Key Takeaways
1. The Soul: A Holistic, Psychospiritual Core of Personhood
In such a view, we do not have a soul, we are soul.
Defining the soul. The concept of "soul" (Latin: anima, Hebrew: nepesh, Greek: psyche) refers to the whole person, with a particular focus on the inner world of thinking, feeling, and willing. Care of souls, or cura animarum, encompasses both nurturing well-being and restoring it when lost, addressing individuals in their totality. This holistic understanding contrasts with earlier Platonic views that separated an immortal soul from a mortal body.
Biblical unity. Biblical scholars emphasize that terms like body, soul, and spirit are not separable faculties but different ways of viewing the entire person. The ancient Hebrew mentality, for instance, focused on the essential and irreducible unity of personality, where parts always point to the whole. This means that humans are not composites of distinct parts; rather, we are embodied souls and inspirited bodies, a living and vital whole.
Somatopsychospiritual whole. Modern theology, psychology, and medicine increasingly converge on the understanding that humans are a somatopsychospiritual whole. This implies that soul care must nurture the inner life while acknowledging its expression through the body and external behavior. Ignoring any aspect—spiritual, psychological, or physiological—leads to a fragmented understanding and ineffective care, as the soul encompasses all of personhood.
2. Jesus: The Archetypal Soul Shepherd and Model for Care
His concern was not just for God’s law; more fundamentally it was for God’s people.
Jesus' unique role. Jesus occupies a singular place in the history of soul care, functioning as more than a moral teacher. While he proclaimed ethical demands and called for repentance, his primary method was dialogue, aiming for a radical reorientation of life rooted in salvation and abundant life. His approach was deeply personal, seeking not just cognitive assent but a total transformation of the individual.
Model of engagement. Jesus' interactions with people consistently demonstrated profound characteristics of a soul shepherd. He met people where they were, acted with compassion within a moral context without condemning, and spoke with authority while inviting choice. His methods were often indirect and paradoxical, affirming faith, challenging complacency, and dealing with individuals uniquely.
Holistic and self-sacrificial. Jesus demonstrated a holistic respect for the close relationship of body and soul, never allowing his own needs to overshadow those of others. He challenged people to embrace God's best for them, preferring dialogue over monologue, and ultimately gave himself—not just advice—accepting the trust placed in him. This self-sacrificial love and deep engagement serve as the ultimate model for all Christian soul care.
3. Therapeutic Soul Care: Gains, Losses, and Its Religious Nature
Psychotherapy is not merely indifferent to religion, it is implacably hostile to it. Herein lies one of the supreme ironies of modern psychotherapy: it is not merely a religion that pretends to be a science, it is actually a false religion that seeks to destroy true religion.
Shift to therapeutic. The early 20th century saw a rapid shift from religiously based soul care to therapeutic soul care, driven by the rise of modern psychology and the decline of institutional religion. This professionalization, exemplified by movements like the Emmanuel Movement, recast the "cure of souls" as the "cure of minds," with psychotherapists replacing clerics as sanctioned soul curates. This often led to pastoral counseling mimicking psychological fads.
Psychotherapy as functional religion. Despite its scientific claims, psychotherapy often functions as an alternative religious system, filling the spiritual void left by religion's decline. Critics like Thomas Szasz and Paul Vitz argue that psychotherapy repackages religious elements—contrition, confession, faith—and presents them as its own discoveries, often with an anti-religious stance. It provides answers to existential needs, offers systems for understanding life, and shapes identity, much like a religion.
Gains and losses. The rise of therapeutic soul care brought significant gains, including clinical tools and conceptual maps for exploring the inner life, aiding in resolving emotional wounds and fostering self-knowledge. However, it also incurred losses:
- Professionalism: De-emphasized personal qualifications over technical ones.
- Individualism: Focused on autonomous selves, promoting self-actualization over self-denial.
- Psychological reductionism: Often dismissed spiritual phenomena as reducible to psychological ones.
- Moral vacuum: Attempted ethical neutrality, leading to implicit, unexamined moral frameworks.
- Depersonalization: Transformed dialogue into technical skills, risking I-It encounters.
4. Psychology and Spirituality: Inseparable Dimensions of the Soul
Psychological and spiritual aspects of human functioning are inextricably interconnected, and any segregation of spirituality and psychology is, therefore, both artificial and destructive to the true understanding of persons.
Beyond reductionism. Historically, psychology and religion have often viewed each other with suspicion, largely due to reductionistic thinking. Psychology has been criticized for reducing spiritual experiences to mere psychological processes, while theology has sometimes resisted lower-level analyses. A more fruitful approach recognizes that different levels of explanation (e.g., neurophysiological, psychological, theological) can all be valid and complementary, not mutually exclusive.
