26 Books like Social Intelligence

The Empathy Effect

by Helen Riess • 2018

Your brain misfires with strangers. A clinician's seven-part method for fixing the empathy circuit.

3.81

275

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🧬 Interpersonal Neurobiology 🎯 Empathy Training 🎭 Cognitive Bias 💖 Self-Compassion

The Empathy Effect 96%

Your brain misfires with strangers. A clinician's seven-part method for fixing the empathy circuit.

by Helen Riess 2018

3.81

275 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🧬 Interpersonal Neurobiology 🎯 Empathy Training 🎭 Cognitive Bias 💖 Self-Compassion

A General Theory of Love

by Thomas Lewis • 2000

The limbic brain runs your love life, and it cannot be reached with words.

4.10

5k+

📎 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Social Connection 🧠 Brain Evolution 🧬 Interpersonal Neurobiology

A General Theory of Love 95%

The limbic brain runs your love life, and it cannot be reached with words.

by Thomas Lewis 2000

4.10

5k+ ratings

📎 Attachment Theory 🧘 Emotional Regulation 🤝 Social Connection 🧠 Brain Evolution 🧬 Interpersonal Neurobiology

Born to Be Good

by Dacher Keltner • 2009

Darwin argued sympathy, not self-interest, shaped human evolution. The biology now proves him right.

3.57

729

🌞 Positive Psychology 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology ⚖️ Moral Psychology 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🗣️ Nonverbal Communication

Born to Be Good 95%

Darwin argued sympathy, not self-interest, shaped human evolution. The biology now proves him right.

by Dacher Keltner 2009

3.57

729 ratings

🌞 Positive Psychology 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology ⚖️ Moral Psychology 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🗣️ Nonverbal Communication

Mirroring People

by Marco Iacoboni • 2008

Why you flinch when someone else is struck: your brain rehearses everything it sees.

3.79

986

🧠 Social Neuroscience 💞 Empathy Science 👶 Social Learning 🏃 Embodied Cognition 🗣️ Evolution Of Language

Mirroring People 95%

Why you flinch when someone else is struck: your brain rehearses everything it sees.

by Marco Iacoboni 2008

3.79

986 ratings

🧠 Social Neuroscience 💞 Empathy Science 👶 Social Learning 🏃 Embodied Cognition 🗣️ Evolution Of Language

The War for Kindness

by Jamil Zaki • 2019

Empathy is not a fixed trait. It's a muscle, shaped by forces we can learn to control.

3.93

3k+

🧠 Social Psychology ❤️ Empathy Training 🚑 Compassion Fatigue 🤝 Intergroup Contact 📚 Narrative Empathy

The War for Kindness 95%

Empathy is not a fixed trait. It's a muscle, shaped by forces we can learn to control.

by Jamil Zaki 2019

3.93

3k+ ratings

🧠 Social Psychology ❤️ Empathy Training 🚑 Compassion Fatigue 🤝 Intergroup Contact 📚 Narrative Empathy

The Five Side Effects of Kindness

by David R. Hamilton • 2010

How kindness protects your heart, slows aging, and sparks a chain reaction of well-being.

3.94

493

🧠 Positive Psychology ❤️ Compassion Science 🤝 Social Connection 🙏 Gratitude Practices 👫 Relationship Science

The Five Side Effects of Kindness Summary

The Five Side Effects of Kindness 95%

How kindness protects your heart, slows aging, and sparks a chain reaction of well-being.

by David R. Hamilton 2010

3.94

493 ratings

🧠 Positive Psychology ❤️ Compassion Science 🤝 Social Connection 🙏 Gratitude Practices 👫 Relationship Science

Condenados a entendernos

by Arun Mansukhani • 2023

Independence is a myth. Rewire your social brain for relationships that actually last.

