Civility Books | Summaries & Audio

Emily Post's Etiquette, The Centennial Edition

by Lizzie Post • 2022

Forget the forks. The updated guide to navigating funerals, group chats, and your father-in-law.

4.26

187

🤝 Etiquette Guides 🗣️ Social Skills 🌟 Everyday Courtesy

Emily Post's Etiquette, The Centennial Edition Summary

Emily Post's Etiquette, The Centennial Edition 91%

Forget the forks. The updated guide to navigating funerals, group chats, and your father-in-law.

by Lizzie Post 2022

4.26

187 ratings

🤝 Etiquette Guides 🗣️ Social Skills 🌟 Everyday Courtesy

Etiquette For Dummies

by Sue Fox • 1999

Forget the rulebook. Real etiquette is the art of putting others at ease, wherever you are.

3.72

155

🍽️ Etiquette And Manners 📱 Modern Etiquette 💬 Social Skills

Etiquette For Dummies 90%

Forget the rulebook. Real etiquette is the art of putting others at ease, wherever you are.

by Sue Fox 1999

3.72

155 ratings

🍽️ Etiquette And Manners 📱 Modern Etiquette 💬 Social Skills

Eleanor Roosevelt's Book of Common Sense Etiquette

by Eleanor Roosevelt • 1962

Forget the forks; real etiquette is a habit of kindness. Here is how to make it yours.

3.97

📚 Etiquette Guides 💕 Everyday Kindness 🎉 Hosting And Entertaining

Eleanor Roosevelt's Book of Common Sense Etiquette Summary

Eleanor Roosevelt's Book of Common Sense Etiquette 90%

Forget the forks; real etiquette is a habit of kindness. Here is how to make it yours.

by Eleanor Roosevelt 1962

3.97

62 ratings

📚 Etiquette Guides 💕 Everyday Kindness 🎉 Hosting And Entertaining

Mingling with the Enemy

by Jeanne Martinet • 2020

The conversational prep, pivots, and exits for surviving our politically divided social world.

3.70

🏛️ Political Polarization 🗣️ Conversation Skills 🤝 Civil Discourse

Mingling with the Enemy 90%

The conversational prep, pivots, and exits for surviving our politically divided social world.

by Jeanne Martinet 2020

3.70

44 ratings

🏛️ Political Polarization 🗣️ Conversation Skills 🤝 Civil Discourse

How to Be a Gentleman

by John Bridges • 1998

The modern gentleman's guide: dress, dining, and the one rule that replaces forty others.

3.74

2k+

🎩 Etiquette 📱 Modern Manners 👔 Men'S Style

How to Be a Gentleman 89%

The modern gentleman's guide: dress, dining, and the one rule that replaces forty others.

by John Bridges 1998

3.74

2k+ ratings

🎩 Etiquette 📱 Modern Manners 👔 Men'S Style

I'm Just Saying

by Milan Kordestani • 2023

The skill of civil discourse: self-awareness, listening, and the mental focus to stay in the room.

4.25

8k+

📣 Civil Discourse 🗣️ Conversation Skills 🤝 Conflict Resolution

I'm Just Saying 89%

The skill of civil discourse: self-awareness, listening, and the mental focus to stay in the room.

by Milan Kordestani 2023

4.25

8k+ ratings

📣 Civil Discourse 🗣️ Conversation Skills 🤝 Conflict Resolution

Emily Post's Etiquette

by Lizzie Post • 1922

From group chat chaos to white-tablecloth dinners: the classic manners guide for modern life.

4.15

3k+

🍽️ Modern Etiquette 💬 Social Skills 🍷 Dining Etiquette

Emily Post's Etiquette 89%

From group chat chaos to white-tablecloth dinners: the classic manners guide for modern life.

by Lizzie Post 1922

4.15

3k+ ratings

🍽️ Modern Etiquette 💬 Social Skills 🍷 Dining Etiquette

Everything About Corporate Etiquette

by Vivek Bindra • 2017

The unspoken rules of conduct that decide promotions, from your handshake to your inbox.

4.49

📊 Corporate Etiquette 🚪 First Impressions 🤝 Conflict Resolution

Everything About Corporate Etiquette Summary

Everything About Corporate Etiquette 89%

The unspoken rules of conduct that decide promotions, from your handshake to your inbox.

by Vivek Bindra 2017

4.49

43 ratings

📊 Corporate Etiquette 🚪 First Impressions 🤝 Conflict Resolution

How to Deal with Angry People

by Ryan Martin • 2023

Anger spreads like a virus. Ten psychology-backed strategies for staying steady when others lose it.

