Just F*cking Do It

1. Embrace Your Power: Mindset & The Universe

Changing your life starts with changing your mind.

Unlock happiness. Many people feel stuck and unfulfilled, believing they are destined for less than extraordinary. The core secret to transforming your life and achieving profound happiness lies in consciously changing your mindset. This involves understanding that your subconscious mind, largely programmed by childhood experiences and conditioning, currently runs the show.

Reprogram your template. From birth, we absorb beliefs about the world, forming a "template" that guides our thoughts and actions. If this template is faulty, it prevents us from reaching our full potential, much like a Ferrari with bad programming. The key is to reprogram this internal template to serve your success and happiness, moving beyond the limitations imposed by past conditioning.

Partner with the Universe. Beyond psychology, your secret weapon is the Universal Intelligence—a powerful, invisible energy source that helps turn thoughts into reality. By aligning your mindset with this force, you can amplify your success tenfold. This "spiritual badass" approach combines psychological transformation with unwavering faith in the Universe, making your journey easier and more joyful.

2. Define Your Dreams: Set Badass Goals

If you have a desire, it was meant for you.

Find your purpose. Humans have an innate need for growth and purpose, as highlighted by Maslow's hierarchy. Without clear goals, we drift through life, leading to anxiety, depression, and a lack of fulfillment. It's crucial to define what success truly means to you, not what society or others expect, and to dream big without getting bogged down by the "how."

Ink your intentions. Written goals are far more potent than fleeting thoughts, providing a concrete focus for your energy. Be brutally honest about your deepest desires, even if they seem audacious, because the Universe already knows. State your goals specifically and in the present tense, as if they've already happened, to bridge the mental gap and foster belief.

Plan and trust. While setting ambitious goals, ensure they feel achievable enough to build your "faith muscle." Reverse-engineer your goals into no more than five key steps, creating a clear plan of action. This strategic approach, combined with trust in the Universe to handle the details, allows for flexibility and unexpected opportunities, ensuring your desires come to fruition.

3. Silence the Comparison & Bullshit

It wasn’t curiosity but comparison that killed the cat.

Break free from comparison. We often fall into the trap of comparing ourselves to others, especially amplified by social media's curated "highlight reels." This constant external validation-seeking feeds the Ego, leading to feelings of inadequacy, envy, and a "comparison hangover" that drains your energy and stunts personal growth.

Uncover limiting beliefs. Beneath every desire, there often lurks a "bullshit story"—a subconscious limiting belief that conflicts with your goals. These narratives, often formed in childhood, create resistance and sabotage your efforts. For example, a "money story" might convince you that wealth equals stress or greed, unconsciously keeping you broke.

Call "bullshit" and transform. To move forward, you must identify these non-serving stories, acknowledge their origins (often from parents or early experiences), and then consciously "call bullshit" on them. This awareness weakens their hold, allowing you to align your energy with your true desires. Techniques like Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) can help release the negative emotional charge associated with these old narratives.

4. Reinvent Yourself: Choose Your Identity

Your past identity, which has brought you to where you are today, does not and will not be the identity that takes you to the new phase of your rock star life.

Shed old layers. Over time, life experiences, parental expectations, and societal pressures mould us into someone we might not truly be. This conditioning creates layers of "smog" around your most empowered self. To unlock your full potential, you must consciously choose who you want to be, shedding self-imposed labels like "depressed" or "unsuccessful."

Self-image dictates destiny. Your self-image—your internal picture of your abilities, appearance, and personality—governs your thoughts, feelings, and actions. If this image is negative, it will sabotage your goals. The good news is that your self-image is not fixed; it can be reshaped by consciously choosing a new, empowering identity that aligns with your desired future.

Visualize your new self. The human brain doesn't differentiate between reality and imagination. By regularly visualizing your new, desired identity—how that person shows up, their traits, their daily actions—you create new neural pathways and "memories." This powerful practice, when coupled with strong emotion, reprograms your subconscious, making your chosen identity feel real and achievable.

5. Cultivate Radical Self-Love & Forgiveness

As you love yourself, life loves you back.

Heal self-love deficiency. A widespread lack of self-love leads to self-sabotage, poor choices, and a constant search for external validation. This isn't about narcissism; it's about a deep appreciation for yourself, accepting your entire story, and having the discipline to pursue what truly makes you happy. Without self-love, you're less likely to take the risks necessary for growth.

Embrace forgiveness. Forgiveness, both of yourself and others, is a crucial step towards self-love and releasing stagnant energy. Holding onto resentment or blame drains your "energy mojo," blocking positive outcomes. Forgiving doesn't condone past wrongs; it's a powerful choice to release negative energy for your own well-being, allowing you to move forward unburdened.

Prioritize your energy. Self-love means choosing yourself and fiercely protecting your energy. Learn to say "no" to things that don't energize you, even if it feels selfish. Stop seeking constant external opinions and validate yourself. Make celebrating your progress a daily ritual, no matter how small, to reinforce positive energy and tell the Universe you're unstoppable.

6. Master Your Words: Optimism & Responsibility

Your internal and external dialogue is casting spells over your life: sometimes it can be good magic, but it can also be very, very black magic indeed.

