Abundant Ever After

1. Abundance is About Receiving What's Already Here, Not Attracting What's Far Away.

What if it’s not about attracting at all? What if the magic is in the receiving?

Shift your perspective. Many believe abundance is achieved through hard work or luck, attracting things from a distance. However, the universe operates on the law of reception; everything you desire is already present, hidden in plain sight. Your role is simply to become receptive and allow it in.

Tune your radio. Think of life like a radio with infinite stations playing simultaneously. You don't attract the music; you tune your receiver to the desired frequency. Your current reality is a reflection of the station you're tuned to, and you have the power to change the dial and receive a different experience.

Be the resonance. As the law of resonance shows (like a guitar string vibrating others), you get back the signal you send out. If you want more love, be love. If you want more abundance, find the abundance within your soul. Become the frequency of joy and ease to receive more blessings.

2. Your Life Experience Mirrors the Energetic Frequency You Broadcast.

The experience of your life is a mirror of the radio station you have chosen.

Energy is everything. The world is energy, and so are you. Your energy creates a ripple effect, leaving a vibrational imprint. The actionable strategy for abundance isn't just what you do, but who you are – the frequency you are tuned into and broadcasting.

Presence is power. Your greatest gift is your pure energy and presence. When you are a walking vibration of positive energy, you become magnetic, attracting opportunities and connections. This alignment with your authentic self creates synchronicity, like Matthew McConaughey landing his first role after deciding to pursue acting fully.

Tune your dial. Your internal frequency dictates your external reality. If you feel empty or disconnected, you're tuned to a low frequency. By shifting your internal state to feel connected, full, and at peace, you change your radio dial and manifest wholeness around you.

3. Shift Your Focus from Limiting Probability to Infinite Possibility.

Probability inhibits possibility.

Past vs. Future. Most people live based on probability, looking to the past for predictable outcomes. This confines you to a limited 3-D world, unable to see beyond what has already happened.

Embrace the endless. Living from possibility means not being bound by the past. You are open to all potentials that exist in the present moment. The greatest minds and creative geniuses operate from this state, constantly seeing beyond what's been done.

Find the third door. Like the most successful people, you must have the courage to step out of the line of probability (Door Number One) and actively look for the unmarked door of possibility (Door Number Three). This requires shifting from analytical thinking to the magical realm of what could be.

4. Plug Into Your Powerful Inner Source, Not External Validation.

you must plug yourself into the energetic current of life before anything good can happen.

The right outlet. We often seek fulfillment by plugging into external sources like relationships, jobs, or possessions. However, like a beautiful toaster useless without being plugged in, you cannot operate optimally if you're not plugged into your own life force.

Internal power. The only true outlet is located within you. Believing you possess only lack or emptiness means you don't know your true composition – you are connected to divinity, an extension of infinite light.

Be magnetic. When you are fully charged by plugging into your inner source, you become magnetic. Holding a positive vibration opens the lock to receiving abundance, including material wealth. Your energy is the key.

5. Unconscious Limiting Beliefs and Emotional Congestion Block Your Flow.

Unprocessed emotion is the most detrimental thing in your experience, period.

Beliefs create reality. Your reality is shaped by your beliefs, which are thoughts repeated so often they become unquestioned truths, often programmed in childhood. These subconscious beliefs run the show, influencing your feelings and ability to receive.

Emotional energy. Emotion is energy in motion. Suppressed or unprocessed emotions get stuck, creating "emotional congestion" that blocks your authentic frequency and makes you feel terrible. This congestion prevents you from being the fullest expression of yourself.

Become aware. To clear this static, you must become conscious of your unconscious beliefs and feelings. Notice what you're feeling and the thoughts behind it. Question if these thoughts are true, especially those rooted in scarcity, unworthiness, or fear, which generate negative chemical reactions like cortisol.

6. Cultivate Presence and Regulate Your Nervous System to Receive.

Meditation, as I define it, is focused attention without judgment.

Beyond positive thinking. While mindset matters, your nervous system dictates your thoughts and capacity to receive. A dysregulated nervous system (fight or flight) constricts awareness and inhibits creation. A regulated system (calm, ease) opens you to new possibilities.

Signal safety. Practices that settle your body are essential for manifesting. Simple acts like noticing gravity, deep breathing, or taking a walk signal safety to your nervous system. This creates a bedrock of peace from which you can expand and create.

Witness your thoughts. Meditation isn't about stopping thoughts but observing them without judgment. This practice cultivates presence, directing your attention like a flashlight to the present moment. In this state, you realize you are not your thoughts but a larger consciousness, accessing deeper insights and creative downloads.

