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The Next Millionaire Next Door

The Next Millionaire Next Door

Enduring Strategies for Building Wealth
by Thomas J. Stanley 2018 272 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. The Millionaire Next Door Endures.

The millionaire next door is still very much alive and well and that financial success continues to be attainable for almost anyone who is willing to work for it.

Enduring principles. Despite economic shifts and technological advancements, the core behaviors for building wealth remain unchanged. The "millionaire next door" concept, emphasizing disciplined, methodical wealth accumulation without relying on inheritances or lottery wins, is as relevant today as it was decades ago. This slow and steady approach applies to many life challenges, from learning new skills to achieving financial independence.

Modern proof. The vibrant online "FI/RE" (financial independence/retire early) community serves as a testament to the enduring power of these principles. Many young professionals are saving aggressively to achieve financial freedom in their 30s and 40s, often citing The Millionaire Next Door as a foundational influence. Their stories, like Allison Lamar's journey from humble beginnings to multi-millionaire status, underscore that behaviors, not birthright, drive wealth.

Behavior over circumstance. Financial success is not predetermined by privileged birth or ethnicity. It stems from the goals individuals set, the behaviors they employ to reach them, and their ability to ignore distractions. The disciplined, methodical approach works for small business owners, teachers, attorneys, and sales professionals alike, proving that personal choices can transform one's circumstances.

2. Income Is Not Wealth.

Wealth is how much you accumulate. Net worth is your balance sheet—the net of your assets less your liabilities.

Defining wealth. A common misconception is confusing income with wealth. Income is what you earn over a period, like a salary, while wealth (net worth) is what you own—your assets minus your liabilities. For example, someone earning $1 million but spending $1.2 million has a negative wealth impact, illustrating that high income doesn't automatically equate to wealth.

Misleading averages. The average (mean) net worth of an American household, often cited as high, is skewed by a few ultra-wealthy individuals. The median net worth, which represents the typical household, paints a far more accurate and sobering picture. In 2016, the median net worth was $97,300, a stark contrast to the average of $692,100, highlighting that most Americans are far from financially independent.

Accumulation is key. Periodic income certainly affects net worth, but it doesn't define true wealth. Those who want to be truly financially independent rely on savings and passive income generated from invested capital, rather than a continuous stream of earned income. This distinction is crucial for understanding how real wealth is built and sustained over time.

3. Dispel the Myths of the Rich.

One man pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth.

Appearance vs. reality. Many people mistakenly judge a person's wealth by their visible consumption—the car they drive, the clothes they wear, or the neighborhood they live in. However, empirical research consistently shows that most drivers of luxury vehicles are not millionaires, and many truly wealthy individuals maintain modest lifestyles. This "acting rich" often leads to financial strain rather than actual wealth accumulation.

Taxation and contribution. The myth that "the rich don't pay their fair share" is often perpetuated by confusing income with wealth. While some high-income earners may spend lavishly, many self-made millionaires, like Warren Buffett, strategically minimize taxable income and maximize unrealized gains, often dedicating vast sums to philanthropy. The "glittering rich" who spend big also pay significant taxes on their high incomes, contributing substantially to the economy.

Blame vs. responsibility. Blaming "the rich" or external factors for one's lack of economic success is a common pitfall. Economically successful individuals, conversely, leverage adversity and focus their energy on succeeding rather than resenting. They understand that personal responsibility for financial outcomes, coupled with disciplined behaviors, is paramount, regardless of perceived societal inequities or past disadvantages.

4. Your Upbringing Shapes Your Financial Future (But You Can Change It).

You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was.

Parental influence. Early experiences, particularly parental frugality and money management habits, significantly influence a child's future financial behaviors. Children who observe parents budgeting, discussing money, and demonstrating fiscal prudence are more likely to become prodigious accumulators of wealth. This learning often occurs through direct observation rather than explicit financial lessons.

