Oneness With All Life

1. Presence: The Key to Transcending Ego and Awakening

Only Presence can free you of the ego, and you can only be present Now, not yesterday or tomorrow.

Presence is consciousness. It is the state of being fully aware and engaged in the current moment, free from the constant chatter of the mind. This state of heightened awareness allows you to observe your thoughts and emotions without being consumed by them.

Benefits of cultivating presence:

• Reduced stress and anxiety
• Improved focus and clarity
• Enhanced emotional regulation
• Deeper connections with others
• Greater sense of inner peace

To cultivate presence, practice mindfulness techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or simply paying attention to your sensory experiences throughout the day. By consistently returning your attention to the present moment, you can gradually weaken the grip of the ego and experience a profound shift in consciousness.

2. The Power of Now: Living in the Present Moment

Time is seen as the endless succession of moments, some "good," some "bad." Yet, if you look more closely, that is to say, through your own immediate experience, you find that there are not many moments at all. You discover that there is only ever this moment. Life is always now.

The present moment is all there is. Our minds often dwell on the past or worry about the future, creating unnecessary suffering. By fully embracing the Now, we can access a deeper dimension of peace and aliveness.

Techniques for living in the present:

• Focus on your breath or bodily sensations
• Engage fully in your current activity
• Practice gratitude for what is happening right now
• Let go of past regrets and future anxieties
• Observe your thoughts without judgment

By consistently redirecting your attention to the present moment, you can break free from the mind's tendency to create problems and experience life more directly and authentically. This shift in focus can lead to greater joy, clarity, and a sense of connection to the world around you.

3. Consciousness: The Essence of Your Being

Your primary purpose is to enable consciousness to flow into what you do. The secondary purpose is whatever you want to achieve through the doing.

Consciousness is your true nature. It is the awareness that underlies all of your experiences, thoughts, and emotions. By recognizing and aligning with this fundamental aspect of your being, you can transcend the limitations of ego and access a deeper source of wisdom and peace.

Key aspects of consciousness:

• It is ever-present and unchanging
• It is the witness of all thoughts and experiences
• It is the source of intuition and creativity
• It connects you to the universal intelligence

To deepen your connection to consciousness, practice self-inquiry by asking questions like "Who am I?" or "What is aware of my thoughts?" This can help you distinguish between your true self (consciousness) and the temporary contents of your mind. As you become more identified with consciousness itself, you'll experience greater freedom, clarity, and a sense of oneness with all of life.

4. Inner Space: Discovering Stillness Within

Whenever there is beauty, kindness, the recognition of the goodness of simple things in your life, look for the background to that experience within yourself. But don't look for it as if you were looking for something. You cannot pin it down and say, "Now I have it," or grasp it mentally and define it in some way.

Inner space is the dimension of stillness that exists beneath the surface of your thoughts and emotions. It is the silent awareness that allows all experiences to arise and subside. By cultivating an awareness of this inner space, you can access a deep reservoir of peace and clarity.

Ways to connect with inner space:

• Practice moments of conscious pause throughout the day
• Observe the gaps between thoughts during meditation
• Spend time in nature, attuning to its inherent stillness
• Listen to the silence underneath all sounds
• Engage in creative activities that induce a flow state

As you become more familiar with inner space, you'll find that it provides a sanctuary of calm amidst the chaos of daily life. This spaciousness allows for greater creativity, intuition, and a sense of connection to something vaster than your individual self.

5. Awakened Doing: Aligning Action with Being

Awakened doing is the alignment of your outer purpose—what you do—with your inner purpose—awakening and staying awake.

Awakened doing combines presence with action. It involves bringing full awareness to your activities, allowing them to be infused with the quality of presence. This approach transforms mundane tasks into opportunities for spiritual growth and self-realization.

Three modalities of awakened doing:

1. Acceptance: Embracing the present situation fully
2. Enjoyment: Finding joy in the process of what you're doing
3. Enthusiasm: Aligning your actions with a sense of purpose

To practice awakened doing, start by bringing more awareness to your daily activities. Notice the sensations in your body, the quality of your breath, and the thoughts passing through your mind as you engage in various tasks. Gradually, you'll find that this heightened awareness not only improves the quality of your actions but also deepens your sense of fulfillment and connection to life itself.

