50 Books like Deal Breakers

Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl

by Natalie Lue • 2008

You chase unavailable men and settle for crumbs. Here is why, and how to stop.

4.23

991

☣️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Emotional Unavailability 🔗 Codependency 🏃 Commitment Phobia 💎 Self-Worth

Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl Summary

Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl 97%

You chase unavailable men and settle for crumbs. Here is why, and how to stop.

by Natalie Lue 2008

4.23

991 ratings

☣️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Emotional Unavailability 🔗 Codependency 🏃 Commitment Phobia 💎 Self-Worth

Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life

by David Hawkins • 2007

Five toxic personalities that distort your reality, and the boundary system for reclaiming it.

4.08

227

💔 Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🧠 Cognitive Distortions ⛓ Codependency

Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life Summary

Dealing with the CrazyMakers in Your Life 97%

Five toxic personalities that distort your reality, and the boundary system for reclaiming it.

by David Hawkins 2007

4.08

227 ratings

💔 Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🧠 Cognitive Distortions ⛓ Codependency

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags

by Natasha Burton • 2011

You spotted the warning signs early and ignored them. How to stop, from date one.

3.75

252

🚩 Red Flags 💌 Dating Advice 🧠 Trust Your Instincts 👑 Self-Respect 🕸️ Emotional Manipulation

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags Summary

The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags 96%

You spotted the warning signs early and ignored them. How to stop, from date one.

by Natasha Burton 2011

3.75

252 ratings

🚩 Red Flags 💌 Dating Advice 🧠 Trust Your Instincts 👑 Self-Respect 🕸️ Emotional Manipulation

The Manipulative Man

by Dorothy Mccoy • 2006

Classify the manipulator, spot his red flags, and enforce the boundaries that end the cycle.

3.89

188

🧨 Toxic Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse 🚩 Dating Safety 🪤 Manipulation Tactics 🧱 Setting Boundaries

The Manipulative Man 96%

Classify the manipulator, spot his red flags, and enforce the boundaries that end the cycle.

by Dorothy Mccoy 2006

3.89

188 ratings

🧨 Toxic Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse 🚩 Dating Safety 🪤 Manipulation Tactics 🧱 Setting Boundaries

The Human Magnet Syndrome

by Ross Rosenberg • 2013

That spark with a narcissist is a trauma bond, not love. Your childhood wired you that way.

3.99

2k+

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🩹 Codependency Recovery 💔 Narcissistic Abuse 🧒 Childhood Trauma 🎭 Personality Disorders

The Human Magnet Syndrome 96%

That spark with a narcissist is a trauma bond, not love. Your childhood wired you that way.

by Ross Rosenberg 2013

3.99

2k+ ratings

🧠 Relationship Psychology 🩹 Codependency Recovery 💔 Narcissistic Abuse 🧒 Childhood Trauma 🎭 Personality Disorders

Toxic People

by Lillian Glass • 1995

Ten concrete techniques for neutralizing toxic behavior, tailored to whoever is dishing it out.

3.52

460

☣️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Emotional Abuse 🗣️ Pop Psychology 📚 Self-Help Classics

Toxic People 96%

Ten concrete techniques for neutralizing toxic behavior, tailored to whoever is dishing it out.

by Lillian Glass 1995

3.52

460 ratings

☣️ Toxic Relationships 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Emotional Abuse 🗣️ Pop Psychology 📚 Self-Help Classics

Ghosted and Breadcrumbed

by Marni Feuerman • 2019

Why you keep choosing unavailable partners and the exact method to break the cycle for good.

4.09

230

🧠 Attachment Theory 🚫 Emotional Unavailability 🚩 Dating Red Flags 💖 Self-Worth In Dating 🚧 Boundary Setting

Ghosted and Breadcrumbed 96%

Why you keep choosing unavailable partners and the exact method to break the cycle for good.

by Marni Feuerman 2019

4.09

230 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 🚫 Emotional Unavailability 🚩 Dating Red Flags 💖 Self-Worth In Dating 🚧 Boundary Setting

Love Yourself First

by Krystle Laughter • 2020

Self-love isn't selfish: it's the standard that determines how everyone else treats you.

4.39

368

💔 Toxic Relationships ✝️ Christian Self-Help 🚧 Boundary Setting 💎 Self-Worth 🩹 Healing From Trauma

Love Yourself First 95%

Self-love isn't selfish: it's the standard that determines how everyone else treats you.

by Krystle Laughter 2020

4.39

368 ratings

💔 Toxic Relationships ✝️ Christian Self-Help 🚧 Boundary Setting 💎 Self-Worth 🩹 Healing From Trauma

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday

by Nick Viall • 2022

Stop the birthday text. Real dating rules for finding love without lying to yourself.

