🚩 Red Flags In Dating

Books that decode the early warning signs of unhealthy romantic partners, helping readers trust their instincts and protect their hearts before attachment deepens.

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags

by Natasha Burton • 2011

You spotted the warning signs early and ignored them. How to stop, from date one.

3.75

252

🚩 Red Flags 💌 Dating Advice 🧠 Trust Your Instincts

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags Summary

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags 93%

You spotted the warning signs early and ignored them. How to stop, from date one.

by Natasha Burton 2011

3.75

252 ratings

🚩 Red Flags 💌 Dating Advice 🧠 Trust Your Instincts

He's Just Not That Into You

by Greg Behrendt • 2004

Mixed signals are actually no signals. A blunt decoder for every excuse you've made for him.

3.66

67k+

💕 Dating Advice 🚩 Relationship Red Flags 👀 Reading Romantic Signals

He's Just Not That Into You 90%

Mixed signals are actually no signals. A blunt decoder for every excuse you've made for him.

by Greg Behrendt 2004

3.66

67k+ ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🚩 Relationship Red Flags 👀 Reading Romantic Signals

Love Life

by Matthew Hussey • 2024

All-day texts mean nothing without follow-through. The real signals that someone is choosing you.

4.16

5k+

💘 Dating Advice 🚩 Red Flags In Relationships 📡 Reading Romantic Signals

Love Life 90%

All-day texts mean nothing without follow-through. The real signals that someone is choosing you.

by Matthew Hussey 2024

4.16

5k+ ratings

💘 Dating Advice 🚩 Red Flags In Relationships 📡 Reading Romantic Signals

The Tactical Guide to Women

by Shawn T. Smith • 2017

Three traits predict a happy marriage, and why 18 months is the minimum to spot them.

4.41

777

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Men'S Relationships 💑 Modern Dating 🔍 Partner Selection

The Tactical Guide to Women 90%

Three traits predict a happy marriage, and why 18 months is the minimum to spot them.

by Shawn T. Smith 2017

4.41

777 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Men'S Relationships 💑 Modern Dating 🔍 Partner Selection

The Power of the Pussy - How To Get What You Want From Men

by Kara King • 2012

Men don't chase what they already have. The playbook for being the one they pursue.

3.76

4k+

🗓️ Dating Advice ♟️ Relationship Strategy 👑 Feminine Power

The Power of the Pussy - How To Get What You Want From Men Summary

The Power of the Pussy - How To Get What You Want From Men 90%

Men don't chase what they already have. The playbook for being the one they pursue.

by Kara King 2012

3.76

4k+ ratings

🗓️ Dating Advice ♟️ Relationship Strategy 👑 Feminine Power

Ghosted and Breadcrumbed

by Marni Feuerman • 2019

Why you keep choosing unavailable partners and the exact method to break the cycle for good.

4.09

230

🧠 Attachment Theory 🚫 Emotional Unavailability 🚩 Dating Red Flags

Ghosted and Breadcrumbed 90%

Why you keep choosing unavailable partners and the exact method to break the cycle for good.

by Marni Feuerman 2019

4.09

230 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 🚫 Emotional Unavailability 🚩 Dating Red Flags

I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies...

by The Betches • 2016

Self-worth first, texting never: the tough-love dating playbook for millennial women.

3.66

2k+

🧭 Dating Advice 📱 Millennial Dating 💻 Online Dating

I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies... Summary

I Had a Nice Time And Other Lies... 90%

Self-worth first, texting never: the tough-love dating playbook for millennial women.

by The Betches 2016

3.66

2k+ ratings

🧭 Dating Advice 📱 Millennial Dating 💻 Online Dating

Deal Breakers

by Bethany Marshall • 2007

Five toxic partner types, the boundary framework that exposes them, and the self-worth to leave.

3.82

759

⚠️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🚩 Relationship Red Flags

Deal Breakers 90%

Five toxic partner types, the boundary framework that exposes them, and the self-worth to leave.

by Bethany Marshall 2007

3.82

759 ratings

⚠️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🚩 Relationship Red Flags

Reflections of a Man

by Amari Soul • 2015

A man's inside take on what to demand, and why lowering standards disappoints twice.

