Living Clean

1. Recovery is a lifelong journey of spiritual growth and self-discovery

We don't just recover; we thrive.

Continuous awakening. Recovery in Narcotics Anonymous is not a destination, but an ongoing process of spiritual awakening and personal growth. As members progress through the program, they experience multiple layers of self-discovery, each revealing new insights and opportunities for change.

Tools for growth. The NA program provides various tools to support this journey:

• Regular meeting attendance
• Working the Twelve Steps
• Sponsorship
• Service to others
• Prayer and meditation

Evolving perspective. As recovery deepens, members often find their perspective on life, themselves, and their relationships continuously evolving. What once seemed impossible becomes achievable, and new challenges emerge as old ones are overcome.

2. The program offers tools for living clean and finding a new way of life

NA offers us a path, a process, and a way of life.

Practical application. The NA program is not just about abstaining from drugs, but about learning to live a fulfilling life without them. This involves applying the principles learned in recovery to all aspects of daily life.

Key tools include:

• Honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness
• Practicing gratitude
• Developing a relationship with a Higher Power
• Learning to cope with emotions without using
• Building healthy relationships

Transformative process. As members consistently apply these tools, they often experience a profound transformation in their thinking, behavior, and overall quality of life. This new way of living becomes increasingly natural and rewarding over time.

3. Building connections and relationships is crucial for sustained recovery

We need one another, and we need to be involved with the world around us in order to recover.

Fellowship importance. The NA fellowship provides a supportive community where members can share their experiences, strength, and hope. This sense of belonging and connection is often crucial in maintaining long-term recovery.

Types of relationships in recovery:

• Sponsorship
• Friendships within the fellowship
• Family relationships
• Romantic partnerships
• Professional relationships

Challenges and growth. Learning to build and maintain healthy relationships is often a significant challenge for recovering addicts. However, it's through these relationships that members learn valuable lessons about trust, intimacy, and personal growth.

4. Practicing spiritual principles transforms all aspects of life

Spiritual principles seem abstract until we put them into action.

Living principles. The spiritual principles of the NA program are not just theoretical concepts but practical guidelines for daily living. As members consistently apply these principles, they often see positive changes in all areas of their lives.

Key principles include:

• Honesty
• Humility
• Acceptance
• Forgiveness
• Service

Ripple effect. As members practice these principles in their recovery, they often find that this new way of thinking and behaving positively impacts their relationships, work life, and overall sense of well-being. This transformation can be gradual but profound.

5. Taking personal responsibility and making amends is essential for healing

Making amends is necessary to live free of the guilt, shame, and remorse that keep us trapped in self-destruction.

Accountability. A crucial part of recovery is taking responsibility for past actions and their consequences. This process often begins with a thorough personal inventory and continues with making amends to those harmed.

Amends process:

1. Acknowledging harm done
2. Expressing sincere remorse
3. Taking action to rectify the situation when possible
4. Changing behavior moving forward

Healing and growth. While often challenging, the amends process can lead to significant healing and personal growth. It allows members to release guilt and shame, rebuild relationships, and move forward with a clear conscience.

6. Recovery involves finding balance and purpose in work, education, and finances

We are free to create a life that we value.

Reintegration. As recovery progresses, many members find themselves reintegrating into society through work, education, or financial responsibility. This process can be both exciting and challenging.

Areas of focus:

• Career development
• Continuing education
• Financial management
• Balancing work and recovery

Finding purpose. Through this process, members often discover new talents, interests, and sources of fulfillment. Learning to balance these pursuits with ongoing recovery work becomes an important skill.

7. Maintaining anonymity while integrating into society is an ongoing process

Our anonymity may be something we must guard carefully in order to maintain our place in those worlds.

Balancing act. As members become more involved in society, they often face decisions about when and how to disclose their recovery status. This requires careful consideration of personal boundaries and the principles of anonymity.

Considerations:

• Workplace disclosure
• Social media presence
• Family and social relationships
• Public service or advocacy roles

Personal choice. Each member must navigate these decisions based on their unique circumstances, always keeping in mind the importance of protecting their own recovery and respecting the anonymity of others in the fellowship.

8. Continued growth requires vigilance against complacency

Complacency lies in the gulf between desperation and passion.

Ongoing commitment. Long-term recovery requires ongoing commitment to personal growth and program involvement. Complacency can be a subtle but significant threat to sustained recovery.

Signs of complacency:

• Decreased meeting attendance
• Neglecting step work
• Losing connection with sponsor or fellowship
• Believing one has "graduated" from the program

Renewing passion. Recognizing and addressing complacency often involves reconnecting with the passion and gratitude that fueled early recovery. This might mean taking on new service commitments, working with newcomers, or revisiting step work with renewed focus.

Last updated: November 18, 2024