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Teaching That Changes Lives

Teaching That Changes Lives

12 Mindset Tools for Igniting the Love of Learning
by Marilee G. Adams 2013 240 pages
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Key Takeaways

1. Mindsets shape our reality and determine our success as educators

When you enter a mindset, you enter a new world.

Our beliefs create our reality. The mindset we bring to the classroom profoundly impacts our students' ability to learn and grow. As educators, we have the power to create a climate that either opens minds or shuts them down. Our internal weather - our thoughts, feelings, and assumptions - directly influences the external weather of our classroom.

Mindsets are contagious. Students pick up on our attitudes and expectations, often unconsciously. When we approach teaching with curiosity, openness, and a growth mindset, we inspire the same in our students. Conversely, a fixed or judgmental mindset can stifle creativity and dampen enthusiasm for learning.

Self-awareness is key. By developing our ability to observe our own thoughts and feelings, we gain the power to choose our mindset intentionally. This self-awareness allows us to respond thoughtfully to challenging situations rather than react automatically, creating a more positive and productive learning environment for everyone.

2. The Choice Map: Navigate between Learner and Judger mindsets

Either you have your mindset or your mindset has you.

The Choice Map is a powerful visual tool that helps us understand and navigate our mental landscape. It illustrates two primary mindsets:

  • Learner mindset: Characterized by curiosity, openness, and growth
  • Judger mindset: Dominated by criticism, defensiveness, and fixed thinking

We all have both mindsets. The goal is not to eliminate Judger (which is impossible) but to recognize when we're in it and learn to switch to Learner more quickly and easily. The "Switching Lane" on the map represents our ability to shift between mindsets.

Questions drive our mindsets. The types of questions we ask ourselves and others reveal which mindset we're in:

  • Learner questions: "What can I learn from this?" "What's possible?"
  • Judger questions: "What's wrong with me/them?" "Why bother?"

By becoming aware of our questions, we gain the power to choose more empowering ones, steering ourselves toward more positive outcomes.

3. Cultivate curiosity to ignite the love of learning

How could you get the best answers without asking the best questions first?

Curiosity is the engine of learning. When we approach the world with wonder and openness, we naturally engage more deeply with our environment and the people around us. As educators, fostering curiosity in ourselves and our students is crucial for creating a vibrant, engaging classroom.

Practical ways to cultivate curiosity:

  • Ask more questions, especially open-ended ones
  • Embrace "not knowing" as an opportunity for discovery
  • Encourage students to question assumptions and explore multiple perspectives
  • Model curiosity by sharing your own learning journey and excitement about new discoveries

Create a "Question Box" in your classroom. Invite students to submit anonymous questions about any topic. Regularly discuss these questions as a class, exploring them from both Learner and Judger perspectives. This practice normalizes questioning and creates a safe space for intellectual exploration.

4. Listen with "Learner ears" to foster connection and growth

Am I listening with Learner ears or Judger ears?

How we listen shapes what we hear. When we listen with "Judger ears," we focus on what's wrong, missing, or problematic. This creates defensiveness and shuts down communication. "Learner ears" listen for possibilities, seeking to understand and connect.

Learner listening transforms relationships. By approaching conversations with genuine curiosity and openness, we create an environment where others feel heard and valued. This fosters trust, collaboration, and mutual growth.

Practical tips for Learner listening:

  • Pause before responding to check your mindset
  • Ask clarifying questions to deepen understanding
  • Reflect back what you've heard to ensure accuracy
  • Look for the positive intent behind challenging behaviors or statements
  • Practice empathy by imagining the other person's perspective

5. Question assumptions to unlock new possibilities

Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won't come in.

Unexamined assumptions limit our perspective. We all make assumptions based on our past experiences and beliefs. While this is natural, it can blind us to new possibilities and prevent us from seeing situations clearly.

Questioning assumptions is a key skill for critical thinking. By challenging our own assumptions and those of others, we open up new avenues for problem-solving and innovation. This is especially important in education, where outdated assumptions can hinder student growth and learning.

Strategies for questioning assumptions:

  • Regularly ask yourself, "What assumptions am I making?"
  • Play devil's advocate with your own ideas
  • Seek out diverse perspectives, especially from those who disagree with you
  • Use "What if?" questions to explore alternative scenarios
  • Practice suspending judgment to consider new possibilities

6. Build resilience by befriending your inner Judger

We are all recovering Judgers.

Judger is a natural part of being human. Rather than trying to eliminate our inner critic, we can learn to recognize it and respond more skillfully. This builds resilience and allows us to bounce back more quickly from setbacks.