3.45

238

😠 Anger Management 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧘 Emotional Regulation

How to Deal with Angry People 89%

Anger spreads like a virus. Ten psychology-backed strategies for staying steady when others lose it.

by Ryan Martin 2023

3.45

238 ratings

😠 Anger Management 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🧘 Emotional Regulation

Spirit Of Community

by Amitai Etzioni • 1993

The rights expansion forgot the duties. What it cost American communities, and how to rebuild.

3.50

🏘️ Communitarianism ⚖️ Rights And Duties 📚 Moral Education

Spirit Of Community 89%

The rights expansion forgot the duties. What it cost American communities, and how to rebuild.

by Amitai Etzioni 1993

3.50

80 ratings

🏘️ Communitarianism ⚖️ Rights And Duties 📚 Moral Education

Good Arguments

by Bo Seo • 2022

How to build arguments that hold, spot bad-faith moves, and know which battles to skip.

3.66

2k+

🗣️ Argumentation 🤝 Civil Discourse 🎯 Persuasion

Good Arguments 89%

How to build arguments that hold, spot bad-faith moves, and know which battles to skip.

by Bo Seo 2022

3.66

2k+ ratings

🗣️ Argumentation 🤝 Civil Discourse 🎯 Persuasion

The Art of Civilized Conversation

by Margaret Shepherd • 2005

Conversation is a craft anyone can learn: a guide to small talk, listening, and disagreeing well.

3.59

634

🗣️ Conversation Skills 👂 Active Listening ☕ Small Talk

The Art of Civilized Conversation Summary

The Art of Civilized Conversation 88%

Conversation is a craft anyone can learn: a guide to small talk, listening, and disagreeing well.

by Margaret Shepherd 2005

3.59

634 ratings

🗣️ Conversation Skills 👂 Active Listening ☕ Small Talk

Learning to Disagree

by John D. Inazu • 2024

A law professor's guide to disagreeing with empathy, fairness, and a shot at staying friends.

3.86

596

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 💛 Empathy Practice 🕊️ Forgiveness

Learning to Disagree 88%

A law professor's guide to disagreeing with empathy, fairness, and a shot at staying friends.

by John D. Inazu 2024

3.86

596 ratings

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 💛 Empathy Practice 🕊️ Forgiveness

I'm Right and You're an Idiot

by James Hoggan • 2016

Why arguing harder backfires, and the listening and framing skills that actually change minds.

3.69

230

🗣️ Public Discourse ⚡ Polarization 🧠 Cognitive Biases

I'm Right and You're an Idiot 88%

Why arguing harder backfires, and the listening and framing skills that actually change minds.

by James Hoggan 2016

3.69

230 ratings

🗣️ Public Discourse ⚡ Polarization 🧠 Cognitive Biases

Everyday Etiquette

by Patricia Rossi • 2011

From handshake to condolence call, the social rules most people miss across 101 everyday moments.

3.54

119

🍽️ Etiquette Guides 🤝 Social Skills 💼 Workplace Conduct

Everyday Etiquette 88%

From handshake to condolence call, the social rules most people miss across 101 everyday moments.

by Patricia Rossi 2011

3.54

119 ratings

🍽️ Etiquette Guides 🤝 Social Skills 💼 Workplace Conduct

On Being Nice

by The School of Life • 2017

We turned nice into a synonym for boring and bankrupt. That was a catastrophic misreading.

3.82

1k+

🤝 Social Virtues ⚖️ Everyday Ethics 💛 Kindness Practice

On Being Nice 88%

We turned nice into a synonym for boring and bankrupt. That was a catastrophic misreading.

by The School of Life 2017

3.82

1k+ ratings

🤝 Social Virtues ⚖️ Everyday Ethics 💛 Kindness Practice

Treating People Well

by Lea Berman • 2018

Two rival-party White House social secretaries agree on twelve civility skills that actually work.