Overcoming adversity. While a harmonious upbringing with good financial modeling is beneficial, it's not a prerequisite for wealth. Many millionaires recount overcoming challenging childhoods marked by financial stress or poor parental money habits. They consciously chose to "do the opposite" of what they witnessed, transforming negative experiences into powerful motivators for financial independence.

Conscious choices. As adults, we have the freedom to alter our financial trajectory regardless of our past. Taking responsibility for our money-related actions and making intentional choices about spending, saving, and investing can lead to significant change. The path to wealth is ultimately shaped by current behaviors, not solely by the circumstances of one's upbringing.

5. Choose Your Spouse Wisely.

For every 100 millionaires who say that having a supportive spouse was not important in explaining their economic success, there are 1,317 who indicate their spouse was important.

A critical partnership. Marriage significantly impacts financial success, with married couples often having substantially higher net worth than single individuals. Millionaires consistently cite their spouses as critical to their economic success, emphasizing qualities like honesty, responsibility, and support. Financial harmony and shared goals within a marriage are strong predictors of wealth accumulation.

Teamwork in finance. Successful couples often operate their household finances as a team, even if one spouse takes the lead as the "Household CFO." They work together on budgeting, planning, and making financial decisions, ensuring they are aligned on goals and methods. This collaborative approach minimizes friction and maximizes efficiency in managing resources.

Long-term implications. The financial habits and values of a prospective spouse are crucial considerations. Lack of honesty about debt or a fundamental disagreement on spending and saving can derail financial goals and even lead to marital dissolution, which carries significant economic costs. Choosing a partner with compatible financial values is an investment in long-term wealth and stability.

6. Cultivate Social Indifference.

The need to display success via consumption, whether that involves cars, homes, or experiences, is a major impediment to building wealth.

Ignoring the Joneses. Social indifference—the ability to disregard what others are driving, buying, or wearing—is a powerful predictor of wealth accumulation. Those who are uninfluenced by trends and the conspicuous consumption of their peers are better positioned to build wealth. This mindset inoculates individuals against the "consumer arms race," which is impossible to win.

The cost of comparison. Our subjective well-being is often tied to our sociometric status, or how we compare to our immediate peer group. This can lead to a constant desire to "keep up," driving individuals to spend beyond their means. Social media exacerbates this by providing a continuous stream of others' consumption habits, making discipline and social indifference even more critical today.

True badges of success. Millionaires often understate their wealth, finding satisfaction in financial independence itself rather than in public display. They understand that true achievement lies in accumulating wealth, not in convincing others of it through expensive purchases. This focus on internal satisfaction over external validation frees them to make financially prudent choices.

7. Frugality: The Cornerstone of Wealth.

Being frugal is the cornerstone of wealth-building.

Consistent living below means. Frugality, defined as a simple and economical lifestyle, is a consistent pattern of financial behaviors that enables a household to live comfortably below its means. It involves budgeting, planning, setting goals, and disciplined spending. This mindset is timeless for those committed to financial independence, regardless of economic conditions.

Housing choices. The home is often where significant spending begins. Millionaires typically purchase homes they can easily afford, often less than three times their annual income, and tend to stay put to avoid moving costs. They prioritize factors like quality, appearance, and good public schools over status or neighborhood prestige, unlike those who "stretch" for a home to appear wealthy.

Everyday consumption. Millionaires consistently demonstrate moderation in everyday purchases. They spend modest amounts on clothing, accessories, and vehicles, often opting for quality used items or non-luxury brands like Toyota and Honda. This disciplined approach to consumption, even for seemingly small items, frees up significant capital for saving and investing.

8. Discipline, Perseverance, and Hard Work Are Paramount.

If you lack discipline, the chances of you ever accumulating wealth are very, very small.

The top success factor. Discipline is consistently ranked by millionaires as the most critical factor in their success. It involves setting lofty goals and systematically working towards them without being sidetracked. This trait is essential for transforming income into wealth, requiring consistent budgeting, saving, and effective financial management.

Beyond intellect. While intelligence and academic achievement are often valued, millionaires emphasize that discipline, hard work, and perseverance are far more crucial for economic success. Many self-made millionaires achieved success despite average academic records, using perceived setbacks as motivation to prove critics wrong and develop tenacity.