4.42

🧸 Attachment Theory 🤝 Interdependence 💖 Emotional Regulation 💬 Conflict Resolution ⚖️ Power Dynamics

Condenados a entendernos 95%

Independence is a myth. Rewire your social brain for relationships that actually last.

by Arun Mansukhani 2023

4.42

95 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 🤝 Interdependence 💖 Emotional Regulation 💬 Conflict Resolution ⚖️ Power Dynamics

Social

by Matthew D. Lieberman • 2013

Your brain treats rejection like a broken bone. Connection is a biological need, not a luxury.

4.07

3k+

🧠 Social Neuroscience 🤝 Social Connection 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🎯 Social Influence 😔 Loneliness

Social 95%

Your brain treats rejection like a broken bone. Connection is a biological need, not a luxury.

by Matthew D. Lieberman 2013

4.07

3k+ ratings

🧠 Social Neuroscience 🤝 Social Connection 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🎯 Social Influence 😔 Loneliness

The Art of Empathy

by Karla McLaren • 2013

Empathy is a practice, not a trait. The six skills and boundaries that make connection sustainable.

3.89

473

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🤝 Empathy Skills 🌊 Emotion Regulation 🚧 Boundary Setting 💧 Compassion Fatigue

The Art of Empathy 95%

Empathy is a practice, not a trait. The six skills and boundaries that make connection sustainable.

by Karla McLaren 2013

3.89

473 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🤝 Empathy Skills 🌊 Emotion Regulation 🚧 Boundary Setting 💧 Compassion Fatigue

Secure Relating

by Sue Marriott • 2024

Why you shut down, lash out, or cling: a guide to staying steady in any relationship.

4.39

307

🧠 Attachment Theory 🧬 Polyvagal Theory 🩹 Trauma Healing 🤝 Co-Regulation 🔄 Relational Patterns

Secure Relating 95%

Why you shut down, lash out, or cling: a guide to staying steady in any relationship.

by Sue Marriott 2024

4.39

307 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 🧬 Polyvagal Theory 🩹 Trauma Healing 🤝 Co-Regulation 🔄 Relational Patterns

The Keys to Kindness

by Claudia Hammond • 2022

Kindness is trainable, contagious, and measurably improves your life. The evidence and the how.

3.70

307

🧠 Positive Psychology 🤝 Prosocial Behavior 💙 Everyday Kindness 🫂 Empathy Training 🪞 Self-Compassion

The Keys to Kindness 95%

Kindness is trainable, contagious, and measurably improves your life. The evidence and the how.

by Claudia Hammond 2022

3.70

307 ratings

🧠 Positive Psychology 🤝 Prosocial Behavior 💙 Everyday Kindness 🫂 Empathy Training 🪞 Self-Compassion

Why Brains Need Friends

by Ben Rein • 2025

Your brain is built to connect, then sabotages every attempt. The neuroscience of fixing it.

3.95

502

🧠 Social Neuroscience 🦴 Evolutionary Psychology 🧩 Cognitive Biases 🌍 Prosocial Behavior 🐕 Human-Animal Bond

Why Brains Need Friends 95%

Your brain is built to connect, then sabotages every attempt. The neuroscience of fixing it.

by Ben Rein 2025

3.95

502 ratings

🧠 Social Neuroscience 🦴 Evolutionary Psychology 🧩 Cognitive Biases 🌍 Prosocial Behavior 🐕 Human-Animal Bond

Together The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World

by Vivek H. Murthy • 2020

Chronic loneliness shortens lives more than smoking, and the antidote is hiding in plain sight.

4.22

8k+

😔 Loneliness 🏥 Public Health 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 👶 Attachment Theory 📱 Mindful Tech Use

Together The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World Summary

Together The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World 95%

Chronic loneliness shortens lives more than smoking, and the antidote is hiding in plain sight.

by Vivek H. Murthy 2020

4.22

8k+ ratings

😔 Loneliness 🏥 Public Health 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 👶 Attachment Theory 📱 Mindful Tech Use

The Art and Science of Connection

by Kasley Killam • 2024

Identify your social style and strengthen your relationships, adding years to your life.