3.72

1k+

🏛️ White House Memoir 🤝 Workplace Civility 🧠 Social Intelligence

Treating People Well 88%

Two rival-party White House social secretaries agree on twelve civility skills that actually work.

by Lea Berman 2018

3.72

1k+ ratings

🏛️ White House Memoir 🤝 Workplace Civility 🧠 Social Intelligence

The Bill of Obligations

by Richard N. Haass • 2023

Rights are half the contract. Democracy's survival depends on ten duties Americans have forgotten.

4.12

2k+

🇺🇸 American Politics 📜 Civic Duty ⚡ Political Polarization

The Bill of Obligations 88%

Rights are half the contract. Democracy's survival depends on ten duties Americans have forgotten.

by Richard N. Haass 2023

4.12

2k+ ratings

🇺🇸 American Politics 📜 Civic Duty ⚡ Political Polarization

365 Manners Kids Should Know

by Sheryl Eberly • 2001

365 daily lessons that turn table manners and thank-you notes into automatic lifelong courtesy.

3.77

285

🎩 Etiquette For Kids 🧒 Child Social Skills 🧱 Character Building

365 Manners Kids Should Know 88%

365 daily lessons that turn table manners and thank-you notes into automatic lifelong courtesy.

by Sheryl Eberly 2001

3.77

285 ratings

🎩 Etiquette For Kids 🧒 Child Social Skills 🧱 Character Building

Kindness Wins

by Galit Breen • 2015

Your kids know the safety rules. Here is how to teach them the kindness ones.

4.73

111

📱 Digital Parenting 🧑‍💻 Social Media Literacy 🛑 Youth Cyberbullying

Kindness Wins 88%

Your kids know the safety rules. Here is how to teach them the kindness ones.

by Galit Breen 2015

4.73

111 ratings

📱 Digital Parenting 🧑‍💻 Social Media Literacy 🛑 Youth Cyberbullying

How Rude!

by Alex J. Packer • 1997

Manners your parents forgot to teach you, and a few they never knew.

4.15

240

🎩 Teen Etiquette 🗣️ Social Skills 🍽️ Table Manners

How Rude! 88%

Manners your parents forgot to teach you, and a few they never knew.

by Alex J. Packer 1997

4.15

240 ratings

🎩 Teen Etiquette 🗣️ Social Skills 🍽️ Table Manners

The Essential 55

by Ron Clark • 2003

How 55 non-negotiable rules build character, empathy, and a classroom culture of excellence.

3.92

6k+

🏫 Classroom Management 🧑‍🏫 Character Education 📈 High Expectations

The Essential 55 88%

How 55 non-negotiable rules build character, empathy, and a classroom culture of excellence.

by Ron Clark 2003

3.92

6k+ ratings

🏫 Classroom Management 🧑‍🏫 Character Education 📈 High Expectations

Free Speech

by Timothy Garton Ash • 2017

Free speech was built for a world of nations and newspapers. That world is gone.

3.96

312

🗣️ Free Speech 🌐 Internet Freedom 📰 Media And Democracy

Free Speech 88%

Free speech was built for a world of nations and newspapers. That world is gone.

by Timothy Garton Ash 2017

3.96

312 ratings

🗣️ Free Speech 🌐 Internet Freedom 📰 Media And Democracy

I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening)

by Sarah Stewart Holland • 2019

A path to disagreeing about politics without destroying relationships.

4.07

5k+

🤝 Political Depolarization 🗣️ Civil Discourse 💬 Difficult Conversations

I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening) Summary

I Think You're Wrong (But I'm Listening) 88%

A path to disagreeing about politics without destroying relationships.

by Sarah Stewart Holland 2019

4.07

5k+ ratings

🤝 Political Depolarization 🗣️ Civil Discourse 💬 Difficult Conversations

One Nation Under Therapy

by Christina Hoff Sommers • 2005

Therapy culture taught Americans to be fragile. Resilience and moral clarity are the antidote.

3.60

376

🧑‍⚕️ Therapeutic Culture 🏛️ Cultural Criticism ⚖️ Personal Accountability

One Nation Under Therapy 87%

Therapy culture taught Americans to be fragile. Resilience and moral clarity are the antidote.

by Christina Hoff Sommers 2005

3.60

376 ratings

🧑‍⚕️ Therapeutic Culture 🏛️ Cultural Criticism ⚖️ Personal Accountability

Connoisseur Kids

by Jennifer L. Scott • 2019

Turn daily routines into a training ground for politeness, poise, and genuine thoughtfulness.

