Oooooh . . . Say It Again

1. Social Programming: The Silent Seducer's Foe

If you are a rational, objective-minded, obedient citizen of society, your social programming governs just about everything you do, or avoid doing.

Breaking free from norms. Social programming, the set of beliefs and values instilled by society, often acts as a barrier to seduction. Women, in particular, are conditioned to present themselves as "wife material," suppressing their desires for casual encounters. Overcoming this programming requires understanding its influence and learning to navigate it.

Impulsive vs. Rational. Human behavior is a constant negotiation between impulsive desires and rational social programming. Seduction often involves appealing to a woman's impulsive side, gently challenging the restrictive voice of her social conditioning. Recognizing this internal conflict is key to effective verbal seduction.

Reciprocators, Rejecters, and Pretenders. Women can be categorized into Reciprocators (those openly interested), Rejecters (those clearly not interested), and Pretenders (those who feign disinterest). Focus your efforts on Reciprocators and Pretenders, as Rejecters are unlikely to change their minds. Understanding these categories helps avoid wasted time and energy.

2. Decoding Female Reactions: Beyond the Surface

Many women are so good at being sexually duplicitous, that they leave men confused and in the dark about their true sexuality.

Duplicity and desire. Many women present a more prudish image than they truly possess, leading to confusion. Understanding that most women have an "inner kinky freak" is crucial. The challenge lies in discerning whether she will reveal that side to you.

The 1-to-5 scale. Women can be placed on a scale from 1 (kinky and promiscuous) to 5 (prudish and monogamous). Most women fall in the middle (2, 3, or 4), making it essential to identify where a woman truly lies on the scale to tailor your approach effectively.

Men's Hypocrisy. Men often judge women's sexuality harshly, contributing to their duplicitous behavior. By being less judgmental and more accepting, men can encourage women to be more open and honest about their desires. This creates a more authentic and fulfilling dynamic.

3. Confidence: The Art of Uncomfortable Attraction

Bold, Cocky Confidence combined with Upfront, Straightforward Honesty is the #1 “X Factor” in seducing women verbally, psychologically and emotionally.

Confidence as a muscle. Self-confidence is not a fixed trait but a skill that can be developed through consistent use and challenge. Pushing yourself to approach women who intimidate you strengthens your confidence and expands your comfort zone.

The "uncomfortable" zone. Making women feel completely comfortable can be detrimental to seduction. A degree of "uncomfortable" tension can create intrigue and eroticism. However, avoid making women feel unsafe or threatened, as this is a major turn-off.

Calm and cocky. Maintain a calm, relaxed demeanor while exuding a bold, almost arrogant confidence. This combination is highly attractive to many women. Direct eye contact and an indifferent attitude towards criticism further enhance your appeal.

4. Sexual Chemistry: The Unpredictable Spark

If you have the ability to get a man or woman sexually aroused, there is a greater than fifty-percent chance that you can get them to have sex with you – at least once.

Beyond physical attraction. Sexual chemistry is more than just physical appearance. It involves a complex interplay of factors, including shared interests, personality compatibility, and a "yin and yang" dynamic. It can be difficult to predict and often defies logical explanation.

Normal, Kinky, and Perverted. Individuals categorize sexual activities differently, influencing their compatibility. Open communication about preferences is crucial for building sexual chemistry. However, be prepared to challenge a woman's boundaries.

Body Language Cues. Pay attention to nonverbal signals like eye contact, movement, and touch. These cues can indicate a woman's level of interest and attraction. A woman's eyes, the way she walks, and how she uses her tongue can tell you a lot.

5. Aural Sex: The Hypnotic Power of Words

The erotic power of your voice, your words, and your overall conversational skills.

Words as weapons. Your voice, words, and conversational skills are powerful tools for breaking through a woman's social programming. By using erotic language and suggestive imagery, you can create powerful thoughts and visualizations in her mind.

The inner freak. Most women have an "inner kinky freak" that they suppress due to social conditioning. Verbal seduction can help unlock this side, allowing them to embrace their desires and fantasies.

Calm and smooth. Develop a calm, relaxed, and seductive voice. This is a key element in aural sex. Record yourself and practice until you achieve the desired tone.

6. The Madonna/Whore Complex: A Seductive Trap

Do not try to get women who are true 4s and true 5s to have casual sex.

Freud's legacy. The Madonna/Whore Complex, a psychological concept where men categorize women as either "good girls" or "whores," can hinder seduction. Avoid this trap by recognizing that most women fall somewhere in between.

The 1-to-5 scale revisited. Understand where a woman falls on the 1-to-5 scale of erotic inhibition. True 4s and 5s are unlikely to engage in casual sex and should be pursued only if your intentions are long-term. Focus on 1s, 2s, and 3s for casual encounters.

Manipulative Head Games. Be aware of the "head games" that both men and women play in dating and relationships. Avoid dishonesty and manipulation, and instead, be upfront about your desires and intentions.

7. Verbal Seduction in Action: Real Stories, Raw Dialogue

The stories in Part Two are fictional, but they are based on real life dialogue and real life scenarios I have had with women over the last 20-25 years.

Learning from experience. The book includes fictionalized stories based on real-life encounters, showcasing the application of verbal seduction techniques. These stories provide examples of dialogue, mindset, and strategies for overcoming resistance.

Beyond imitation. Avoid simply copying the dialogue from the stories. Instead, focus on understanding the underlying principles and adapting them to your own personality and style. Authenticity is key to effective seduction.

The seduction process. The stories highlight the importance of overcoming resistance and reluctance. True seduction involves persuading a woman to change her mind, not simply finding someone who is already willing.

8. The Art of the Wingman: Setting the Stage for Seduction

I have had many male friends over the years compliment my ability to help them seduce women and sleep with women.

The power of social proof. A good wingman can significantly increase your chances of success by creating social proof and highlighting your positive qualities. This can make you more attractive to women and overcome their initial hesitations.

The wingman's role. A wingman acts as a public relations person, talent scout, and gatekeeper, identifying potential prospects and weeding out those who are not interested. They can also help create a positive impression and build intrigue.

Honesty and ethics. While a wingman may use some degree of "hype," it's important to avoid lying or misrepresenting your friend. The goal is to present him in the best possible light while remaining truthful about his character and intentions.

Last updated: April 23, 2025