7. Authenticity, Not People-Pleasing, Creates True Belonging and Power.

If we belong to everyone, we cannot belong to ourselves.

The belonging trap. Many women abandon their authentic selves to please others and feel accepted. This constant self-editing in pursuit of external belonging leads to a lonely and unsafe place, as you stop belonging to yourself.

Stop seeking approval. Your decisions should be based on your own truth, not a tally of others' votes. Free yourself from worrying about judgment or being disliked. There are already people who don't like you, and that's okay. Your job is to be your own favorite.

Be yourself. Showing up as your honest, imperfect, authentic self is less likely to clear a room than to attract people who resonate with your energy. When you turn up the volume of your authentic self, you draw in those within your energetic range, encouraging them to be themselves too.

8. Your Capacity to Receive Abundance is Determined by Your Sense of Worthiness.

You are worthy because a soul is worthy. It doesn’t have to earn its worth.

Worthiness is internal. If you're living with less than you desire, it's often due to resistance created by a sense of unworthiness. This belief, often absorbed from childhood or generational patterns, acts as static, disrupting the flow of abundance.

Expand your vessel. Like an electrical panel needing more wattage for more lights, you need the capacity to energetically hold more abundance. This capacity grows from within, sparked by believing in your inherent value and granting yourself freedom from external validation.

Practice receiving. Retrain yourself to expect a higher standard of care by practicing receiving in small ways – accepting compliments, gifts, or help. This builds your receiving muscle and sends an energetic signature to the world that you are available for more.

9. Money is Neutral Energy, a Current that Flows Where High Vibration Exists.

Money is attracted to energy and it responds to inspired action.

Money is a tool. Money is a neutral resource, a tool of exchange, not inherently evil or corrupt. Assigning negative value to money creates a negative charge, leading to financial stagnation.

Increase your charge. To become a receiver for wealth, you must increase your sense of self-worth, which provides the positive charge needed to move forward. Your beliefs about money, often inherited, directly impact your financial reality.

Flow and invest. Money is like a current; it needs to move. Holding onto it tightly (scarcity mindset) creates blockages. Allowing it to flow through you – investing, spending on things you value, contributing – generates more wealth and possibility.

10. Your Purpose is to Share Your Unique Gifts and Serve Others.

Pain isn’t a by-product of what we don’t have; it’s the result of holding back. We are each meant to give.

Purpose over happiness. The opposite of depression isn't happiness, but purpose – showing up authentically and sharing your gifts. Studies show giving to others improves well-being and even immunity, demonstrating that acting in service changes your biology.

What's in your bag? Everyone has unique gifts and challenges ("broken things") that reveal their purpose. Your challenges aren't meant to be solved but faced, training you to help others who have gone through similar experiences.

Give to give. Fulfillment comes from sharing yourself and contributing to the world. You don't give to get; you give because it's your nature. This act of giving, even in small ways, puts you on track to a heightened energetic state, revealing your next purposeful step.

11. Courage to Start Messy Comes Before Confidence.

courage comes first. Courage means being scared and doing it anyway.

Stop waiting. Many delay sharing their gifts, believing they aren't ready, expert enough, or perfect. This resistance stems from fear and past disappointments, keeping you stuck and quiet.

Embrace imperfection. Nobody likes a perfect person; flaws make you relatable and lovable. Be willing to be messy, mediocre, and learn as you go. Give yourself something to edit, like a C student who keeps trying.

Twenty seconds of courage. Confidence is built through courageous action. Your soul craves growth and wants to push past limits. Just twenty seconds of courage can change your life, putting you on a new path and revealing your capacity to go beyond what you thought was possible.

12. Creativity is Your Innate Power to Turn Thoughts into Reality.

Creativity is seeing something in a new way, it’s a new thought.

Everyone is a creator. Creativity isn't limited to artists; it's your ability to see things differently and generate new thoughts. As children, we are naturally creative, but this belief is often suppressed as we grow older.

From swamp to park. Like Walt Disney envisioning Disneyland in a swamp, you have the capacity to create worlds by allowing creative thoughts. The difference is often whether you permit yourself to have these impulses and build on them, even if you can't see the final outcome.

Creativity leads. Abundance follows creativity; it doesn't come first. Money is the product of someone's creative vision. By asking new questions ("What would be the most fun way?"), tolerating the messy process, and allowing impulses to flow, you tap into your creative capacity and open the door to receiving abundance.

Last updated: May 3, 2025