4.15

6k+

💌 Dating Advice 📏 Setting Standards 🔮 Trusting Intuition

Reflections of a Man 90%

A man's inside take on what to demand, and why lowering standards disappoints twice.

by Amari Soul 2015

4.15

6k+ ratings

💌 Dating Advice 📏 Setting Standards 🔮 Trusting Intuition

The Possibility of Sex

by Alan Roger Currie • 2012

She flirts, hints, and never delivers. It is not shyness. One blunt conversation sorts every type.

4.34

134

🧔 Dating Advice For Men ⚠️ Manipulation In Dating 🗣️ Direct Communication

The Possibility of Sex 89%

She flirts, hints, and never delivers. It is not shyness. One blunt conversation sorts every type.

by Alan Roger Currie 2012

4.34

134 ratings

🧔 Dating Advice For Men ⚠️ Manipulation In Dating 🗣️ Direct Communication

Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl

by Natalie Lue • 2008

You chase unavailable men and settle for crumbs. Here is why, and how to stop.

4.23

991

☣️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Emotional Unavailability 🔗 Codependency

Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl Summary

Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl 89%

You chase unavailable men and settle for crumbs. Here is why, and how to stop.

by Natalie Lue 2008

4.23

991 ratings

☣️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Emotional Unavailability 🔗 Codependency

How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk

by John Van Epp • 2006

Before chemistry blinds you, a research-backed method for evaluating who is actually good for you.

4.15

2k+

🎯 Dating With Intention 🔍 Mate Selection 📋 Relationship Assessment

How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk Summary

How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk 89%

Before chemistry blinds you, a research-backed method for evaluating who is actually good for you.

by John Van Epp 2006

4.15

2k+ ratings

🎯 Dating With Intention 🔍 Mate Selection 📋 Relationship Assessment

Real Men Don't Text

by Ruthie Dean • 2013

Phone calls, not texts: one dating rule that screens out casual interest and attracts commitment.

3.93

167

🕊️ Christian Dating 🤍 Purity Culture 💍 Waiting For Marriage

Real Men Don't Text 89%

Phone calls, not texts: one dating rule that screens out casual interest and attracts commitment.

by Ruthie Dean 2013

3.93

167 ratings

🕊️ Christian Dating 🤍 Purity Culture 💍 Waiting For Marriage

The Manipulative Man

by Dorothy Mccoy • 2006

Classify the manipulator, spot his red flags, and enforce the boundaries that end the cycle.

3.89

188

🧨 Toxic Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse 🚩 Dating Safety

The Manipulative Man 89%

Classify the manipulator, spot his red flags, and enforce the boundaries that end the cycle.

by Dorothy Mccoy 2006

3.89

188 ratings

🧨 Toxic Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse 🚩 Dating Safety

A Woman's Influence

by Tony A. Gaskins • 2020

A former player reveals why men resist commitment and the boundaries that make them step up.

4.54

172

🧔 Understanding Men 💕 Dating Advice 💍 Marriage Advice

A Woman's Influence 88%

A former player reveals why men resist commitment and the boundaries that make them step up.

by Tony A. Gaskins 2020

4.54

172 ratings

🧔 Understanding Men 💕 Dating Advice 💍 Marriage Advice

F*CK Him! - Nice Girls Always Finish Single

by Brian Keephimattracted • 2016

Why being nice gets you nowhere, and the counterintuitive moves that make men invest.

4.27

3k+

📅 Dating Advice ♟️ Relationship Strategy 🧠 Male Psychology

F*CK Him! - Nice Girls Always Finish Single Summary

F*CK Him! - Nice Girls Always Finish Single 88%

Why being nice gets you nowhere, and the counterintuitive moves that make men invest.

by Brian Keephimattracted 2016

4.27

3k+ ratings

📅 Dating Advice ♟️ Relationship Strategy 🧠 Male Psychology

Emotional Manipulation Tactics

by Tess Binder • 2015

The silent tactics that erode self-worth: how to spot manipulation before the damage is done.