Spirituality as natural. Theorists like Carl Jung, Fritz Kunkel, and existential psychologists (Kierkegaard, Finch, van Kaam) have highlighted spirituality as a natural and indispensable aspect of human experience. Jung saw individuation as a religious process, while Kunkel emphasized moving beyond egocentricity to a "we-feeling" rooted in God. Existentialists focused on the quest for meaning, purpose, and self-transcendence, recognizing that true selfhood is only possible when grounded in God.
Psychospiritual dynamics. The inner world of persons has no separate spiritual and psychological compartments; humans are, in their inner persons, psychospiritual beings. Spiritual needs and problems manifest through psychological symptoms, and vice versa. Soul care must discern the spiritual face of psychological issues (e.g., identity, relatedness, happiness, success, perfection, truth, beauty, stimulation, mystery) and the psychological face of spiritual discourse, grounding spirituality in embodied personhood.
5. Christian Spirituality: A Transformative Journey of Knowing God and Self
Christian spirituality is not a philosophy, religious posture, or psychospiritual technique. Nor is it something that can fit comfortably with the rest of one’s life without changing the whole.
The human quest. Spirituality is the universal human quest for meaning, God, and connection, driven by a deep longing for coherence and purpose. It's an expression of our inherent spiritual nature, a yearning for self-transcendence and surrender to something greater than ourselves. Christian spirituality is a specific form of religious spirituality, rooted in a deep relationship with God through faith in Jesus Christ and the indwelling Holy Spirit.
Distinctive characteristics. Christian spirituality is fundamentally transformative, beginning with a response to the call of God's Spirit and leading to conformity to Christ's image. It is nurtured by the "means of grace"—Scripture, prayer, sacraments, and Christian fellowship—which are channels for receiving divine grace. This journey involves a deep, experiential knowing of Jesus, and through him, the Father and the Spirit, moving beyond mere intellectual knowledge.
Holistic growth. Crucially, Christian spirituality demands a deep knowing of oneself, recognizing that self-knowledge and knowledge of God are inextricably linked. It leads to the realization of one's unique self in Christ, not a loss of self, and is uniquely developed within the context of suffering, embracing life with "willingness" rather than "willfulness." Finally, it manifests in sharing God's love with others, caring for creation, and celebrating in Christian community, affecting all aspects of life.
6. The Unconscious: God's Voice and Path to Wholeness
Properly understood, the unconscious can be seen to be the source of spiritual experience: of visions, of prophecies, of 'the still small voice,' and of the sense of the presence of God.
Beyond suspicion. While often viewed with suspicion in Christian circles (equating it with sin or fallen nature), the unconscious is a vital part of God's good creation. Biblical narratives frequently highlight dreams, visions, and non-rational experiences as avenues for divine communication. Mistrust of the unconscious stems more from Enlightenment rationalism and Freudian interpretations than from biblical teaching.
Source of spiritual depth. The unconscious is not merely a repository of repressed urges but an open system receptive to creative, non-rational, and spiritual matters. It is the primary meeting place with God, mediating experiences of His presence, mystical union, and the leading of the Holy Spirit. A rich spiritual life embraces the intuitive, symbolic, emotional, and creative modes of being that emerge from the unconscious, not just conscious thought and volition.
Path to wholeness. Depth psychology reveals that wholeness (health, integrality) is impossible without engaging the unconscious. Repressed or denied aspects of ourselves exert powerful, unseen control. Dreams offer direct access to this inner world, providing messages for self-knowledge and growth. Dream work, undertaken prayerfully, helps redeem lost parts of self, restore imperfect conditions, and discern God's guidance, leading to greater freedom and integration.
7. Dialogue: The Heart of Soul Care and Personal Transformation
In genuine dialogue the other becomes present, not merely in the imagination or feelings, but in the depths of one’s being.
Shared inquiry. Dialogue is more than conversation or discussion; it is a deep, shared inquiry designed to expand understanding of self, others, and the world. It involves collaborative creativity, where participants access a larger pool of meaning than any individual holds alone. Unlike debate, dialogue seeks exploration and discovery, not winning or proving a point, and demands reciprocity and synergy.
I-Thou encounters. Martin Buber described genuine dialogue as an "I-Thou encounter," where the other is appreciated as a unique human being, not an object. This personal knowing, distinct from impersonal knowledge, allows participants to truly meet and be changed by each other. Dialogue requires high levels of interpersonal trust, enabling the sharing of feelings, values, and construals, not just facts or arguments.
Facilitating dialogue. Effective soul care dialogue is facilitated by:
- Personal preparation: Cultivating inner quietness and being present.
- Love: Setting aside personal desires to focus on the other.
- Empathic listening: Focusing on the inner experience of the other.
- Spiritual discernment: Listening for the spiritual significance in all discussions.
- Respect: Valuing the other as created in God's image.
- Self-awareness: Attending to one's own inner experience as a guide.