3.62

3k+

💔 Modern Dating 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧲 Dating Compatibility 💔 Breakup Recovery ☣️ Toxic Relationships

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday Summary

Don't Text Your Ex Happy Birthday 95%

Stop the birthday text. Real dating rules for finding love without lying to yourself.

by Nick Viall 2022

3.62

3k+ ratings

💔 Modern Dating 🚧 Boundary Setting 🧲 Dating Compatibility 💔 Breakup Recovery ☣️ Toxic Relationships

When Love Is a Lie - How the Narcissist Partner Uses Sex, Lies & Passive-Aggressive Manipulation to Fulfill His Relationship Agenda

by Zari L. Ballard • 2013

The charm is calculated. The chaos is intentional. The only exit is to stop answering.

3.93

455

🎭 Narcissistic Abuse ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🧠 Emotional Manipulation ⛓️ Trauma Bonding 🚧 Boundary Setting

When Love Is a Lie - How the Narcissist Partner Uses Sex, Lies & Passive-Aggressive Manipulation to Fulfill His Relationship Agenda Summary

When Love Is a Lie - How the Narcissist Partner Uses Sex, Lies & Passive-Aggressive Manipulation to Fulfill His Relationship Agenda 95%

The charm is calculated. The chaos is intentional. The only exit is to stop answering.

by Zari L. Ballard 2013

3.93

455 ratings

🎭 Narcissistic Abuse ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🧠 Emotional Manipulation ⛓️ Trauma Bonding 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Betrayal Bond

by Patrick J. Carnes • 1997

Destructive relationships create bonds as powerful as addiction. The proven path to breaking free.

4.33

1k+

🚫 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🔗 Relationship Addiction 🔄 Cycle Of Abuse 🧱 Boundary Setting

The Betrayal Bond 95%

Destructive relationships create bonds as powerful as addiction. The proven path to breaking free.

by Patrick J. Carnes 1997

4.33

1k+ ratings

🚫 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🔗 Relationship Addiction 🔄 Cycle Of Abuse 🧱 Boundary Setting

Healing from Toxic Relationships

by Stephanie Moulton Sarkis • 2022

Ten steps to cut ties, heal the damage, and stop attracting toxic partners.

4.18

567

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🛡️ Boundary Setting 💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🩹 Trauma Recovery

Healing from Toxic Relationships Summary

Healing from Toxic Relationships 95%

Ten steps to cut ties, heal the damage, and stop attracting toxic partners.

by Stephanie Moulton Sarkis 2022

4.18

567 ratings

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🛡️ Boundary Setting 💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🩹 Trauma Recovery

You’re Overthinking It

by Sabrina Alexis Bendory • 2023

Dating overthinking isn't intuition. It's self-sabotage wearing a convincing disguise.

4.13

248

💕 Dating Advice 🪞 Self-Worth In Dating 🔗 Attachment Patterns 🚧 Emotional Boundaries ⚠️ Toxic Relationships

You’re Overthinking It 95%

Dating overthinking isn't intuition. It's self-sabotage wearing a convincing disguise.

by Sabrina Alexis Bendory 2023

4.13

248 ratings

💕 Dating Advice 🪞 Self-Worth In Dating 🔗 Attachment Patterns 🚧 Emotional Boundaries ⚠️ Toxic Relationships

The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People

by Shahida Arabi • 2020

Highly sensitive people attract manipulators. Spot the tactics, break the chemistry, stay free.

3.85

4k+

🔗 Toxic Relationships 🎭 Manipulation Tactics 💔 Narcissistic Abuse 🛡️ Boundary Setting 🧠 High Sensitivity

The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People Summary

The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People 95%

Highly sensitive people attract manipulators. Spot the tactics, break the chemistry, stay free.

by Shahida Arabi 2020

3.85

4k+ ratings

🔗 Toxic Relationships 🎭 Manipulation Tactics 💔 Narcissistic Abuse 🛡️ Boundary Setting 🧠 High Sensitivity

Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships

by Laura Schlessinger • 2001

A no-excuses takedown of the ten behaviors couples use to sabotage their own happiness.