Words shape reality. The language you use, both internally and externally, is incredibly potent. Your "I could never..." statements and pessimistic self-talk create self-fulfilling prophecies, keeping you small. Studies show that consistent positive self-talk can reverse a pessimistic mindset, priming you for a brighter future.

Shift your explanatory style. Psychologist Martin Seligman's "explanatory style" highlights how you interpret events determines your optimism. Pessimists view setbacks as:

• Permanent: "Diets never work."
• Pervasive: One failure bleeds into all areas.
• Personalized: Blaming oneself ("I'm stupid").
  By consciously changing these interpretations to temporary, specific, and externally influenced (while taking responsibility for your response), you cultivate hope.

Guard your mental space. The words and information you consume daily—from news to social media gossip—profoundly impact your attitude. Consciously filter out negativity and choose to surround yourself with uplifting content and people. This "cleansing of consciousness" protects your energy, allowing you to maintain a high vibration conducive to manifesting your desires.

7. Trust Your Inner GPS: Intuition & Purpose

Praying is speaking to the Universe; intuition is the Universe speaking to you.

Access inner wisdom. Your intuition is a powerful, natural gift—an internal GPS that effortlessly guides you towards your most epic life. It's your Soul communicating, tapping into a "cosmic computer" of pure potentiality and knowledge. This "Soul-ar power" offers insights far beyond rational thought, whispering guidance through hunches, inspirations, and even "God bumps" (goosebumps).

Quiet the Ego's noise. The Ego, a loud, fear-based voice, constantly tries to drown out your Soul's subtle whispers. To connect with your intuition, you must intentionally quiet this mental noise through solitude and silence, even for just five minutes a day. This "white space" allows your Soul to take center stage, revealing your unique talents and guiding you towards your true purpose.

Act on divine downloads. Learning to trust your intuition takes practice, as your logical mind will often try to override it. Start by acting on small hunches, building confidence as you see positive outcomes. Your purpose often lies where your joy is; follow what lights you up, and the Universe will provide "divine downloads"—creative ideas and opportunities—to lead you to your destiny.

8. Practice Obsessive Gratitude & Surrender

Gratitude is the quickest way to tune in to UniverseFM and makes way for healing to occur, for miracles to happen and for your desires to manifest.

Elevate your vibration. Gratitude is a free, simple, and incredibly powerful tool to shift your energy. It's the frequency of love, which the Universe reciprocates. Instead of falling into the "what's next?" trap or letting the Ego convince you that you lack, cultivate obsessive gratitude for everything you already have, from your breath to your bills.

Marinate your day. Start each day by declaring gratitude for an "absolutely amazing day" as if it has already happened. This "marinating" technique shifts your vibe from wanting to having, signaling to the Universe that your desires are already fulfilled. Extend this practice to relationships, expressing unabashed appreciation to nurture connections and receive more in return.

Surrender to the "how." To manifest faster, you must surrender your attachment to the outcome. This doesn't mean giving up your intention, but rather trusting the Universe to orchestrate the "how." Embrace uncertainty like an adventure, knowing that between your current state and your goal, there are infinite possibilities. This detachment, rooted in faith, allows for fluidity and spontaneity, speeding up the manifestation process.

9. Curate Your Circle: The Power of Your Posse

Stop taking constructive criticism from people who haven’t constructed anything.

Choose your influence. We are the sum of the five people we spend the most time with. Our innate need to belong can lead us to conform to negative influences, subconsciously stunting our growth and allowing others to "peck away" at our dreams. It's crucial to consciously pick a "posse" that inspires, motivates, and accepts your authentic self.

Seek qualified advice. Be discerning about who you share your dreams with and whose advice you take. Those who haven't achieved what you desire, even well-meaning loved ones, may project their fears onto you, suffocating your ambitions. Instead, seek mentorship and guidance from people who have already accomplished what you aspire to; this is the ultimate shortcut to success.

Inspire, don't instruct. As you grow, you may outgrow some relationships, and that's okay. Your transformation will naturally inspire others, but resist the urge to instruct them. Focus on your own journey, shining your light brightly. Prioritize your energy by avoiding drama and gossip, choosing to be "happy, not right." Surround yourself with those who fill you up, nurturing relationships that uplift and empower you.

10. Act Fast & Imperfectly: Slay Your Goals

Like a rocket launching or a sausage rolling you need to just go-go-go before you let fear talk you out of it.

Overcome inertia. Many people talk about their dreams but hesitate to take action, often "waiting for the right time"—a euphemism for fear. To "slay your goals," you must embrace imperfect, fast action. Like a rocket, once an idea or desire strikes, launch immediately before your brain, designed for safety, conjures a "gazillion reasons why you shouldn't."

Leverage momentum. Newton's First Law applies to personal growth: objects at rest stay at rest, while objects in motion stay in motion. The key is to initiate movement, no matter how small. Gaining early traction creates momentum, which then generates more momentum, propelling you forward. Don't let overthinking or feelings of "not feeling like it" derail your progress.

Conquer the two Ps. Procrastination and perfectionism are "kisses of death" that stem from a fear of failure or doing things "the wrong way." These are forms of self-protection that dangerously slow you down. Embrace the "good enough" mindset, understanding that action, even imperfect action, is always better than inaction. The "5-second rule" (acting within 5 seconds of an idea) can help bypass your brain's hesitation and propel you into motion.

Last updated: August 7, 2025