3.42

🔧 Manipulation Tactics 💡 Gaslighting 🚩 Red Flags

Emotional Manipulation Tactics 88%

The silent tactics that erode self-worth: how to spot manipulation before the damage is done.

by Tess Binder 2015

3.42

12 ratings

🔧 Manipulation Tactics 💡 Gaslighting 🚩 Red Flags

ACT Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Expanded Edition

by Steve Harvey • 2009

Three things every man is wired to do, and what happens when a woman lets him.

3.77

52k+

💕 Dating Advice 🧠 Male Psychology 👫 Gender Differences

ACT Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Expanded Edition Summary

ACT Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, Expanded Edition 88%

Three things every man is wired to do, and what happens when a woman lets him.

by Steve Harvey 2009

3.77

52k+ ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🧠 Male Psychology 👫 Gender Differences

Date Like a Spartan

by G.L. Lambert • 2015

Stop auditioning: a strategy to date as the prize, vet ruthlessly, and dictate commitment.

4.36

107

🎯 Dating Strategy 🔍 Screening Partners 💪 Dating Confidence

Date Like a Spartan 88%

Stop auditioning: a strategy to date as the prize, vet ruthlessly, and dictate commitment.

by G.L. Lambert 2015

4.36

107 ratings

🎯 Dating Strategy 🔍 Screening Partners 💪 Dating Confidence

Just Send the Text

by Candice Jalili • 2021

Why being your unvarnished self and sending the risky text beats every dating rule.

3.68

323

🚀 Modern Dating 😰 Dating Anxiety 📱 Digital Dating

Just Send the Text 88%

Why being your unvarnished self and sending the risky text beats every dating rule.

by Candice Jalili 2021

3.68

323 ratings

🚀 Modern Dating 😰 Dating Anxiety 📱 Digital Dating

The Manual

by W. Anton • 2010

You don't have to earn her. Three behaviors attract women better than wealth.

4.24

1k+

💘 Dating Advice 👨 Male Dating Strategy 🕯️ Seduction

The Manual 88%

You don't have to earn her. Three behaviors attract women better than wealth.

by W. Anton 2010

4.24

1k+ ratings

💘 Dating Advice 👨 Male Dating Strategy 🕯️ Seduction

How to Flirt with Women

by Ray Asher • 2020

Flirting without the creep factor: the body language, timing, and respect that actually draw her in.

3.78

121

❤️ Dating Advice 🗣️ Social Skills 💪 Male Self-Help

How to Flirt with Women 88%

Flirting without the creep factor: the body language, timing, and respect that actually draw her in.

by Ray Asher 2020

3.78

121 ratings

❤️ Dating Advice 🗣️ Social Skills 💪 Male Self-Help

Waiting and Dating

by Myles Munroe • 2005

Becoming the right person beats finding the right person: what to do during the wait.

4.32

718

🕊️ Christian Dating 📖 Biblical Relationships ⏳ Active Waiting

Waiting and Dating 88%

Becoming the right person beats finding the right person: what to do during the wait.

by Myles Munroe 2005

4.32

718 ratings

🕊️ Christian Dating 📖 Biblical Relationships ⏳ Active Waiting

Attract The Right Girl

by Bruce Bryans • 2012

Define ten non-negotiables, become a man with options, and let her pursue the relationship.

3.80

110

💘 Men'S Dating Advice 💪 Masculinity 🧘 Non-Neediness

Attract The Right Girl 87%

Define ten non-negotiables, become a man with options, and let her pursue the relationship.

by Bruce Bryans 2012

3.80

110 ratings

💘 Men'S Dating Advice 💪 Masculinity 🧘 Non-Neediness

How to Text a Girl

by Chase Amante • 2016

Most men text themselves out of dates. The fix is one simple priority shift.

4.03

165

🧑 Men'S Dating 📱 Text Game 🧊 Non-Neediness

How to Text a Girl 87%

Most men text themselves out of dates. The fix is one simple priority shift.

by Chase Amante 2016

4.03

165 ratings

🧑 Men'S Dating 📱 Text Game 🧊 Non-Neediness

Mars and Venus on a Date

by John Gray • 1997

Dating doubt is not a warning. It is the test that separates flings from soul mates.

