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Well-Behaved Women Seldom Make History

Well-Behaved Women Seldom Make History

by Laurel Thatcher Ulrich 2008 322 pages
History
Feminism
Womens
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Key Takeaways

1. Well-behaved women seldom make history, but their stories matter

"If well-behaved women seldom make history, it is not only because gender norms have constrained the range of female activity but because history hasn't been very good at capturing the lives of those whose contributions have been local and domestic."

Hidden contributions. Throughout history, women have sustained local communities, raised food, cared for the sick, and rebuilt after wars. These contributions, often overlooked by traditional historical narratives, are essential to understanding the full scope of human experience.

Challenging norms. Women who defied societal expectations often left more visible marks on history. However, this does not diminish the importance of those who worked within established norms to effect change. The stories of both "well-behaved" and "misbehaving" women offer valuable insights into past societies and the evolution of gender roles.

Redefining historical value. By examining the lives of ordinary women alongside exceptional figures, historians can paint a more comprehensive picture of the past. This approach reveals the complex ways in which women have shaped families, communities, and cultures, even when their actions did not result in dramatic societal shifts.

2. Women warriors have shaped history across cultures and eras

"Amazon stories exist outside time and space inside the hope of female power. They yearn toward justice, yet acknowledge a terrible violence at the heart of history."

Mythical and real. The concept of women warriors, often embodied in the Amazon myth, has captivated imaginations across cultures. These stories blend historical realities with cultural fantasies, reflecting societal attitudes toward female power and aggression.

Challenging gender norms. Throughout history, women have taken up arms in various contexts:

  • As rulers defending their territories
  • In times of national crisis when traditional gender roles were suspended
  • As individuals disguising themselves as men to access military roles
  • In modern militaries as barriers to women's participation have fallen

Symbol and reality. The image of the woman warrior serves as both an inspiration and a source of anxiety in many cultures. It challenges assumptions about gender roles while also raising questions about the nature of power and violence in society.

3. Shakespeare's female contemporaries defied gender norms through writing

"There were no female writers in William Shakespeare's time because women were not free to develop their gifts."

Breaking barriers. Contrary to Virginia Woolf's assertion, several women writers were active during Shakespeare's era, including:

  • Elizabeth Cary, who wrote the first original drama by an English woman
  • Aemilia Lanyer, who penned the first country house poem
  • Mary Wroth, who authored the first prose fiction

Overcoming obstacles. These women faced significant challenges in pursuing their literary ambitions:

  • Limited access to formal education
  • Social expectations prioritizing domestic roles
  • Restrictions on women's public voices and authority

Lasting impact. Despite these barriers, these writers produced works that challenged contemporary views on gender, religion, and politics. Their achievements paved the way for future generations of women writers and contributed to the rich literary tradition of the English Renaissance.

4. Slave narratives reveal complex intersections of race and gender

"Slavery violated the most cherished norms of womanhood."

Challenging ideals. Slave narratives exposed the hypocrisy of idealized notions of womanhood in slaveholding societies. The experiences of enslaved women directly contradicted prevailing ideas about:

  • Female domesticity
  • Maternal rights
  • Bodily autonomy
  • Chastity and sexual purity

Diverse experiences. The stories of Harriet Jacobs, Harriet Powell, and Harriet Tubman illustrate the varied ways in which enslaved women resisted oppression:

  • Hiding for years to avoid sexual exploitation
  • Escaping to free states or Canada
  • Actively assisting others in their flight from slavery

Legacy and memory. These narratives played a crucial role in the abolitionist movement and continue to shape our understanding of American history. They highlight the resilience and agency of enslaved women while also revealing the brutal realities of the slave system.

5. Second-wave feminism emerged from societal shifts and grassroots activism

"Sixties feminism had its own harried housewives, silenced activists, happenstance gatherings, provocative demonstrations, and outraged public."

Multiple origins. Second-wave feminism arose from various sources in the 1960s and 1970s:

  • Betty Friedan's "The Feminine Mystique" articulating suburban women's discontent
  • Young women's experiences in civil rights and anti-war movements
  • The formation of professional organizations like NOW (National Organization for Women)
  • Radical feminist groups engaging in provocative protests and consciousness-raising

Key issues. The movement addressed a wide range of concerns:

  • Workplace discrimination and unequal pay
  • Reproductive rights and access to contraception
  • Domestic violence and sexual harassment
  • Women's representation in politics and media

Transformative impact. Second-wave feminism led to significant legal and social changes, including:

  • The Equal Pay Act of 1963
  • Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972
  • Roe v. Wade decision in 1973
  • Increased awareness of gender discrimination in various spheres of life

6. Women's history scholarship has transformed academic discourse

"If Gerda Lerner is right in claiming that the core of women's oppression has been an inability to access their own history, then this explosion of resources may presage more lasting change."

Recovering lost voices. Since the 1970s, scholars have worked to uncover and analyze women's experiences throughout history:

  • Rediscovering forgotten texts by female authors
  • Reinterpreting historical events from women's perspectives
  • Examining women's roles in social, economic, and political spheres

Institutional changes. The growth of women's history as a field has led to:

  • The establishment of women's studies programs in universities
  • The integration of women's perspectives into mainstream historical narratives
  • The development of new methodologies for studying historically marginalized groups

Ongoing impact. Women's history scholarship continues to challenge traditional historical narratives and expand our understanding of the past. It has influenced other fields of study and contributed to broader conversations about gender, power, and representation in society.

7. Making history involves both extraordinary actions and everyday resistance

"Well-behaved women make history when they do the unexpected, when they create and preserve records, and when later generations care."

Multiple paths. Women have made history through various means:

  • Extraordinary achievements in politics, science, arts, and other fields
  • Grassroots activism and community organizing
  • Preserving family and community histories through oral traditions and personal records
  • Challenging societal norms through small acts of everyday resistance

Preserving memories. The act of recording and preserving women's experiences is itself a form of making history:

  • Keeping diaries and writing memoirs
  • Collecting and archiving documents and artifacts
  • Passing down stories and traditions through generations

Redefining historical value. Recognizing the historical significance of both exceptional and ordinary women's lives challenges traditional notions of what constitutes "important" history. This expanded view enriches our understanding of the past and provides a more inclusive framework for interpreting historical events and social change.

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Review Summary

3.82 out of 5
Average of 1k+ ratings from Goodreads and Amazon.

Well-Behaved Women Seldom Make History explores women's roles throughout history, focusing on those who challenged societal norms. Readers appreciate Ulrich's engaging writing style and extensive research, though some find it overwhelming or lacking depth in certain areas. The book examines famous and lesser-known women, framed by the works of Christine de Pizan, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, and Virginia Woolf. Many reviewers found the book enlightening and thought-provoking, praising its accessible approach to women's history. Some readers, however, felt it was disjointed or repetitive at times.

About the Author

Laurel Thatcher Ulrich is a renowned historian and Harvard University professor specializing in early American social history, women's history, and material culture. She has authored several acclaimed books, including "Good Wives" and "A Midwife's Tale," the latter winning the Pulitzer Prize for History in 1991. Ulrich's work often incorporates museum-based research alongside traditional archival sources. Her most recent book, "Well-behaved Women Seldom Make History," explores the impact of women throughout history. Ulrich's research is featured on various websites, and she continues to contribute significantly to the field of women's history and social studies.

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