3.85

637

🔬 Relationship Science 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building 👫 Friendship 😊 Positive Psychology

The Art and Science of Connection Summary

The Art and Science of Connection 95%

Identify your social style and strengthen your relationships, adding years to your life.

by Kasley Killam 2024

3.85

637 ratings

🔬 Relationship Science 😔 Loneliness Epidemic 🏘️ Community Building 👫 Friendship 😊 Positive Psychology

Rethinking Narcissism

by Craig Malkin • 2015

Narcissism is a spectrum. A little self-regard builds resilience; the extremes destroy empathy.

4.03

2k+

🪞 Narcissism Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 💔 Toxic Relationship Patterns 💼 Workplace Psychology

Rethinking Narcissism 95%

Narcissism is a spectrum. A little self-regard builds resilience; the extremes destroy empathy.

by Craig Malkin 2015

4.03

2k+ ratings

🪞 Narcissism Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 🧠 Emotional Intelligence 💔 Toxic Relationship Patterns 💼 Workplace Psychology

Why We Love

by Anna Machin • 2022

Love is a survival system, not a feeling. Romantic love is its rarest and strangest form.

3.72

205

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💑 Relationship Science 🧬 Social Neuroscience 🤝 Social Bonding

Why We Love 95%

Love is a survival system, not a feeling. Romantic love is its rarest and strangest form.

by Anna Machin 2022

3.72

205 ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 🔗 Attachment Theory 💑 Relationship Science 🧬 Social Neuroscience 🤝 Social Bonding

The Brain and Emotional Intelligence

by Daniel Goleman • 2011

How to rewire the brain circuits that actually drive success: emotional intelligence, not IQ.

3.90

2k+

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🔬 Affective Neuroscience 🔄 Neuroplasticity 🤝 Empathy 🧘 Emotional Regulation

The Brain and Emotional Intelligence Summary

The Brain and Emotional Intelligence 95%

How to rewire the brain circuits that actually drive success: emotional intelligence, not IQ.

by Daniel Goleman 2011

3.90

2k+ ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🔬 Affective Neuroscience 🔄 Neuroplasticity 🤝 Empathy 🧘 Emotional Regulation

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice

by Jon G. Allen • 2008

All effective therapy rests on a single trainable capacity: reading the mind behind behavior.

4.31

🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Social Cognition 🌊 Affect Regulation 🩹 Trauma Treatment 🎭 Borderline Personality

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice Summary

Mentalizing in Clinical Practice 94%

All effective therapy rests on a single trainable capacity: reading the mind behind behavior.

by Jon G. Allen 2008

4.31

39 ratings

🧸 Attachment Theory 🧠 Social Cognition 🌊 Affect Regulation 🩹 Trauma Treatment 🎭 Borderline Personality

Emotional

by Leonard Mlodinow • 2022

Emotion doesn't sabotage reason. It supplies the hidden calculations behind every decision you make.

3.84

2k+

🧪 Emotion Science 🧘 Emotion Regulation 🧠 Mind-Body Connection 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Emotional 94%

Emotion doesn't sabotage reason. It supplies the hidden calculations behind every decision you make.

by Leonard Mlodinow 2022

3.84

2k+ ratings

🧪 Emotion Science 🧘 Emotion Regulation 🧠 Mind-Body Connection 🏛️ Modern Stoicism 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Connected

by Nicholas A. Christakis • 2008

Your weight, your vote, your happiness: all shaped by strangers three handshakes away.

3.74

4k+

🕸️ Network Science 🦠 Social Contagion 🔗 Network Effects 💰 Behavioral Economics 😊 Happiness Research

Connected 94%

Your weight, your vote, your happiness: all shaped by strangers three handshakes away.

by Nicholas A. Christakis 2008

3.74

4k+ ratings

🕸️ Network Science 🦠 Social Contagion 🔗 Network Effects 💰 Behavioral Economics 😊 Happiness Research

Happy Brain

by Dean Burnett • 2018

Happiness is built from brain chemistry, social wiring, and home; chasing it directly backfires.