4.13

256

🧐 Etiquette Guides 🧒 Manners For Children 🏡 Family Values

Connoisseur Kids 87%

Turn daily routines into a training ground for politeness, poise, and genuine thoughtfulness.

by Jennifer L. Scott 2019

4.13

256 ratings

🧐 Etiquette Guides 🧒 Manners For Children 🏡 Family Values

I Never Thought of It That Way

by Monica Guzmán • 2022

Skills that bridge political divides: why curiosity, not argument, rebuilds connection.

3.87

4k+

🧭 Political Polarization 💬 Difficult Conversations 🧠 Intellectual Humility

I Never Thought of It That Way 87%

Skills that bridge political divides: why curiosity, not argument, rebuilds connection.

by Monica Guzmán 2022

3.87

4k+ ratings

🧭 Political Polarization 💬 Difficult Conversations 🧠 Intellectual Humility

The Good Society

by Robert N. Bellah • 1991

Individualism gutted our institutions. Repair begins where the myth ends: we need each other.

3.66

105

🏘️ Communitarianism 🗳️ American Civic Life 🏛️ Democratic Theory

The Good Society 87%

Individualism gutted our institutions. Repair begins where the myth ends: we need each other.

by Robert N. Bellah 1991

3.66

105 ratings

🏘️ Communitarianism 🗳️ American Civic Life 🏛️ Democratic Theory

Love Your Enemies

by Arthur C. Brooks • 2019

Contempt destroys marriages and countries alike. The way out is not what you'd expect.

4.29

4k+

🏛️ Political Polarization 💬 Civil Discourse 🧠 Emotional Regulation

Love Your Enemies 87%

Contempt destroys marriages and countries alike. The way out is not what you'd expect.

by Arthur C. Brooks 2019

4.29

4k+ ratings

🏛️ Political Polarization 💬 Civil Discourse 🧠 Emotional Regulation

How to Have Impossible Conversations

by Peter Boghossian • 2019

Facts bounce off strongly held beliefs. The questioning method that works when evidence doesn't.

3.89

3k+

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 🔄 Belief Change 🔍 Applied Epistemology

How to Have Impossible Conversations Summary

How to Have Impossible Conversations 87%

Facts bounce off strongly held beliefs. The questioning method that works when evidence doesn't.

by Peter Boghossian 2019

3.89

3k+ ratings

🗣️ Difficult Conversations 🔄 Belief Change 🔍 Applied Epistemology

The Way to Happiness

by L. Ron Hubbard • 1989

Personal integrity and the golden rule: L. Ron Hubbard's practical moral code for a life that works.

3.76

535

🧭 Moral Codes 😇 Virtue Ethics 🧹 Personal Integrity

The Way to Happiness 87%

Personal integrity and the golden rule: L. Ron Hubbard's practical moral code for a life that works.

by L. Ron Hubbard 1989

3.76

535 ratings

🧭 Moral Codes 😇 Virtue Ethics 🧹 Personal Integrity

The Road to Character

by David Brooks • 2015

Two kinds of virtue compete in every life. The modern world only teaches the shallower one.

3.65

27k+

🧘 Virtue Ethics 🪴 Character Development 📖 Cultural Criticism

The Road to Character 87%

Two kinds of virtue compete in every life. The modern world only teaches the shallower one.

by David Brooks 2015

3.65

27k+ ratings

🧘 Virtue Ethics 🪴 Character Development 📖 Cultural Criticism

All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten

by Robert Fulghum • 1986

Life's most elusive wisdom is hidden in the rules you mastered by age five.

4.00

25k+

📦 Everyday Wisdom 🤝 Common Decency 🌟 Childlike Wonder

All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten Summary

All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten 87%

Life's most elusive wisdom is hidden in the rules you mastered by age five.

by Robert Fulghum 1986

4.00

25k+ ratings

📦 Everyday Wisdom 🤝 Common Decency 🌟 Childlike Wonder

The Fall of Public Man

by Richard Sennett • 1977

Public life once ran on masks, not sincerity. We tore them off and strangers became threats.