3.85

3k+

📖 Dating Advice ⚡ Gender Dynamics 💃 Courtship Rituals

Mars and Venus on a Date 87%

Dating doubt is not a warning. It is the test that separates flings from soul mates.

by John Gray 1997

3.85

3k+ ratings

📖 Dating Advice ⚡ Gender Dynamics 💃 Courtship Rituals

Never Chase Men Again

by Bruce Bryans • 2015

Why your availability kills his interest, and the self-respect moves that make him chase.

3.89

3k+

🩷 Dating Advice 🚧 Boundary Setting 👸 Self-Worth In Love

Never Chase Men Again 87%

Why your availability kills his interest, and the self-respect moves that make him chase.

by Bruce Bryans 2015

3.89

3k+ ratings

🩷 Dating Advice 🚧 Boundary Setting 👸 Self-Worth In Love

Flirtology

by Jean Smith • 2018

Flirting is a learned skill, not a genetic gift. The rules for practicing it without fear.

3.97

238

🎯 Dating Advice 💪 Social Confidence 😏 Flirting Skills

Flirtology 87%

Flirting is a learned skill, not a genetic gift. The rules for practicing it without fear.

by Jean Smith 2018

3.97

238 ratings

🎯 Dating Advice 💪 Social Confidence 😏 Flirting Skills

You Become What You think

by Shubham Kumar Singh • 2023

Becoming the woman a serious man commits to: the ten skills beyond beauty and chemistry.

4.01

958

💘 Dating Advice 🧔 Male Psychology 🌸 Self-Respect For Women

You Become What You think 87%

Becoming the woman a serious man commits to: the ten skills beyond beauty and chemistry.

by Shubham Kumar Singh 2023

4.01

958 ratings

💘 Dating Advice 🧔 Male Psychology 🌸 Self-Respect For Women

All the Rules

by Ellen Fein • 2007

The original playbook for making him chase: 35 rules that turn feminine reserve into a commitment.

3.49

3k+

💕 Dating Advice 💒 Traditional Courtship 😼 Playing Hard To Get

All the Rules 87%

The original playbook for making him chase: 35 rules that turn feminine reserve into a commitment.

by Ellen Fein 2007

3.49

3k+ ratings

💕 Dating Advice 💒 Traditional Courtship 😼 Playing Hard To Get

Make Every Man Want You

by Marie Forleo • 2006

Forget the dating games: magnetic attraction starts with a life so full you forget to chase.

3.68

2k+

🔥 Dating Advice 💁‍♀️ Women'S Self-Help 🧘 Mindful Dating

Make Every Man Want You 87%

Forget the dating games: magnetic attraction starts with a life so full you forget to chase.

by Marie Forleo 2006

3.68

2k+ ratings

🔥 Dating Advice 💁‍♀️ Women'S Self-Help 🧘 Mindful Dating

You’re Overthinking It

by Sabrina Alexis Bendory • 2023

Dating overthinking isn't intuition. It's self-sabotage wearing a convincing disguise.

4.13

248

💕 Dating Advice 🪞 Self-Worth In Dating 🔗 Attachment Patterns

You’re Overthinking It 87%

Dating overthinking isn't intuition. It's self-sabotage wearing a convincing disguise.

by Sabrina Alexis Bendory 2023

4.13

248 ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🪞 Self-Worth In Dating 🔗 Attachment Patterns

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday

by Nick Viall • 2022

Stop the birthday text. Real dating rules for finding love without lying to yourself.

3.62

3k+

💔 Modern Dating 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧲 Dating Compatibility

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday Summary

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday 87%

Stop the birthday text. Real dating rules for finding love without lying to yourself.

by Nick Viall 2022

3.62

3k+ ratings

💔 Modern Dating 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧲 Dating Compatibility

How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams

by Corey Wayne • 2006

She hints. She tests. She wants a man with unshakable purpose. The playbook for becoming him.