3.70

2k+

🧠 Neuroscience Of Emotion 😊 Happiness Studies ⚗️ Neurochemistry 👥 Social Brain 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Happy Brain 94%

Happiness is built from brain chemistry, social wiring, and home; chasing it directly backfires.

by Dean Burnett 2018

3.70

2k+ ratings

🧠 Neuroscience Of Emotion 😊 Happiness Studies ⚗️ Neurochemistry 👥 Social Brain 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Emotional Intelligence

by Ryan James • 2017

A step-by-step system to read your emotions, control your reactions, and get ahead.

3.88

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🎛️ Emotion Regulation 🪞 Self-Awareness 🤝 Empathy In Leadership 😮‍💨 Stress Management

Emotional Intelligence 94%

A step-by-step system to read your emotions, control your reactions, and get ahead.

by Ryan James 2017

3.88

16 ratings

🧠 Emotional Intelligence 🎛️ Emotion Regulation 🪞 Self-Awareness 🤝 Empathy In Leadership 😮‍💨 Stress Management

Help for the Helper

by Babette Rothschild • 2006

Compassion fatigue lives in the body. A physiology-based toolkit for helpers who feel too much.

4.17

286

🩺 Compassion Fatigue 🧬 Somatic Psychology 🦠 Emotional Contagion ⚡ Psychophysiology 🚪 Professional Boundaries

Help for the Helper 94%

Compassion fatigue lives in the body. A physiology-based toolkit for helpers who feel too much.

by Babette Rothschild 2006

4.17

286 ratings

🩺 Compassion Fatigue 🧬 Somatic Psychology 🦠 Emotional Contagion ⚡ Psychophysiology 🚪 Professional Boundaries

The Science of Social Intelligence

by Patrick King • 2017

Thirty-three studies that decode likability: when to talk less, what to reveal, how emotions spread.

3.85

239

🗣️ Social Skills 🧠 Social Psychology 😊 Emotional Contagion 👀 First Impressions 👍 Likability

The Science of Social Intelligence Summary

The Science of Social Intelligence 94%

Thirty-three studies that decode likability: when to talk less, what to reveal, how emotions spread.

by Patrick King 2017

3.85

239 ratings

🗣️ Social Skills 🧠 Social Psychology 😊 Emotional Contagion 👀 First Impressions 👍 Likability

The Neuroscience of Psychotherapy

by Louis Cozolino • 2002

The brain is built by relationships. Therapy rewires it through the same social circuits.

4.33

570

🔗 Interpersonal Neurobiology 👥 Social Neuroscience 🧠 Clinical Neuroscience 🧩 Neural Integration 🔄 Neuroplasticity

The Neuroscience of Psychotherapy Summary

The Neuroscience of Psychotherapy 94%

The brain is built by relationships. Therapy rewires it through the same social circuits.

by Louis Cozolino 2002

4.33

570 ratings

🔗 Interpersonal Neurobiology 👥 Social Neuroscience 🧠 Clinical Neuroscience 🧩 Neural Integration 🔄 Neuroplasticity

What We Value

by Emily Falk • 2025

A single neural circuit prices every choice, from lunch to life partners. Adjust the inputs.

3.62

502

🔬 Neuroeconomics 🧠 Social Neuroscience 🔄 Behavior Change 🎯 Cognitive Biases 👥 Social Influence

What We Value 94%

A single neural circuit prices every choice, from lunch to life partners. Adjust the inputs.

by Emily Falk 2025

3.62

502 ratings

🔬 Neuroeconomics 🧠 Social Neuroscience 🔄 Behavior Change 🎯 Cognitive Biases 👥 Social Influence

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