Overcoming Anxiety

Reassuring Ways to Break Free from Stress and Worry and Lead a Calmer Life
by Gill Hasson 2015 208 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. Anxiety is a normal emotion with physical, cognitive, and behavioral aspects

Anxiety is the anticipation of trouble, misfortune or adversity, difficulties or disaster.

Three-part response. Anxiety manifests in three interconnected ways: physical sensations (e.g., rapid heartbeat, sweating), thoughts (worries, fears), and behaviors (avoidance, rituals). These aspects interact and reinforce each other, creating a self-sustaining cycle of anxiety.

Evolutionary purpose. Anxiety serves as a protective mechanism, preparing the body for potential threats through the "fight or flight" response. However, when this response is triggered frequently or intensely without real danger, it can become problematic and interfere with daily life.

Nature vs. nurture. Anxiety can result from a combination of genetic predisposition, early life experiences, and learned behaviors. Understanding the origins of one's anxiety can help in developing effective coping strategies and seeking appropriate support.

2. Recognize and understand different types of anxiety disorders

Sometimes, the symptoms of anxiety are not obviously the result of anxiety. They often develop gradually and, given that we all experience some anxiety at one time or another, it can be hard to know when it's become a real problem.

Common anxiety disorders:

  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
  • Panic Disorder
  • Social Anxiety Disorder
  • Specific Phobias
  • Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
  • Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

Recognizing symptoms. Each disorder has unique characteristics, but common signs include persistent worry, avoidance behaviors, physical symptoms (e.g., rapid heartbeat, sweating), and interference with daily functioning. Understanding these symptoms can help in identifying when anxiety has become a significant issue requiring professional help.

Seeking diagnosis. If anxiety symptoms persist and impact daily life, it's essential to consult a mental health professional for an accurate diagnosis and appropriate treatment plan. Early intervention can prevent the development of more severe symptoms and improve overall quality of life.

3. Challenge negative self-talk and cognitive distortions

Neither negative thinking nor positive thinking is more 'real' or 'true' than the other. But what does make one way of thinking more real is the one you choose to say to yourself.

Identifying cognitive distortions. Common distortions include:

  • Catastrophizing
  • All-or-nothing thinking
  • Overgeneralization
  • Mind reading
  • Emotional reasoning

Challenging thoughts. Question the validity of negative thoughts by examining evidence for and against them. Ask yourself: "Is this thought realistic?" "What would I tell a friend in this situation?" "What's an alternative explanation?"

Replacing with positive self-talk. Practice reframing negative thoughts into more balanced, realistic ones. For example, instead of "I always mess up," try "I've made mistakes before, but I've also had successes. I can learn from this experience."

4. Practice mindfulness to manage anxiety in the present moment

With mindfulness, you focus on what you can manage and control, now in the present moment. This can really help you to feel calmer, more in control and able to manage.

Key mindfulness principles:

  • Awareness and acceptance of thoughts and feelings
  • Non-judgmental observation
  • Focus on the present moment
  • Letting go of attachment to thoughts

Mindfulness techniques. Practice deep breathing, body scans, or meditation to cultivate present-moment awareness. When anxious thoughts arise, acknowledge them without judgment and gently redirect focus to the present.

Regular practice. Incorporate mindfulness into daily routines, such as mindful eating or walking. Consistent practice can help rewire the brain to respond more calmly to anxiety triggers over time.

5. Use solution-focused problem-solving to overcome anxiety

Learn to plan instead of worry.

Identify the problem. Clearly define the specific issue causing anxiety, separating facts from assumptions.

Generate solutions. Brainstorm potential solutions without judging their feasibility. Consider asking trusted friends or family for input.

Evaluate and choose. Assess the pros and cons of each solution, then select the most promising option.

Implement and review. Take action on the chosen solution, breaking it down into manageable steps. Regularly review progress and adjust as needed.

6. Manage physical symptoms through breathing techniques and exercise

By managing your breathing, the following happens: Your need for oxygen decreases; Your breathing slows; Your heart rate slows; Your blood pressure decreases; Your muscle tension decreases; You begin to feel more at ease and calm.

Breathing techniques:

  • Diaphragmatic breathing
  • 4-7-8 technique (inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8)
  • Box breathing (equal counts for inhale, hold, exhale, hold)

Exercise benefits. Regular physical activity releases endorphins, reduces muscle tension, and improves sleep quality. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week.

Mind-body practices. Yoga, tai chi, and progressive muscle relaxation can help integrate physical and mental relaxation techniques, promoting overall anxiety reduction.

7. Build confidence, courage, and assertiveness to combat anxiety

Confidence is the very opposite of anxiety. When you are anxious, you're more likely to believe that things will turn out badly. When you are confident, however, you're more likely to believe that things will turn out well.

Identify strengths. Focus on areas of life where you feel competent and successful. Build on these strengths to boost overall confidence.

Practice assertiveness. Learn to express needs and boundaries clearly and respectfully. Use "I" statements and practice active listening.

Gradual exposure. Face feared situations in small, manageable steps. Celebrate each success, no matter how small, to build confidence and courage.

8. Seek support from positive people and help others to gain perspective

Voicing your worries can take away a lot of their scariness. Often, just having someone listen to you because they care can help.

Build a support network. Identify friends, family members, or support groups who provide understanding and encouragement. Avoid those who dismiss or exacerbate anxiety.

Help others. Volunteering or supporting others can shift focus away from personal worries and provide a sense of purpose and perspective.

Professional help. Consider therapy or counseling for additional support and strategies tailored to individual needs.

9. Balance being supportive without enabling anxious behavior in others

While giving in to anxious requests can keep things calm in the short term, in the long run it feeds into the cycle of anxiety.

Understand enabling. Recognize the difference between supportive actions and those that inadvertently reinforce anxious behaviors.

Encourage independence. Gently push the anxious person to face fears gradually, offering support without taking over completely.

Set boundaries. Establish clear limits on how much accommodation you're willing to provide, balancing compassion with the need for personal growth and responsibility.

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Review Summary

3.69 out of 5
Average of 100+ ratings from Goodreads and Amazon.

Overcoming Anxiety receives mixed reviews, with an average rating of 3.69 out of 5. Many readers find it helpful, praising its practical approach and easy-to-follow solutions. Positive reviews highlight the book's explanations of anxiety, cognitive distortions, and coping strategies. Some readers appreciate its simplicity and mindfulness techniques. However, a few negative reviews criticize the lack of medical backing and question the author's qualifications. Overall, most readers find the book insightful and recommend it for those dealing with anxiety.

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About the Author

Gill Hasson is an author, teacher, and trainer with extensive experience in personal development. She has written numerous books, including Mindfulness: Be mindful. Live in the moment. Hasson is a freelance journalist, contributing articles on personal development and relationships to various magazines and websites. She teaches adult education courses and is an associate tutor at the University of Sussex, focusing on career and personal development. Additionally, Hasson provides training in child and adolescent development to professionals and parents. Her work is driven by her belief in people's ability to positively change their thinking patterns about life, others, and themselves.

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