Woman Evolve

1. Rescue Your Inner Eve: Embrace Imperfection and Evolve

To every woman determined to abandon what was and bold enough to discover what could still become . . . this one is for us.

Empathy for Eve. The story of Eve is not just a cautionary tale of sin, but a reflection of our own human struggles. We all have "Eve moments" where we know better but don't do better. Instead of vilifying her, we should approach her story with empathy and compassion, recognizing that her journey mirrors our own.

• Eve's story is a reminder that we are not defined by our mistakes.
• Like Eve, we have the power to evolve and create a new future.
• We must abandon the idea of perfection and embrace our imperfections.

The power of evolution. Evolving is not about becoming someone else, but about developing gradually from a simpler to a more complex form. It's about connecting all the different parts of who you are and allowing them to work together. This process requires vulnerability, authenticity, and a willingness to retrace our steps to see where pain, disappointment, or failure buried our hope, potential, and faith.

• Evolving is a continuous process, not a destination.
• It requires us to be bold enough to discover what we can still become.
• It's about making room for transformation in our lives.

Resurrecting power. When we commit to growth after trauma, there is a resurrecting power that demands our hope, potential, and faith to rise up. An even better version of you is waiting to emerge. This journey is not about reliving the heartbreak, but about leaning in and passing through a tunnel that allows us to reconnect with our soul, hopes, passion, and power.

• We must acknowledge our wounds to heal them.
• We must stop pretending that our past never happened.
• We must commit to growth after trauma.

2. Knowing vs. Thinking: Activate Your Inner Truth

When you begin to transform what you think into what you know, your actions will have no choice but to fall in line.

The power of knowing. It's one thing to think you deserve better, and another to know you deserve better. Knowing produces doing. If you're not doing, then conflicting thoughts in your mind are keeping you from activating what you know.

• Thinking is passive; knowing is active.
• Knowing flips a switch that allows us to resist temptation.
• Knowing produces actions that align with our truth.

Unanswered questions. The environment that produces negative, distracting thoughts often originates from an unanswered question that invaded your soul. The serpent used the woman’s mind against her by injecting a question that destabilized her world.

• Identify the question that haunts you.
• Address the root question, not just the action.
• Change the environment that nurtures negative thoughts.

Pursuing God's knowledge. God doesn't just wonder about His plans for us; He knows them. We must be willing to bench our thoughts and begin pursuing what God knows. The more we activate what we know, the more He gives us vision and clarity for the unknown.

• Stop dismissing your truth with "I don't know."
• Transform what you think into what you know.
• Pursue God's knowledge over your own thoughts.

3. Eyes Wide Open: Control, Contain, and Compare Your Vision

The moment the woman’s truth was uprooted and replaced with inquisition is the moment humanity took a sharp turn.

Control what you see. Our eyes are opened to everything good and bad, so we must learn to navigate the world we're in. We must be disciplined about what we allow ourselves to see.

• Protect your mind from content that weakens your will.
• Focus on what motivates you to become better.
• Replace negative narratives with higher thoughts of beauty.

Contain your emotions. Containing our thoughts and emotions is not the same as repressing them. It's an opportunity to have self-intimacy, allowing us to give God access to the most tender, frustrated, broken parts of ourselves.

• Organize your thoughts and emotions in appropriately sized containers.
• Embrace the twists and turns of life.
• Recognize that your development comes from going through the fire.

Compare with God's vision. Comparing what you see has nothing to do with looking at the life of the people around you and everything to do with daring to see your life the way God does. We must be willing to surrender our vision fully and ask God to soften our hearts.

• See people, circumstances, and opportunities the way God sees them.
• Ask God to show you the person's heart.
• Release your perspective for God's perspective.

4. A War of Seed: Unleash Your Divine Power

I’m no longer asking God to exclusively grant us wisdom, strategy, and grace for the evil we see. I’m asking God to make me aware of what is in my heart, home, or community that is at war with my ability to partner with God in bringing the world to its greatest potential.

Recognize the enemy. Addiction, depression, suicide, abandonment, rejection, low self-esteem, sabotage, and procrastination are not just out to slow you down. Those issues are waging war on your ability to produce.

• See your detrimental patterns as threats to your destiny.
• Don't accept complacency with the unsure and insecure areas of your life.
• Attack insecurity head-on to gain authentic confidence.

God created us to produce. God was preparing humanity to live in a perpetual state of production where we are to take what God has given us, plant it, and allow it to produce over and over again.

• You are seed, and you have seed.
• Your life is meant to serve the world.
• You are not neutral; you are meant to effect change.

The power of the curse. God told the serpent that the most damning part of the curse would not be that he would slither around on his stomach or that he would eat dust. What he should really be afraid of had to do with how God was going to use enmity between him and the woman.

• God trusted the woman with hostility.
• Use hostility to dismantle the narrative of shame, regret, and disappointment.
• You are the devil's worst nightmare.

5. Work the Wait: Purpose in Your Present

You don’t have to know every detail of your purpose or even what your purpose is in order to set your life up for purpose.

