Attract The Right Girl

1. Define Your Ideal Woman and Raise Your Standards

"When everyone is your customer, no one is your customer."

Know what you want. Sit down and create a detailed list of ten qualities you desire in your dream girl. Be painfully honest with yourself, focusing on what will make YOU happy rather than what will impress others. This clarity will help you filter out incompatible women and attract those who align with your values.

Raise your standards. By increasing your expectations and refusing to settle, you become a beacon for higher-quality women. Look for a potential mate within your natural life journey, including work, hobbies, and interests. This increases compatibility and mutual attraction. Remember, chemistry and compatibility are more important than physical beauty alone.

2. Recognize and Attract a High-Quality Girlfriend

"A woman's character or lack thereof can make or break you."

Seek feminine grace. A high-quality woman possesses feminine grace, which makes her desirable, sexy, and powerful. This quality allows her to influence men without being forceful, and it encompasses her confidence, poise, and respect for good men.

Look for these qualities:

• Unwavering loyalty and support
• Thoughtfulness and proactivity in the relationship
• Appreciation for your strengths
• Consistent encouragement
• A fountain of youth and light-heartedness
• Ability to hold you accountable without making excuses

3. Develop Masculine Qualities That High-Quality Women Desire

"Every man, no matter what his creed, culture, or calling, wants to be treated like a king."

Cultivate these qualities:

1. Self-confidence
2. Self-control
3. Ambition
4. Stimulating personality
5. Unique abilities or passionate interests

Be the king she desires. High-quality women are looking for men who embody these masculine traits. By developing these qualities, you become the type of man who can lead, inspire, and maintain a fulfilling relationship with a remarkable woman.

4. Communicate Your Value and Stand Out from Other Men

"Only remarkable products get bought on the market from big spenders, just like how remarkable people are noticed by those just like them."

Be remarkable. Most men fail to attract high-quality women because they're boring and uninteresting. Develop a unique style, personality, and set of interests that make you stand out from the crowd.

Don't worship beauty. Avoid putting gorgeous women on a pedestal. Instead, treat them like normal human beings and focus on assessing their character. This approach will make you more attractive and memorable to high-quality women who are used to constant adoration.

5. Be Authentically Attractive: Mysterious, Playful, and Honest

"Girls just want to have fun!"

Maintain mystery. Don't reveal everything about yourself immediately. Give her time to become attached before sharing every detail of your life. This creates intrigue and keeps her interested in learning more about you.

Tease playfully. Use humor and confidence to create a fun, flirtatious dynamic. Make outrageous demands, give ridiculous responses, and engage in playful banter to build sexual tension and make her laugh.

Be honest and direct. High-quality women find honesty extremely attractive. Don't hold back your opinions or avoid conflict. Be firm in your beliefs and share them respectfully, even if they differ from hers.

6. Cultivate Personal Growth and Interesting Hobbies

"A good woman wants to be a positive influence on a man, she's actually looking for a man with a high potential for PERSONAL GROWTH."

Pursue self-development. Actively engage in learning and personal growth. This shows that you're constantly evolving and striving to reach your full potential, which is highly attractive to high-quality women.

Develop interesting hobbies. Choose activities that:

• Make you feel alive
• Engage you totally
• Make time fly when you're doing them
• Sharpen your mind and skills
• Allow you to showcase your passion and talent

By pursuing these interests, you become more dynamic, attractive, and interesting to your ideal woman.

7. Create a Paradox of Attraction: Be Desirable Yet Detached

"The more detached you are from something, the more opportunities for its attainment seem to occur."

Adopt a detached attitude. Paradoxically, men who don't actively seek relationships often attract great women. Cultivate an attitude of confidence and independence, which signals that you're not needy.

Focus on self-improvement. Instead of anxiously pursuing a relationship, work on becoming "perfect boyfriend material." This takes the pressure off and naturally attracts women who want to invest in you.

Be the selector. Communicate through your words and body language that you're assessing whether she meets your standards. This creates a dynamic where she wants to prove herself worthy of your attention.

8. Make Her Chase You for a Committed Relationship

"You MUST set your standards high and know what you want first of all, and then you mustn't allow any woman to deter you from those guidelines."

Be the rare songbird. High-quality women want to "catch" a man who is free, wild, fun-loving, and happy with his life. Don't fly into the "cage of commitment" too quickly or eagerly.

Maintain your standards. Be willing to walk away from situations or women who don't meet your criteria. This demonstrates confidence and makes you more attractive to high-quality women.

Cultivate, don't build. Focus on cultivating the relationship through meaningful interactions rather than trying to "build" it with gifts and constant attention. Allow her to chase you and invest in the relationship as well.

Last updated: October 18, 2024