Making friends with Judger reduces its power over us. When we accept our Judger thoughts without identifying with them, we create space to choose our response. This practice of "mindful noticing" allows us to shift more easily to a Learner mindset.

Practical ways to build Judger resilience:

  • Notice Judger thoughts without judgment
  • Use humor to defuse Judger's intensity
  • Reframe Judger statements as Learner questions
  • Practice self-compassion when Judger arises
  • Remember that everyone experiences Judger thoughts

7. Create a climate for learning through mindful self-awareness

Who is the self that teaches? How does the quality of my selfhood form—or deform—the way I relate to my students, my subject, my colleagues, my world?

Self-awareness is the foundation of effective teaching. By developing our ability to observe our own thoughts, feelings, and reactions, we become more intentional in our interactions with students and colleagues. This mindfulness allows us to create a more positive and supportive learning environment.

The teacher's mindset sets the tone for the entire classroom. Our internal state profoundly affects the "weather" of our learning space. By cultivating a calm, curious, and open mindset, we invite students to engage more fully and take intellectual risks.

Practices for developing mindful self-awareness:

  • Regular meditation or mindfulness exercises
  • Journaling to reflect on teaching experiences
  • Seeking feedback from trusted colleagues
  • Practicing the "ABCD" method (Aware, Breathe, Curiosity, Decide)
  • Regularly checking in with your own emotional state throughout the day

8. Embrace mistakes as opportunities for growth and transformation

Our mistakes are the growing pains of our wisdom.

A growth mindset reframes failure as learning. When we approach mistakes with curiosity rather than judgment, we open the door to valuable insights and improvements. This attitude is crucial for both educators and students to develop resilience and a love of learning.

Create a classroom culture that celebrates mistakes. When students feel safe to take risks and learn from errors, they engage more deeply with the material and develop stronger problem-solving skills.

Strategies for learning from mistakes:

  • Use the "Reflection Scenario for Learning from Mistakes" tool
  • Share your own mistakes and what you learned from them
  • Encourage students to analyze errors in a non-judgmental way
  • Reframe "failures" as experiments or prototypes
  • Celebrate effort and progress, not just perfect outcomes

9. Collaborative learning communities amplify individual growth

Teachers need each other, for our own sakes as well as for our students' learning and advancement.

Professional learning communities (PLCs) provide crucial support. By working together, educators can share best practices, problem-solve challenges, and push each other to grow. This collaboration creates a ripple effect, benefiting students and the entire school community.

Effective PLCs embody Learner mindset principles. They foster open communication, curiosity, and a willingness to question assumptions. This creates a safe space for innovation and continuous improvement.

Key elements of successful learning communities:

  • Regular, structured meeting times
  • Clear goals and expectations
  • A focus on student learning outcomes
  • Shared leadership and responsibility
  • Ongoing reflection and adjustment of practices
  • Celebration of successes and learning from setbacks

10. The ABCD method: A practical tool for mindset management

The Switching Lane is a practical mechanism for managing our mindsets.

ABCD provides a simple, memorable process for shifting from Judger to Learner mindset in challenging moments:

  • A: Aware - Notice your current mindset and internal state
  • B: Breathe - Take a calming breath to center yourself
  • C: Curiosity - Ask Learner questions to open new possibilities
  • D: Decide - Choose your next action intentionally

This tool empowers us to respond rather than react. By creating a pause between stimulus and response, ABCD allows us to access our best selves even in difficult situations.

Practicing ABCD regularly builds new neural pathways. The more we use this process, the more automatic it becomes, allowing us to shift mindsets more quickly and easily over time. This increased mental agility benefits us both personally and professionally, creating a more positive and productive classroom environment.

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3.86 out of 5
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Teaching That Changes Lives receives positive reviews for its compelling premise and practical advice on mindset shifts in education. Readers appreciate the Choice Map concept and its applicability beyond the classroom. The book's allegorical style receives mixed reactions, with some finding it effective and others considering it cheesy. Many reviewers highlight the book's potential to improve teaching practices, relationships, and personal growth. Overall, readers find value in the mindset tools presented, despite some criticism of the narrative format.

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About the Author

Marilee G. Adams, Ph.D., is an author, executive coach, and professional speaker. She founded the Inquiry Institute and developed the QUESTION THINKING™ methodologies. Adams has authored several books, including "Change Your Questions, Change Your Life" and "Teaching That Changes Lives," focusing on mindset tools and inquiry-based approaches. She contributes to academic and professional publications on questioning techniques, leadership, and organizational transformation. Adams serves as an adjunct professor at American University and is affiliated with various educational institutions. Her work is widely applied in organizations, government agencies, and non-profits through presentations, workshops, and coaching sessions.

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