4.21

3k+

💬 Dating Advice 💪 Male Self-Improvement ⚡ Masculine Polarity

How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams Summary

How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams 87%

She hints. She tests. She wants a man with unshakable purpose. The playbook for becoming him.

by Corey Wayne 2006

4.21

3k+ ratings

💬 Dating Advice 💪 Male Self-Improvement ⚡ Masculine Polarity

Is This Love or Dopamine?

by Iona David • 2022

Emojis, ghosting, and the 0.4-second impression: what your texts say when your mouth isn't moving.

3.35

155

📱 Digital Dating 💌 Modern Courtship 💻 Dating App Culture

Is This Love or Dopamine? 87%

Emojis, ghosting, and the 0.4-second impression: what your texts say when your mouth isn't moving.

by Iona David 2022

3.35

155 ratings

📱 Digital Dating 💌 Modern Courtship 💻 Dating App Culture

The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match

by Sonya Rhodes • 2014

Why accomplished women struggle in love, and the partner choice that changes everything.

3.51

170

💪 Assertive Women 👩‍💼 High-Achieving Women 🎭 Personality Spectrum

The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match 87%

Why accomplished women struggle in love, and the partner choice that changes everything.

by Sonya Rhodes 2014

3.51

170 ratings

💪 Assertive Women 👩‍💼 High-Achieving Women 🎭 Personality Spectrum

5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life

by Bill Eddy • 2018

The ten percent who escalate every conflict. Spot them, manage them, protect yourself.

3.88

2k+

🧠 Personality Disorders 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🚫 Difficult People

5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life Summary

5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life 87%

The ten percent who escalate every conflict. Spot them, manage them, protect yourself.

by Bill Eddy 2018

3.88

2k+ ratings

🧠 Personality Disorders 🤝 Conflict Resolution 🚫 Difficult People

The Verbally Abusive Man - Can He Change?

by Patricia Evans • 2006

A test for change in a verbally abusive partner, and a safety plan for leaving when he fails.

4.19

316

🗣️ Verbal Abuse 🌀 Gaslighting 🧠 Abuser Psychology

The Verbally Abusive Man - Can He Change? Summary

The Verbally Abusive Man - Can He Change? 87%

A test for change in a verbally abusive partner, and a safety plan for leaving when he fails.

by Patricia Evans 2006

4.19

316 ratings

🗣️ Verbal Abuse 🌀 Gaslighting 🧠 Abuser Psychology

How to Be Dateable

by Julie Krafchick • 2025

Dating strategy matters less than self-clarity. The playbook for finding someone right for you.

4.07

182

🔍 Modern Dating 🔗 Attachment Styles 🎯 Intentional Dating

How to Be Dateable 87%

Dating strategy matters less than self-clarity. The playbook for finding someone right for you.

by Julie Krafchick 2025

4.07

182 ratings

🔍 Modern Dating 🔗 Attachment Styles 🎯 Intentional Dating

Why Women Deserve Less

by Myron Gaines • 2023

Women's romantic interest is eight percent of men's. The dating playbook needs a rewrite.

3.52

900

🎯 Male Dating Strategy 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 📱 Internet Dating

Why Women Deserve Less 87%

Women's romantic interest is eight percent of men's. The dating playbook needs a rewrite.

by Myron Gaines 2023

3.52

900 ratings

🎯 Male Dating Strategy 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 📱 Internet Dating

FUCCFILES

by Rian Stone • 2020

Ten years of being shot down taught one man the rules of attraction that actually work.

4.18

117

💘 Dating Strategies 💪 Masculinity 👩‍🔬 Female Psychology

FUCCFILES 87%

Ten years of being shot down taught one man the rules of attraction that actually work.

by Rian Stone 2020

4.18

117 ratings

💘 Dating Strategies 💪 Masculinity 👩‍🔬 Female Psychology

The Power of the Pussy (Part Two) - (Dating, Marriage, and Divorce Advice for Women)

by Kara King • 2013

Why men change after sex, and the simple timing rule that gives women back their leverage.