Your essence matters. Answering the question of who you are is impossible without understanding your essence. What is your consistent offering to your job, family, friends, and community?

• Your essence is who you are, not what you do.
• Your roles should stem from your essence.
• Your essence gives you distinction regardless of the environment.

Purposeful living. You don't have to know every detail of your purpose to set your life up for purpose. Your how is buried in your now.

• Trust who you are, not just what you do.
• Protect your environment from anything that stunts your growth.
• Nurture the seed that is taking root within you.

Fuel for your passion. God may not reveal your purpose until you have the fuel to overcome whatever hell may stand in your way.

• Get in position so you're ready when God throws the ball your way.
• Ask God what role you can play in establishing His presence on Earth.
• Your passion is a clue about where you can partner with God.

6. It'll Never Add Up: Surrender Your Little for Multiplication

When you have a history of having to get things done on your own, you become conditioned to believing that’s the only way you’ll ever get anything done.

Uncomfortable vulnerability. We can't expect a miracle if we're not willing to live in a space of uncomfortable vulnerability. Surrender what you have to another person.

• Trust someone you don't know well with what you have.
• Vulnerability is the act of letting someone see your "little."
• Partnership without vulnerability can't produce success.

Underresourced but not defeated. When you feel like you have only a little to give, but you have to trust someone with it anyway, remember that your little is more than enough for you.

• Don't let someone shame you for your "little."
• Your little brought you this far.
• Your little is valuable in the sight of God.

The power of multiplication. When you combine your uncomfortable vulnerability with your underresourced effort and lay it at Jesus' feet, a miracle takes place.

• God sees what you can't see.
• He knows the road ahead of you and the world around you.
• When you give Him something to work with, He gives you something worth the wait.

7. Good Goes Hard: Honor Your Blessings Through Challenges

When we are confronted with things we don’t see (or we’d rather not see), we’re strengthened and prepared to know better the next time around.

Blessings can become burdens. When something that starts off as a good thing becomes challenging, we often wonder if it was God in the first place.

• Good doesn't always equal easy.
• Easy doesn't always mean it's good.
• Ask yourself if the blessing changed or if you changed.

Control your sight. God doesn't allow Himself to see where we've missed the mark. We must commit to controlling our sight to protect our identity.

• Protect your identity by controlling what you see.
• Replace negative narratives with higher thoughts of beauty.
• Embrace the twists and turns of life.

Soul care is essential. We must make sure we're making time for ourselves. We must be intentional about creating space for rest, introspection, and intentional joy.

• Your soul matters.
• Your mental health matters.
• Your peace matters.

8. God Goals: Step Out of the Boat and Trust the Process

If you want to hear God laugh, make plans.

Embrace the unknown. Don't allow the idea that your plan may not pan out the exact way you have in mind keep you from producing at all.

• Be content with starting to head in the right direction.
• Don't get caught up in whether you'll reach the desired destination.
• Step out of what you know and begin seeking out what God knows.

The power of goals. Setting goals is one of the tools God gives us to renew our mind.

• Set short-term, long-term, and generational goals.
• Your short-term goals determine whether you'll accomplish your long-term goals.
• Connect your long-term goal with your generational goal.

Renew your mind. When you set goals, you are giving your brain an opportunity to be rewired.

• Your life is supposed to be evidence of the good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
• Your goals can change your mind.
• Your goals can help you become more like God.

9. Set It In Motion: Produce Seed That Changes the World

I believe that purpose happens in steps.

The power of seed. You are seed, and you have seed. You are what God has planted in the earth. Within you He has placed seed that will spring from your life so the earth can be sustained.

• Your existence is seed.
• Protect your environment from anything that stunts your growth.
• Nurture the seed that is taking root within you.

The power of the curse. God gave Eve a more strategic purpose, but the serpent's trick gave her fuel.

• God's curse gave Eve a more strategic purpose.
• The serpent's trick gave her fuel.
• God can use all things to get them back to good.

The power of production. Eve set in motion exactly what God said. She started producing.

• Commit to a process, not just the outcome.
• Discipline is about fine-tuning the outcome.
• Don't quit just because the first outcome didn't reflect what God said.

10. Don't Do It Alone: Connect With Your Favored Community

Blessed is she who believed, for there will be a fulfillment of those things which were told her from the Lord.

Trust your heart. When you turn your heart over to God after it's been damaged, wounded, and abused, it's because it needs surgery.

• God brings your heart to a place of healing, perspective, and restoration.
• He gives you your heart back and says, "You can trust who you're becoming."
• Trust who you are in God.

God wants to heal you. God wants you to come to a place where you trust that you deserve to stand in wonder at how God wants to change your life.

• Surrender to goodness.
• Embrace the possibilities that are working in your favor.
• God wants to heal your heart and give you a new expectation.

Favored women need favored women. When women get together, powerful things take place.

• Get in community with other women who see you worthy of celebration.
• Be the cheerleader in the corner of every woman pursuing her goal.
• Create an environment where greater expectations are the norm.

Last updated: April 11, 2025