- Moral reflection: Inviting ethical inquiry without judgment.
- Judicious direction: Offering advice or suggestions when appropriate, as a real person.
8. Diverse Forms: A Spectrum of Christian Soul Care
Christian soul care is much too important to be left to any one group of people.
Broad participation. Christian soul care is a multifaceted endeavor involving a wide range of individuals, not just clergy or professionals. Parents, friends, teachers, lay counselors, and health care professionals all contribute to nurturing and healing souls. The legitimacy of this calling stems from God's invitation to service, not solely from formal training or remuneration.
Spectrum of care. Contemporary Christian soul care manifests in various forms, each with unique strengths and limitations:
- Family Soul Care: Most basic, deep psychospiritual nurture within intimate relationships.
- Mutual Soul Care: Reciprocal intimacy and vulnerability among friends or small groups.
- Pastoral Care: Broad ministry of compassion, support, and encouragement, often episodic.
- Lay Counseling: Volunteers offering psychological assistance, ideally focused on spiritual growth.
- Christian Counseling: Problem-focused, psychologically informed care within Christian values.
- Pastoral Counseling: Provided by clergy, integrating theological and clinical insights.
- Spiritual Direction: Aids spiritual growth, discernment of God's will, and deeper prayer life.
- Christian Psychotherapy: Longer-term, deeper exploration and resolution of psychospiritual roots of problems.
- Intensive Soul Care: Combines spiritual exercises and psychotherapeutic insights for deep healing and nurture.
Complementary roles. These forms of care are complementary, not hierarchical, and none is inherently superior. Cooperation among practitioners is crucial to provide a comprehensive network of support. Each form addresses different needs and offers distinct resources, ensuring that individuals can find appropriate care for their unique psychospiritual journey.
9. Soul Care Providers: Called to Love, Maturity, and Truth
Soul guides can only lead others to places they themselves regularly inhabit.
Essential qualifications. Those called to soul care must possess specific qualities beyond technical skills. Foremost is a deep, genuine, and unconditional love for ordinary people, coupled with trustworthiness and the capacity to trust. They must be spiritually and psychologically mature, unafraid of strong emotions, empathetic, and free from the need for external validation.
Authenticity and grace. Soul guides must embody genuineness, honesty, and interpersonal accessibility, offering their true selves in engagement. This authenticity fosters trust and invites others to be their true selves. Crucially, they must have a deep experiential knowing of God's grace, enabling them to offer forgiveness, understanding, and realistic expectations, rather than judgment or rigidity.
Wisdom and humility. Effective soul guides are characterized by wisdom, reflected in their adaptability, sensitivity, and judicious use of advice. Their humility prevents dogmatism and allows them to respect the other's conscience and self-directive resources. Ultimately, responding to this high calling requires continuous dependence on the Holy Spirit, the true and only fully qualified soul guide, as personal growth and renewal are lifelong demands.
10. Receiving Soul Care: A Universal Need for Growth and Freedom
No one should attempt to travel the spiritual road alone.
Universal need. Soul care is a universal human need, as we are social creatures requiring others for deep living and spiritual growth. Everyone benefits from soul companions, especially those who:
- Provide soul care themselves (for personal growth and integrity).
- Seek freedom from inner bondage (e.g., emotional wounds, addictions, inability to forgive).
- Desire greater psychospiritual maturity and vitality (e.g., deeper experience of God, clarity of calling).
- Need assistance in developing a moral perspective on life (ethical reflection, reorientation).
Choosing wisely. Selecting the right form of care and provider is crucial. It's advisable to choose a guide who has personal experience with the care they offer and who complements one's own needs (e.g., a psychotherapist might also benefit from spiritual direction). The greater one's sphere of influence, the greater the need for intensive care. When in distress, therapeutic forms are ideal; for spiritual growth, spiritual direction is key.
Preparing for the journey. Effective reception of soul care involves intentional preparation through self-reflection and spiritual disciplines. This includes:
- Solitude and contemplative prayer: Cultivating inner stillness.
- Journal writing: Recording thoughts, feelings, dreams, and reactions.
- Autobiography: Articulating one's life story, focusing on inner issues.
- Reflection: Examining self-deception, symptoms, fears, anxieties, spiritual life, and relationships.
This preparation helps individuals clarify their needs, understand their inner landscape, and engage more deeply with God and their soul guide.
Review Summary
Reviews for Care of Souls are largely positive, averaging 3.93 out of 5 across 272 ratings. Many readers praise Benner's holistic integration of psychology and Christian spirituality, particularly recommending it for pastors, counselors, and spiritual directors. Readers appreciate his exploration of dialogue, soul care practices, and psychospiritual thinking. Some criticisms include redundancy, the book feeling dated, and controversy around his interpretation of dreams. Several reviewers highlight it as academically rigorous yet rewarding for those committed to Christian soul care ministry.