4.16

620

🏙️ Urban Sociology 📜 Historical Sociology 🏛️ Public Life

The Fall of Public Man 87%

Public life once ran on masks, not sincerity. We tore them off and strangers became threats.

by Richard Sennett 1977

4.16

620 ratings

🏙️ Urban Sociology 📜 Historical Sociology 🏛️ Public Life

How to Think

by Alan Jacobs • 2017

You think you're reasoning, but you're mostly just belonging; here's how to tell the difference.

3.95

5k+

🧠 Cognitive Biases 🏴 Tribalism 🤲 Intellectual Humility

How to Think 87%

You think you're reasoning, but you're mostly just belonging; here's how to tell the difference.

by Alan Jacobs 2017

3.95

5k+ ratings

🧠 Cognitive Biases 🏴 Tribalism 🤲 Intellectual Humility

Grace in the Gray

by Mike Donehey • 2023

Disagree without enemies: the habits that turn conflict into connection, even on social media.

4.49

398

🕊️ Gracious Disagreement 👂 Active Listening 🧠 Overcoming Bias

Grace in the Gray 87%

Disagree without enemies: the habits that turn conflict into connection, even on social media.

by Mike Donehey 2023

4.49

398 ratings

🕊️ Gracious Disagreement 👂 Active Listening 🧠 Overcoming Bias

Gracious

by Kelly Williams Brown • 2017

Charm can be learned. Tact can be practiced. Both begin with how you treat yourself.

3.64

601

🍽️ Modern Etiquette 💗 Self-Compassion 🏠 Hospitality

Gracious 87%

Charm can be learned. Tact can be practiced. Both begin with how you treat yourself.

by Kelly Williams Brown 2017

3.64

601 ratings

🍽️ Modern Etiquette 💗 Self-Compassion 🏠 Hospitality

How to Stay Sane in an Age of Division

by Elif Shafak • 2020

We have never been more connected, nor more divided. Storytelling, not information, is the bridge.

3.95

8k+

🗳️ Political Division 🤝 Civic Engagement 🔁 Echo Chambers

How to Stay Sane in an Age of Division Summary

How to Stay Sane in an Age of Division 87%

We have never been more connected, nor more divided. Storytelling, not information, is the bridge.

by Elif Shafak 2020

3.95

8k+ ratings

🗳️ Political Division 🤝 Civic Engagement 🔁 Echo Chambers

The Etiquette Advantage in Business

by Peter Post • 2014

Competence gets you hired. Dining skills, email habits, and small talk get you promoted.

3.73

🏢 Professional Etiquette 🏛️ Office Politics 💬 Business Communication

The Etiquette Advantage in Business Summary

The Etiquette Advantage in Business 87%

Competence gets you hired. Dining skills, email habits, and small talk get you promoted.

by Peter Post 2014

3.73

89 ratings

🏢 Professional Etiquette 🏛️ Office Politics 💬 Business Communication

Rights Talk

by Mary Ann Glendon • 1991

American law won't require you to rescue a drowning stranger. That gap explains our broken politics.

4.06

124

📜 Constitutional Law 🗣️ Political Rhetoric 🔍 Individualism Critique

Rights Talk 87%

American law won't require you to rescue a drowning stranger. That gap explains our broken politics.

by Mary Ann Glendon 1991

4.06

124 ratings

📜 Constitutional Law 🗣️ Political Rhetoric 🔍 Individualism Critique

Spoilt Rotten

by dalrymple-theodore • 2010

Sentiment now governs law, schools, and foreign aid. The cruelty that follows is no accident.

3.96

1k+

🏛️ Cultural Criticism 🗣️ Political Polemics 🔍 Rational Inquiry

Spoilt Rotten 87%

Sentiment now governs law, schools, and foreign aid. The cruelty that follows is no accident.

by dalrymple-theodore 2010

3.96

1k+ ratings

🏛️ Cultural Criticism 🗣️ Political Polemics 🔍 Rational Inquiry

The Ancient Art of Thinking For Yourself

by Robin Reames • 2024

Facts crumble when denied. Metaphors run our politics. Ancient rhetoric knew both, and we forgot.

3.93

244

🏛️ Classical Rhetoric 📺 Media Criticism 📰 Post-Truth

The Ancient Art of Thinking For Yourself Summary

The Ancient Art of Thinking For Yourself 87%

Facts crumble when denied. Metaphors run our politics. Ancient rhetoric knew both, and we forgot.

by Robin Reames 2024

3.93

244 ratings

🏛️ Classical Rhetoric 📺 Media Criticism 📰 Post-Truth

Democracy When the People Are Thinking

by James S. Fishkin • 2018

Shallow views run democracy. When citizens deliberate, their priorities shift, and policy follows.

