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59 Seconds

59 Seconds

Think a Little, Change a Lot
作者 Richard Wiseman 2009 357 页数
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重点摘要

1. 幸福是一种可以通过简单实践培养的技能

“让人们列出生活中三件他们感恩的事情或过去一周中三件特别顺利的事件,可以显著提高他们的幸福感,持续约一个月。”

感恩的力量。 研究表明,定期练习感恩可以在较长时间内提升幸福感。这个简单的承认生活中积极方面的行为可以重新塑造大脑,使其更关注美好,从而增加乐观情绪和改善身体健康。

善行的重要性。 即使是小小的慷慨举动,比如捐赠几美元或帮助朋友,也能显著快速地提升个人幸福感。这些行为创造了一个积极的反馈循环,鼓励更多的亲社会行为,增强人与人之间的联系感。

  • 每日感恩练习:列出三件你感激的事情
  • 每周善行挑战:进行一次意想不到的善举
  • 每月反思:写下过去30天中的积极事件

2. 单靠可视化无法实现目标,但战略规划能做到

“那些想象自己采取实现目标所需实际步骤的人,比那些仅仅幻想梦想成真的人更有可能成功。”

行动胜于白日梦。 虽然积极的可视化让人感觉良好,但实际上可能会降低动机,阻碍进展。相反,专注于心理排练实现目标所需的具体行动。

第三人称视角有帮助。 从外部视角想象自己,就像在电影屏幕上观看自己,这种方法比第一人称可视化效果更好,效果可提高20%。这种技巧有助于创造情感距离,使规划更加客观。

  • 将目标分解为可执行的步骤
  • 详细想象自己执行每一步
  • 练习“心理对比”:想象障碍及如何克服它们
  • 使用第三人称自我对话:“约翰会在周五之前完成他的报告”,而不是“我会在周五之前完成我的报告”

3. 群体头脑风暴抑制创造力;个人创意更有效

“给他们播放人们撒谎和讲真话的视频,并让他们找出撒谎者,他们的表现几乎与随机猜测无异。”

社会懈怠阻碍群体创造力。 与普遍看法相反,群体头脑风暴往往比个人独立工作产生更少且更不原创的想法。这是由于评估焦虑、生产阻塞和责任扩散等因素造成的。

独立创意促进创新。 为了最大化创造力,鼓励个人在聚集分享和构建想法之前独立生成创意。这种方法允许更广泛的视角,并减少随大流的倾向。

  • 实施“脑写”:让团队成员在讨论前默默写下想法
  • 使用名义小组技术:将个人创意与结构化小组讨论结合
  • 鼓励多样化思维风格:结合逻辑和直觉的方法
  • 设置“创造力区域”,提供不受干扰的个人创意时间

4. 赞美努力而非能力,以培养儿童的韧性和成长

“赞美孩子的努力而不是他们的能力(‘做得好,你一定很努力’)鼓励他们尝试,无论结果如何,从而避免对失败的恐惧。”

培养成长心态。 赞美努力而非天赋有助于孩子们发展成长心态,相信他们的能力可以通过奉献和努力来提升。这种方法在面对挑战时能带来更大的韧性。

对成就的长期影响。 被赞美努力的孩子更可能迎接困难问题,享受学习过程,并在挫折面前坚持不懈。这种心态有助于提高学业成就和更好的长期结果。

  • 使用过程导向的赞美:“我喜欢你尝试不同的策略”
  • 鼓励从错误中学习:“我们能从中学到什么?”
  • 强调挑战的价值:“这很难,但有助于你的大脑成长”
  • 树立成长心态的榜样:分享自己的学习经历和挑战

5. 身体语言和微妙的触碰显著影响吸引力和说服力

“轻轻触碰某人的上臂会使他们更可能同意请求,因为这种触碰在潜意识中被视为高地位的标志。”

触碰的力量。 在上臂上短暂而适当的触碰可以使请求的遵从率提高多达20%。这一微妙的举动在潜意识中被解读为自信和权威的象征。

镜像以建立联系。 模仿他人的身体语言和言语模式可以创造一种融洽感,增加可亲性。这种技巧在自然和微妙地使用时,可以改善社交互动和说服效果。

  • 在专业场合中练习适当的触碰:握手、短暂的肩部触碰
  • 在对话中使用镜像技巧:匹配姿势、手势和说话节奏
  • 保持开放的身体语言:双臂不交叉、良好的姿势、眼神接触
  • 注意微表情:揭示真实情感的细微面部线索

6. 写下你的感受可以改善人际关系和个人幸福感

“每周花几分钟时间将自己对关系的深刻想法和感受写下来,能使伴侣之间的维系几率提高20%以上。”