Resilience in action. Building wealth is a marathon, not a sprint, demanding resilience to overcome inevitable rejections, market downturns, and business failures. Millionaires like Alan DeMarcus, who funded his business from personal savings during an industry downturn, exemplify this perseverance. They view adversity as an opportunity to strengthen resolve and enhance reputation, rather than a reason to quit.

9. Strategic Career Choices Build Wealth.

Job titles are better indicators of income than wealth.

Purposeful work. The time spent in an occupation is a nonrenewable resource, making career choice critical for financial success. Millionaires often choose or create careers that provide ample income and satisfaction, or enable early financial independence through aggressive saving. They understand that a job title indicates income, but not necessarily wealth.

Early experiences matter. Early and varied work experiences, even part-time or seemingly "menial" jobs, provide invaluable lessons in work ethic, saving, and budgeting. These experiences help individuals discern market opportunities and find careers that align with their skills and interests, laying a foundation for future income generation and wealth building.

Creating margin and opportunity. Financial margin, built through prudent saving, offers the freedom to make significant career changes, pursue self-employment, or moonlight. Moonlighting allows individuals to explore new ventures and generate additional revenue without abandoning the security of a traditional job. Self-employed millionaires, who take calculated risks, often achieve higher incomes and greater wealth by investing in their own businesses and leveraging their unique talents.

10. Invest Wisely, Not Flashily.

Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing.

Conventional wisdom. Millionaires typically invest in conventional assets like retirement accounts and real estate, avoiding exotic or unusual investment products. Their investment choices are often driven by self-study and a deep understanding of markets, rather than chasing trends or seeking high-status investments. This prudent approach minimizes unnecessary risk and fees.

Peter Lynch's principles. Legendary investor Peter Lynch's axioms resonate with the millionaire-next-door philosophy:

  • Frugal management: Companies with extravagant headquarters often neglect shareholders.
  • Beyond the balance sheet: Financial success requires more than just numbers; it's about understanding the business.
  • Ignore the herd: Amateur investors can beat the market by not following popular opinion.
    These principles emphasize value, long-term thinking, and independent research over superficial indicators.

Tangibles and collectibles. Contrary to popular belief, most millionaires hold very little of their wealth in tangible collectibles like fine art or antiques. These items comprise a tiny fraction of their overall assets, reinforcing the idea that true wealth is built through productive investments, not through acquiring status symbols.

11. Beware the "Ego Premium" in Investing.

Human behavior won’t change. Wealthy individuals, pension funds, endowments and the like will continue to feel they deserve something 'extra' in investment advice.

Paying more for less. Warren Buffett highlights that even the mega-rich often fall prey to an "ego premium," paying exorbitant fees for complex, high-fee investment products like hedge funds, despite evidence that simpler, low-cost index funds often outperform them. This desire for "something superior" leads to billions wasted in fees.

Endowment pitfalls. Large university endowments, despite having access to top financial minds and exotic investment vehicles, frequently underperform simple, low-cost index fund portfolios. This demonstrates that complexity and high fees do not guarantee superior returns, and often lead to worse outcomes. The "ego premium" can blind even sophisticated investors to the most effective strategies.

Behavioral biases. The tendency to seek "extra" or "exclusive" investment advice, even when it's demonstrably less effective, stems from human behavioral biases. Investors may equate higher cost with higher quality, or feel a need to justify their wealth by engaging with elite, high-status advisors. This psychological trap diverts wealth from accumulation to unnecessary expenses.

12. Seek Behavioral Coaching, Not Just Product Sales.

The real value to be provided by financial advisors today is in helping their clients evolve from under accumulator to prodigious accumulator status.

Evolving advisory role. The financial services industry is shifting from product sales to holistic financial planning and behavioral coaching. With the rise of robo-advisors and low-cost investment platforms, the value of a financial advisor increasingly lies in guiding clients to improve their financial behaviors, rather than just managing portfolios.