3.82

🗳️ Deliberative Democracy 📜 Constitutional Reform 💭 Opinion Formation

Democracy When the People Are Thinking Summary

Democracy When the People Are Thinking 87%

Shallow views run democracy. When citizens deliberate, their priorities shift, and policy follows.

by James S. Fishkin 2018

3.82

28 ratings

🗳️ Deliberative Democracy 📜 Constitutional Reform 💭 Opinion Formation

One Nation, After All

by Alan Wolfe • 1998

Culture war? Most Americans are too busy living moderate, practical lives to join the fight.

3.24

🗳️ Political Attitudes 💼 Middle Class 📊 Cultural Sociology

One Nation, After All 87%

Culture war? Most Americans are too busy living moderate, practical lives to join the fight.

by Alan Wolfe 1998

3.24

38 ratings

🗳️ Political Attitudes 💼 Middle Class 📊 Cultural Sociology

How to Think Seriously About the Planet

by Roger Scruton • 2011

Why local loyalty, beauty, and tradition matter more for the planet than any global climate treaty.

3.87

446

🏛️ Conservatism 🌱 Stewardship 🏘️ Localism

How to Think Seriously About the Planet Summary

How to Think Seriously About the Planet 87%

Why local loyalty, beauty, and tradition matter more for the planet than any global climate treaty.

by Roger Scruton 2011

3.87

446 ratings

🏛️ Conservatism 🌱 Stewardship 🏘️ Localism

Words That Hurt, Words That Heal

by Joseph Telushkin • 1996

Break the cycle of gossip, anger, and shaming with ancient wisdom on the power of speech.

4.36

568

🕎 Jewish Ethics 🗣️ Ethical Speech 💬 Compassionate Communication

Words That Hurt, Words That Heal Summary

Words That Hurt, Words That Heal 87%

Break the cycle of gossip, anger, and shaming with ancient wisdom on the power of speech.

by Joseph Telushkin 1996

4.36

568 ratings

🕎 Jewish Ethics 🗣️ Ethical Speech 💬 Compassionate Communication

Right Thing. Right Now

by Ryan Holiday • 2024

Justice is a Stoic practice: integrity, forgiveness, and the courage to never look away.

4.13

6k+

🏛️ Modern Stoicism ⚖️ Virtue Ethics ✊ Nonviolent Resistance

Right Thing. Right Now 87%

Justice is a Stoic practice: integrity, forgiveness, and the courage to never look away.

by Ryan Holiday 2024

4.13

6k+ ratings

🏛️ Modern Stoicism ⚖️ Virtue Ethics ✊ Nonviolent Resistance

The Lost History of Liberalism

by Helena Rosenblatt • 2018

Liberalism was born as duty and generosity. The individual-rights version is only seventy years old.

4.04

448

🏛️ Intellectual History 📜 Political Theory 🫂 Civic Virtue

The Lost History of Liberalism 87%

Liberalism was born as duty and generosity. The individual-rights version is only seventy years old.

by Helena Rosenblatt 2018

4.04

448 ratings

🏛️ Intellectual History 📜 Political Theory 🫂 Civic Virtue

The Students are Watching

by Theodore R. Sizer • 1999

The way a school runs teaches morality more powerfully than any lesson. Kids notice everything.

3.53

277

🧱 Educational Philosophy 🧭 Moral Development ⚖️ Character Education

The Students are Watching 87%

The way a school runs teaches morality more powerfully than any lesson. Kids notice everything.

by Theodore R. Sizer 1999

3.53

277 ratings

🧱 Educational Philosophy 🧭 Moral Development ⚖️ Character Education

The Civilizing Process

by Norbert Elias • 2000

Table manners aren't trivial: they mark a centuries-old shift from violence to inner self-restraint.

4.25

1k+

🏛️ Historical Sociology 🏰 State Formation 🍽️ Manners And Etiquette

The Civilizing Process 87%

Table manners aren't trivial: they mark a centuries-old shift from violence to inner self-restraint.

by Norbert Elias 2000

4.25

1k+ ratings

🏛️ Historical Sociology 🏰 State Formation 🍽️ Manners And Etiquette

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