4.03

449

🎯 Dating Strategy 🚫 Sexual Boundaries ⚡ Power Dynamics

The Power of the Pussy (Part Two) - (Dating, Marriage, and Divorce Advice for Women) Summary

The Power of the Pussy (Part Two) - (Dating, Marriage, and Divorce Advice for Women) 87%

Why men change after sex, and the simple timing rule that gives women back their leverage.

by Kara King 2013

4.03

449 ratings

🎯 Dating Strategy 🚫 Sexual Boundaries ⚡ Power Dynamics

What Women Want When They Test Men

by Bruce Bryans • 2014

Women constantly test for backbone and heart. The honest response that builds attraction.

4.19

631

💕 Dating Advice 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🚧 Personal Boundaries

What Women Want When They Test Men Summary

What Women Want When They Test Men 87%

Women constantly test for backbone and heart. The honest response that builds attraction.

by Bruce Bryans 2014

4.19

631 ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🚧 Personal Boundaries

Get the Guy

by Matthew Hussey • 2013

A coach who trained 10,000 men reveals what actually makes them approach, commit, and stay.

3.97

5k+

💘 Dating Advice 🧠 Male Psychology 📱 Modern Dating

Get the Guy 87%

A coach who trained 10,000 men reveals what actually makes them approach, commit, and stay.

by Matthew Hussey 2013

3.97

5k+ ratings

💘 Dating Advice 🧠 Male Psychology 📱 Modern Dating

Alpha Male Strategies

by AMS Alpha Male Strategies • 2018

Purpose makes you irresistible. The playbook for attracting women without chasing them.

4.37

421

🗓️ Dating Advice 🎯 Pickup Artistry 💊 Red Pill

Alpha Male Strategies 87%

Purpose makes you irresistible. The playbook for attracting women without chasing them.

by AMS Alpha Male Strategies 2018

4.37

421 ratings

🗓️ Dating Advice 🎯 Pickup Artistry 💊 Red Pill

How to Make Someone Fall in Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less

by Nicholas Boothman • 2008

In 90 minutes: the body language, questions, and self-disclosure that spark real romantic chemistry.

3.53

308

🗓️ Dating Advice 🫱 Body Language 😉 Flirting Techniques

How to Make Someone Fall in Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less Summary

How to Make Someone Fall in Love With You in 90 Minutes or Less 87%

In 90 minutes: the body language, questions, and self-disclosure that spark real romantic chemistry.

by Nicholas Boothman 2008

3.53

308 ratings

🗓️ Dating Advice 🫱 Body Language 😉 Flirting Techniques

Ho Tactics

by G.L. Lambert • 2014

Most women auction their attention for dinner and Netflix. Here is the counteroffer.

3.92

816

🔝 Hypergamy 🎯 Seduction Tactics 💰 Sexual Economics

Ho Tactics 87%

Most women auction their attention for dinner and Netflix. Here is the counteroffer.

by G.L. Lambert 2014

3.92

816 ratings

🔝 Hypergamy 🎯 Seduction Tactics 💰 Sexual Economics

Dating Essentials for Men

by Robert A. Glover • 2019

Seek three rejections a week, lead every date, stop chasing. A therapist's formula for men.

4.21

742

🧔 Male Self-Help 💕 Dating Psychology 🗣️ Social Confidence

Dating Essentials for Men 87%

Seek three rejections a week, lead every date, stop chasing. A therapist's formula for men.

by Robert A. Glover 2019

4.21

742 ratings

🧔 Male Self-Help 💕 Dating Psychology 🗣️ Social Confidence

Models

by Mark Manson • 2011

The most attractive thing a man can do is stop trying to be attractive.

4.30

21k+

💕 Dating Advice 🎭 Vulnerability 💪 Social Confidence

Models 87%

The most attractive thing a man can do is stop trying to be attractive.

by Mark Manson 2011

4.30

21k+ ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🎭 Vulnerability 💪 Social Confidence

Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy

by Leslie Braswell • 2013

Your absence is your only leverage after a breakup. The strategy for using it.

4.09

1k+

💔 Breakup Recovery 💬 Dating Advice 🤫 Strategic Silence

Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy 87%

Your absence is your only leverage after a breakup. The strategy for using it.

by Leslie Braswell 2013

4.09

1k+ ratings

💔 Breakup Recovery 💬 Dating Advice 🤫 Strategic Silence

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