Beyond portfolio management. Effective financial advisors now focus on helping clients with "nonfinancial" issues that impact wealth, such as personal life goals, career choices, and managing emotional responses to market fluctuations. This blend of financial expertise, psychology, and life planning helps clients overcome behavioral biases and maintain discipline.

Fiduciary standard. Aspiring millionaires should seek out fee-only financial advisors who operate under a fiduciary standard, meaning they are legally obligated to act solely in the client's best interest. This contrasts with commission-based models, where advisors may be incentivized to sell products that benefit them more than the client. The true value of an advisor is measured by their ability to boost a client's annual savings rate and improve overall wealth-building behaviors.

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What’s "The Next Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley about?

  • Focus on self-made wealth: The book explores how ordinary Americans build wealth independently, emphasizing disciplined behaviors and strategies over luck or inheritance.
  • Behavioral approach: It highlights the importance of frugality, budgeting, investing wisely, and resisting societal pressures to consume.
  • Updated research: Building on decades of research, it provides new data, case studies, and insights into how wealth-building strategies endure in the modern era.
  • Core message: Financial independence is achievable through intentional actions, discipline, and a long-term mindset.

Why should I read "The Next Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley?

  • Evidence-based strategies: The book offers proven, research-backed principles and real-life examples for building wealth steadily and sustainably.
  • Myth-busting: It dispels common misconceptions about wealth, such as the belief that high income or inheritance is necessary for financial success.
  • Practical guidance: Readers receive actionable advice, checklists, and motivational stories to help them take control of their financial future.
  • Modern relevance: The book addresses how technology and social media impact financial behaviors, making its lessons applicable today.

What are the key takeaways from "The Next Millionaire Next Door"?

  • Wealth is behavior-driven: Consistent habits like frugality, budgeting, and investing matter more than income or background.
  • Income ≠ Wealth: High earners often fail to accumulate wealth if they spend excessively; net worth is the true measure of financial success.
  • Discipline and awareness: Tracking expenses, setting goals, and making intentional decisions are critical for wealth accumulation.
  • Social indifference: Ignoring peer pressure and societal consumption trends helps maintain focus on long-term financial goals.

What myths about wealth does "The Next Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley address?

  • Demographics don’t determine wealth: Individual behaviors and choices matter more than race, ethnicity, or generation.
  • Income is not wealth: Many confuse high income with wealth, but spending habits are the real differentiator.
  • Possessions don’t equal wealth: Millionaires often live modestly and avoid flashy displays.
  • Self-made success is possible: The book affirms that disciplined effort, not luck or inheritance, is the main path to wealth.

How does "The Next Millionaire Next Door" define and identify a "Millionaire Next Door" today?

  • Typical profile: The average millionaire is a 61-year-old, married man with a median income of $250,000 and a net worth of $3.5 million.
  • Behavioral traits: They live frugally, budget carefully, and avoid conspicuous consumption, often driving modest cars and living in unassuming homes.
  • Self-made wealth: About 80% are self-made, relying on their own discipline and financial management rather than inheritance.
  • Investment approach: They are knowledgeable, learn from mistakes, and prefer balanced, long-term investment strategies.

What is the "expected net worth" formula in "The Next Millionaire Next Door" and how is it used?

  • Formula definition: Expected net worth = Age × Income × 0.10, providing a benchmark for financial progress.
  • Categorization tool: It distinguishes prodigious accumulators of wealth (PAWs) from under accumulators (UAWs) based on whether individuals exceed or fall short of this benchmark.
  • Behavioral insights: The formula highlights that discipline and frugality, not just income or age, drive wealth accumulation.
  • Self-assessment: Readers can use the formula to evaluate their own financial standing and identify areas for improvement.

What is the "Household CFO" concept in "The Next Millionaire Next Door" and why is it important?