6. The Inner Body: A Gateway to Presence

Your inner body is not solid but spacious. It is not your physical form but the life that animates the physical form. It is the intelligence that created and sustains the body, simultaneously coordinating hundreds of different functions of such extraordinary complexity that the human mind can only understand a tiny fraction of it.

The inner body is a field of energy that can be felt as a subtle aliveness throughout your physical form. By tuning into this inner dimension, you can anchor yourself in the present moment and access a deeper sense of peace and vitality.

Steps to connect with your inner body:

1. Close your eyes and bring attention to your hands
2. Notice any tingling, warmth, or subtle sensations
3. Gradually expand this awareness to other body parts
4. Feel the aliveness that permeates your entire body
5. Practice this awareness throughout daily activities

Regular practice of inner body awareness can lead to improved health, reduced stress, and a greater sense of groundedness in your daily life. It also serves as a powerful tool for breaking the habit of excessive thinking and cultivating a more direct experience of being.

7. Emotional Intelligence: Overcoming Negativity and Reactivity

Be aware of your breathing. Notice how this takes attention away from your thinking and creates space.

Emotional intelligence involves recognizing and managing emotions effectively. By developing this skill, you can reduce reactivity, overcome negative patterns, and respond to life's challenges with greater wisdom and composure.

Strategies for developing emotional intelligence:

• Practice mindful observation of your emotions
• Use breath awareness to create space around reactions
• Identify and challenge negative thought patterns
• Cultivate compassion for yourself and others
• Regularly practice stress-reduction techniques

As you develop emotional intelligence, you'll find that you're less controlled by your emotions and more able to choose your responses consciously. This leads to improved relationships, reduced stress, and a greater sense of inner peace and well-being.

8. Relationships: Cultivating Genuine Connections

A genuine relationship is one that is not dominated by the ego with its image-making and self-seeking. In a genuine relationship, there is an outward flow of open, alert attention toward the other person in which there is no wanting whatsoever. That alert attention is Presence.

Authentic relationships are built on presence and genuine connection, rather than ego-driven needs and expectations. By bringing more awareness and acceptance to your interactions, you can cultivate deeper, more fulfilling relationships with others.

Keys to cultivating genuine relationships:

• Practice active listening without judgment
• Be fully present when interacting with others
• Let go of the need to be right or to change others
• Recognize and honor the presence in others
• Communicate honestly and compassionately

As you bring more presence to your relationships, you'll find that they become more harmonious, authentic, and deeply satisfying. This shift can transform not only your personal connections but also contribute to a more conscious and compassionate world.

9. Purpose: Aligning Inner and Outer Intentions

Your life has an inner purpose and an outer purpose. Inner purpose concerns Being and is primary. Outer purpose concerns doing and is secondary.

True purpose arises from aligning your inner and outer intentions. Your inner purpose is to awaken to your true nature as consciousness, while your outer purpose involves the specific actions and roles you play in the world. By harmonizing these two aspects, you can live a life of greater meaning and fulfillment.

Steps to align inner and outer purpose:

1. Cultivate presence in your daily activities
2. Listen to your intuition and inner guidance
3. Identify your unique gifts and passions
4. Serve others through your actions and work
5. Remain flexible and open to life's unfolding

As you align your inner and outer purposes, you'll experience a greater sense of flow and ease in your life. Your actions will become more effective and meaningful, and you'll feel a deeper connection to the universal intelligence that guides all of life.

10. Ego: Understanding and Transcending the False Self

Ego arises when your sense of Beingness, of "I Am," which is formless consciousness, gets mixed up with form. This is the meaning of identification. This is forgetfulness of Being, the primary error, the illusion of absolute separateness that turns reality into a nightmare.

The ego is a mental construct that creates a false sense of self based on identification with thoughts, emotions, and external circumstances. By recognizing the nature of ego and its limitations, you can begin to free yourself from its grip and access a more authentic way of being.

Characteristics of the ego:

• Constantly seeks validation and approval
• Creates a sense of separation from others and life
• Generates fear, anxiety, and conflict
• Lives in past and future, rarely in the present
• Resists change and clings to familiar patterns

To transcend the ego, practice observing your thoughts and emotions without identifying with them. Cultivate presence and awareness in your daily life, and remind yourself that your true identity lies beyond the mental constructs of the ego. As you gradually dis-identify from the ego, you'll experience greater freedom, peace, and a profound sense of connection to all of life.

Last updated: September 17, 2024