表达性写作的疗愈。 定期写下关于重要生活事件或人际关系的想法和感受,可以改善心理和身体健康。这种实践有助于处理情感并获得新的视角。

通过写作增强关系。 参与表达性写作的伴侣在沟通时往往使用更积极的语言。这导致理解、同理心和整体关系满意度的提高。

  • 每周抽出15-20分钟进行表达性写作,3-4次
  • 自由书写,不必担心语法或结构
  • 关注经历中的积极和挑战性方面
  • 考虑与伴侣分享部分写作,以促进更深的联系

7. 快速决策技巧可以带来更好的选择和更少的遗憾

“要找出完成某事真正需要多长时间,先将所有步骤分开,然后进行时间估算。”

无意识处理有助于决策。 面对复杂选择时,让无意识思维处理信息可以带来更好的决策。在做出最终选择之前,参与一项无关的心理任务。

避免决策瘫痪。 过度思考可能导致较差的选择和增加的遗憾。相反,使用“无意识思维理论”等技巧可以更高效、自信地做出决策。

  • 使用“分心技巧”:在做重大决策前解谜
  • 实施“两分钟规则”:对小任务快速决策
  • 练习“前瞻性回顾”:想象未来回顾你的决策
  • 利用“WRAP”框架:拓宽选择、现实检验假设、保持距离、准备接受错误

8. 儿童的自律性比智商更能预测长期成功

“研究表明,学生的自律水平比智力测试的分数更能预测他们未来的学业成功。”

棉花糖测试的启示。 能够延迟满足(例如,等待两个棉花糖而不是立即吃掉一个)的孩子,往往在生活中有更好的结果,包括更高的教育成就和更好的社交技能。

培养自我控制。 虽然一些孩子天生具有更强的自律性,但这一技能可以通过有针对性的练习和环境改变来发展。父母和教育者在培养这一能力方面发挥着至关重要的作用。

  • 与孩子一起练习延迟满足的练习
  • 从小教授目标设定和规划技能
  • 在自己的行为中树立自我控制的榜样
  • 创建支持专注注意力和减少干扰的环境

9. 你的名字和身体特征可以微妙地影响你的生活结果

“姓氏以字母开头较早的人在生活中往往比姓氏以字母开头较晚的人更成功。”

名字的力量。 研究表明,名字开头字母较早的人可能在生活中有轻微的优势,这可能与更多的机会或潜意识偏见有关。虽然这种影响微小,但它突显了对我们生活的微妙影响。

身体特征与个性。 研究表明,某些身体特征(如手指长度比例)可能与个性特征和能力相关。虽然这些联系并非决定性的,但它们为生物与行为之间的相互作用提供了有趣的见解。

  • 在决策过程中考虑字母顺序偏见
  • 注意专业环境中可能存在的基于名字的刻板印象
  • 理解身体特征可能影响行为,但并不定义一个人
  • 专注于发展技能和品格,而不论天生特征

10. 小的环境变化可以对行为和生产力产生重大影响

“在办公室添加植物会使男性员工报告的创意数量增加15%,并帮助女性员工提出更多原创解决方案。”

绿色的力量。 工作场所的植物不仅改善空气质量,还能提升情绪、减少压力并增强创造力。这一简单的变化可以显著改善员工的幸福感和生产力。

促进更好选择的微调。 小的环境变化可以以积极的方式微妙地影响行为。例如,在厨房放置镜子可以通过提高自我意识将不健康的食物消费减少32%。

  • 在办公室和家庭空间添加植物
  • 在饮食区域战略性地使用镜子
  • 优化照明以提升情绪和生产力
  • 创建专门的空间用于专注工作和放松
  • 实施色彩心理学:使用蓝色以获得平静效果,使用黄色以激发创造力

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FAQ

What's 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot about?

  • Focus on Rapid Change: The book explores how small, scientifically-backed techniques can lead to significant personal improvements in various aspects of life, such as happiness, motivation, and creativity.
  • Debunking Self-Help Myths: Richard Wiseman critiques popular self-help methods, arguing that many are ineffective or even counterproductive, and presents evidence-based alternatives.
  • Quick Techniques: Each chapter provides practical advice that can be implemented in under a minute, making it accessible for busy individuals seeking change.

Why should I read 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot?

  • Evidence-Based Approach: The book is grounded in psychological research, offering readers scientifically validated methods for personal development rather than anecdotal advice.
  • Time-Efficient Solutions: Wiseman emphasizes that effective change doesn’t require extensive time commitments, appealing to those with busy lifestyles.
  • Broad Applicability: The techniques cover a wide range of topics, including happiness, relationships, and decision-making, making it relevant to many readers.

What are the key takeaways of 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot?

  • Happiness Techniques: The book suggests keeping a gratitude diary, engaging in expressive writing, and focusing on small acts of kindness to boost happiness.
  • Motivation Strategies: Wiseman highlights the importance of creating a detailed plan, sharing goals with others, and rewarding progress to maintain motivation.
  • Creativity Enhancement: Techniques such as changing your environment, using visual priming, and allowing your unconscious mind to work can significantly enhance creativity.

What are the best quotes from 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot and what do they mean?