  • Comprehensive financial management: The Household CFO is responsible for all financial tasks, from budgeting to investing and estate planning.
  • Skill awareness: Successful Household CFOs understand their strengths and weaknesses, outsourcing complex tasks when needed.
  • Team coordination: This role involves aligning family members around shared financial goals and controlling spending.
  • Key differentiator: Mastery of the Household CFO role is a major factor separating financially successful households from others.

How does upbringing and early experiences influence wealth-building in "The Next Millionaire Next Door"?

  • Parental modeling: Growing up in frugal households with financially responsible parents increases the likelihood of adopting wealth-building behaviors.
  • Early financial education: Teaching children to save, work, and manage money lays a foundation for future success.
  • Adversity as motivation: Many millionaires use challenging childhoods as motivation to achieve financial independence.
  • Behavioral change is possible: Regardless of upbringing, anyone can develop disciplined financial habits through intentional effort.

What role do personality traits like discipline, integrity, and resilience play in financial success according to "The Next Millionaire Next Door"?

  • Discipline is foundational: Consistent self-control, frugality, and focus on long-term goals are repeatedly cited as the most important factors in wealth accumulation.
  • Integrity and trust: Ethical behavior supports business success and financial stability, especially during tough times.
  • Resilience and perseverance: Millionaires overcome setbacks and view wealth-building as a long-term, sustained effort.
  • Traits over intellect: These personality traits often matter more than intelligence or academic achievement in predicting financial success.

How does "The Next Millionaire Next Door" describe the investing behaviors of millionaires?

  • Conventional investments: Most millionaires invest in retirement accounts, real estate, and traditional assets rather than exotic or speculative investments.
  • Research and discipline: They spend time researching investments, show confidence, and are comfortable with calculated risks.
  • Learning from mistakes: Millionaires acknowledge and learn from investing errors, favoring long-term, consistent strategies.
  • Advisor selection: When using advisors, they prefer fiduciary, fee-only planners who focus on behavioral coaching rather than sales.

How does "The Next Millionaire Next Door" address the impact of technology and social media on wealth-building?

  • Increased distractions: Social media and technology expose individuals to constant marketing and peer consumption, making disciplined spending harder.
  • Time and attention management: Millionaires spend less time on social media, preserving cognitive resources for wealth-building activities.
  • Sophisticated marketing: Advances in data analytics create highly targeted advertising that can subtly influence spending habits.
  • Need for discipline: Building wealth today requires heightened awareness and intentional avoidance of marketing traps and social comparison.

What are the best quotes from "The Next Millionaire Next Door" by Thomas J. Stanley and what do they mean?

  • "The process of building wealth is a marathon." Wealth accumulation requires long-term discipline, perseverance, and consistent effort.
  • "High-potential wealth accumulators are largely made, not born." Financial success is primarily the result of learned behaviors and choices, not innate talent or inheritance.
  • "Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing." —Warren Buffett. Financial knowledge and confidence are essential for sound investment decisions.
  • "Money is about giving you choices." Financial independence provides freedom and control over one’s life, not just material possessions.
  • Character over intellect: Quotes throughout the book emphasize that vision, tenacity, and character are more critical than raw intelligence for success.

Review Summary

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Average of 2.7K ratings from Goodreads and Amazon.

The Next Millionaire Next Door received mixed reviews. Many readers found it repetitive and lacking new insights compared to the original book. Some appreciated the updated research and reminders about frugality and wealth-building principles. However, others criticized its dry tone, disjointed structure, and perceived political bias. Several reviewers felt it was an unnecessary rehash, recommending the original instead. A few praised its motivational aspects and practical advice, while others found it outdated or inaccessible for average earners.

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About the Author

Thomas J. Stanley was an American writer and business theorist known for his bestselling books on America's wealthy, including "The Millionaire Next Door." Born in the Bronx in 1944, he earned a doctorate from the University of Georgia and taught at several universities. Stanley dedicated his career to studying how financially successful Americans acquired wealth. He was killed by a drunk driver in 2015 at age 71. Before his death, he was working on a book with his daughter, Sarah Stanley Fallaw, who completed it posthumously. The resulting work, "The Next Millionaire Next Door," was published under both their names.

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