Before My Heart Stops

1. Congenital heart defect shapes a life of resilience and faith

"I was born with half a heart. GOD MADE UP THE DIFFERENCE."

Early medical challenges. Paul Cardall was born in 1973 with a severe congenital heart defect called tricuspid atresia. Doctors believed he wouldn't survive infancy, but he defied the odds through multiple surgeries and interventions. This early struggle set the tone for a life marked by resilience, faith, and a deep appreciation for each day.

Developing faith. Throughout his childhood and adolescence, Paul's experiences in hospitals and brushes with death shaped his spiritual outlook. He developed a strong faith in God and found comfort in prayer and religious teachings. This faith became a cornerstone of his ability to face ongoing health challenges with optimism and courage.

Living with limitations. Paul learned to navigate life with physical limitations, often unable to participate fully in activities like sports or high-altitude adventures. However, he refused to let his condition define him, instead focusing on what he could do and developing other talents and interests.

2. Music becomes a healing force and unexpected career

"Music had become the medium that would change my life, heal my soul, and allow me to express myself spiritually."

Discovering musical talent. As a teenager, Paul found solace and expression through playing the piano. What began as a hobby soon revealed a natural talent and deep emotional connection to music. This discovery provided a new sense of purpose and identity beyond his medical condition.

Healing through creativity. Paul found that creating and performing music had a profound healing effect on his emotional and spiritual well-being. It allowed him to process his experiences, connect with others, and find meaning in his struggles.

Building a career. Against the odds, Paul developed a successful career as a pianist and composer, releasing multiple albums and performing concerts. His music, often described as peaceful and inspirational, resonated with many listeners who found comfort in its emotional depth.

3. Family support and love prove crucial during health struggles

"We are all in the loving hands of our Heavenly Father. No matter where we run or try to hide, we cannot escape His love. It will find us. It will bring us back to His arms. His love will heal us."

Unconditional parental love. Paul's parents, Duane and Margaret Cardall, provided unwavering support throughout his life. They balanced treating him normally with giving him the extra care he needed, fostering his independence while always being there in times of crisis.

Sibling bonds. Growing up in a large family with seven siblings created a strong support network for Paul. His brothers and sisters were his allies, playmates, and later, advocates during his health struggles.

Finding a life partner. Paul's marriage to Lynnette brought a new dimension of love and support into his life. Her willingness to face an uncertain future with him and her strength during his medical crises exemplified the power of committed partnership.

4. Waiting for a heart transplant: A journey of hope and uncertainty

"I am alive because of the medical team, this community, and my Savior, who healed me."

The need becomes urgent. As Paul's health declined in his mid-30s, it became clear that a heart transplant was his only hope for long-term survival. He was placed on the transplant list in August 2008, beginning a period of intense waiting and preparation.

Emotional rollercoaster. The wait for a donor heart was filled with ups and downs:

• Moments of hope and despair
• False alarms and setbacks
• Increasing physical limitations
• Emotional preparation for possible death

Community support. During this time, Paul's story touched many lives through his blog and music. A vast network of family, friends, fans, and strangers offered prayers, encouragement, and practical support, demonstrating the power of human connection in times of crisis.

5. Tragedy strikes: Coping with the loss of a brother

"Brian continues to inspire me. He climbed the face of mountains and accomplished many great things. As my wife and I prepare to climb one of the most incredible peaks of our lives, I'm ready and comforted because I know he'll be close by."

Unexpected loss. In June 2009, while Paul was still waiting for a transplant, his brother Brian died tragically after being tased by police during a mental health episode. This sudden loss was a devastating blow to the family already dealing with Paul's health crisis.

Finding meaning in grief. Paul and his family grappled with the shock and sorrow of Brian's death. Through their faith and love for each other, they found ways to honor Brian's memory and draw strength from his life.

Renewed determination. Brian's death intensified Paul's resolve to survive and make the most of whatever time he had left. It brought a new perspective on the preciousness of life and the importance of family bonds.

6. The miracle of a new heart and a second chance at life

"I knew immediately it was Lynnette. As I focused my eyes upward on the side of my bed, there was my wife with her beautiful green eyes smiling down upon me and saying something to effect, 'Everything went well.' I felt very emotional. It wasn't just that I then knew the surgery had been a success, but it was because here before me was heaven on earth in the form of my wife."

The call comes. After 384 days on the transplant list, Paul received the life-changing news that a donor heart was available. The transplant surgery, performed on September 9, 2009, was successful beyond expectations.

Rapid recovery. Paul's recovery from the transplant was remarkably swift:

• Off the ventilator within days
• Walking and regaining strength quickly
• Discharged from the hospital much sooner than expected

New lease on life. With his new heart, Paul experienced a dramatic improvement in his physical capabilities. Simple acts like breathing without effort, walking without fatigue, and feeling warmth in his extremities were profound reminders of his second chance at life.

7. Gratitude and a renewed perspective on living fully

"I would not trade this past year for all the wealth or power in the world."

Deepened appreciation. Paul's transplant journey fostered a profound gratitude for:

• The gift of life from his donor
• The skill and dedication of his medical team
• The love and support of family, friends, and strangers
• Each new day and simple pleasure

Commitment to giving back. Motivated by his experiences, Paul dedicated himself to:

• Raising awareness about organ donation
• Supporting other families facing similar health challenges
• Using his music to bring comfort and inspiration to others

Living intentionally. Paul embraced his second chance with a determination to:

• Cherish every moment with his wife and daughter
• Pursue new adventures and experiences previously impossible
• Continue creating music with renewed passion and purpose
• Share his story to inspire hope and faith in others

Last updated: October 1, 2024