  • “Effective change does not have to be time-consuming.”: This emphasizes that significant personal transformation can occur quickly with the right techniques, challenging the notion that change requires extensive effort.
  • “Those who do not feel in control of their lives are less successful.”: This highlights the importance of perceived control in achieving personal goals and overall well-being.
  • “If you want to buy happiness, then spend your hard-earned cash on experiences.”: This suggests that investing in experiences rather than material goods leads to greater long-term happiness.

How does 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot address the concept of happiness?

  • Gratitude and Writing: Wiseman emphasizes the importance of gratitude journaling and expressive writing as effective methods for enhancing happiness.
  • Avoiding Positive Thinking Myths: The book critiques the idea that simply thinking positively can lead to happiness, suggesting instead that engaging in meaningful actions is more effective.
  • Scientific Backing: Research cited in the book shows that happiness is linked to social connections, acts of kindness, and a focus on personal strengths.

What are some quick techniques for improving motivation from 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot?

  • Create a Step-by-Step Plan: Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, making it easier to track progress and stay motivated.
  • Public Commitment: Share your goals with friends or family to increase accountability and support, which can enhance your commitment to achieving them.
  • Reward Yourself: Attach small rewards to each sub-goal to maintain motivation and create a sense of achievement as you progress.

What does 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot say about creativity?

  • Brainstorming Myths: Wiseman debunks the effectiveness of group brainstorming, showing that individuals often generate more creative ideas alone.
  • Environmental Influence: The presence of plants and nature can enhance creativity, suggesting that a conducive environment is crucial for innovative thinking.
  • Unconscious Mind: Engaging in unrelated tasks can free the unconscious mind to generate creative solutions, highlighting the importance of mental breaks.

How can I apply the doublethink technique from 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot?

  • Visualize Benefits and Barriers: Identify the benefits of achieving your goal and the potential obstacles you may face, then reflect on both to create a balanced perspective.
  • Elaborate on Each Aspect: Spend time detailing how achieving your goal will improve your life and how you will address the challenges that arise.
  • Use for Various Goals: This technique can be applied to personal, professional, or relational goals, making it a versatile tool for motivation and planning.

What is the bystander effect discussed in 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot?

  • Diffusion of Responsibility: The bystander effect explains why individuals are less likely to help in emergencies when others are present, as they assume someone else will take action.
  • Research Background: Wiseman references studies that illustrate this phenomenon, including the infamous case of Kitty Genovese, to highlight the importance of personal accountability.
  • Practical Application: To counteract this effect, Wiseman suggests directly addressing individuals in a crowd to increase the likelihood of receiving help.

How does 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot suggest improving relationships?

  • Active Listening Critique: Wiseman challenges the effectiveness of active listening, suggesting that it may not be as crucial to relationship success as previously thought.
  • Power Sharing: Successful relationships often involve partners who share power and listen to each other’s ideas, fostering mutual respect and understanding.
  • Simple Gestures Matter: Small acts of kindness and appreciation can significantly strengthen relationships, emphasizing the importance of everyday interactions.

What psychological techniques does 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot recommend for improving relationships?

  • Know Your Partner: Engaging in quizzes about each other’s preferences can strengthen bonds and improve relationship longevity, as knowing details about your partner predicts relationship success.
  • Shared Experiences: Participating in novel and exciting activities together can rekindle romance and attraction, as it mimics the excitement of early courtship.
  • Expressive Writing: Writing about your feelings and thoughts regarding your relationship can enhance communication and emotional connection between partners.

How does 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot suggest managing stress effectively?

  • Focus on Benefits: The book recommends finding positive aspects in negative experiences to reduce feelings of anger and resentment, promoting a healthier mindset.
  • Avoid Venting Anger: Contrary to popular belief, expressing anger does not alleviate it; instead, it can intensify feelings of aggression.
  • Utilize Humor: Engaging in humor and laughter can significantly improve mood and reduce stress, contributing to better overall health.

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《59秒》提供了基于科学的快速自我提升技巧,涵盖幸福、关系、创造力等多个方面。读者们欣赏其研究基础的方法,揭穿了自助书籍中的一些神话,并提供了实用的建议。许多人认为这本书信息量大且实用,赞扬其简洁的格式和多样的主题。然而,也有一些批评意见,指出可能存在性别偏见和研究方法的可疑性。总体而言,这本书被视为传统自助书籍的清新替代品,提供了基于证据的个人成长策略,仅需59秒即可实现。

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关于作者

理查德·怀斯曼是一位英国心理学家和作家,以其在公众心理学理解方面的工作而闻名。他的职业生涯始于专业魔术师,随后获得心理学学位。怀斯曼在赫特福德大学担任教授,并因其在运气、自助和幻觉方面的研究而获得国际认可。他著有畅销书,曾在主要组织中演讲,并制作了广受欢迎的视频。怀斯曼在社交媒体上非常活跃,并进行过大规模参与的实验。他是多个知名组织的成员,并常常在英国媒体中被引用。

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