3.58

925

🗣️ Relationship Advice 💍 Marriage Counseling 🫵 No-Nonsense Guidance 🔧 Relationship Repair 🚧 Boundaries

Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships Summary

Ten Stupid Things Couples Do to Mess Up Their Relationships 95%

A no-excuses takedown of the ten behaviors couples use to sabotage their own happiness.

by Laura Schlessinger 2001

3.58

925 ratings

🗣️ Relationship Advice 💍 Marriage Counseling 🫵 No-Nonsense Guidance 🔧 Relationship Repair 🚧 Boundaries

When Loving Him Is Hurting You

by David Hawkins • 2017

Name the manipulation, set boundaries that hold, and rebuild a life you recognize.

4.29

436

💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🪞 Narcissistic Relationships ⛓️ Toxic Marriage 🔗 Trauma Bonding 🧱 Boundary Setting

When Loving Him Is Hurting You 95%

Name the manipulation, set boundaries that hold, and rebuild a life you recognize.

by David Hawkins 2017

4.29

436 ratings

💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🪞 Narcissistic Relationships ⛓️ Toxic Marriage 🔗 Trauma Bonding 🧱 Boundary Setting

13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do

by Amy Morin • 2023

Playing the martyr, keeping secrets: the mental habits that erode trust and what to do instead.

3.91

320

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔧 Relationship Repair 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🤝 Conflict Resolution 💪 Mental Strength

13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do Summary

13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do 95%

Playing the martyr, keeping secrets: the mental habits that erode trust and what to do instead.

by Amy Morin 2023

3.91

320 ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔧 Relationship Repair 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🤝 Conflict Resolution 💪 Mental Strength

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

by Ramani Durvasula • 2015

A psychologist's roadmap for surviving a narcissist: staying intact, or leaving without a scar.

4.45

2k+

💔 Narcissistic Abuse ⚠️ Toxic Relationships 💨 Gaslighting 🖤 Emotional Abuse 🚪 Leaving Relationships

Should I Stay or Should I Go? 95%

A psychologist's roadmap for surviving a narcissist: staying intact, or leaving without a scar.

by Ramani Durvasula 2015

4.45

2k+ ratings

💔 Narcissistic Abuse ⚠️ Toxic Relationships 💨 Gaslighting 🖤 Emotional Abuse 🚪 Leaving Relationships

¿Amar o depender?

by Walter Riso • 2003

When love feels like withdrawal, the solution isn't more love, but a fortified self.

4.10

3k+

💉 Love Addiction ⛓️ Emotional Dependency 🕊️ Detachment Practices 💔 Breakup Recovery 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

¿Amar o depender? 95%

When love feels like withdrawal, the solution isn't more love, but a fortified self.

by Walter Riso 2003

4.10

3k+ ratings

💉 Love Addiction ⛓️ Emotional Dependency 🕊️ Detachment Practices 💔 Breakup Recovery 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

A Woman's Influence

by Tony A. Gaskins • 2020

A former player reveals why men resist commitment and the boundaries that make them step up.

4.54

172

🧔 Understanding Men 💕 Dating Advice 💍 Marriage Advice 🚧 Relationship Boundaries ✝️ Christian Relationships

A Woman's Influence 95%

A former player reveals why men resist commitment and the boundaries that make them step up.

by Tony A. Gaskins 2020

4.54

172 ratings

🧔 Understanding Men 💕 Dating Advice 💍 Marriage Advice 🚧 Relationship Boundaries ✝️ Christian Relationships

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship

by Leslie Vernick • 2007

Learn to name a toxic relationship, speak up without guilt, and set boundaries that actually hold.

4.44

673

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Counseling 🎭 Emotional Manipulation

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship Summary

The Emotionally Destructive Relationship 95%

Learn to name a toxic relationship, speak up without guilt, and set boundaries that actually hold.

by Leslie Vernick 2007

4.44

673 ratings

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting ✝️ Christian Counseling 🎭 Emotional Manipulation

The Narcissist You Know

by Joseph Burgo • 2015

How to recognize and disarm seven types of narcissist, by understanding the shame behind them.

3.87

937

🧠 Narcissistic Personality Disorder 💔 Toxic Relationships 🛡️ Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting 👪 Narcissistic Parents

The Narcissist You Know 95%

How to recognize and disarm seven types of narcissist, by understanding the shame behind them.

by Joseph Burgo 2015

3.87

937 ratings

🧠 Narcissistic Personality Disorder 💔 Toxic Relationships 🛡️ Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting 👪 Narcissistic Parents

Women Who Love Psychopaths

by Sandra L. Brown • 2008

The brain chemistry that keeps capable women tethered to conscienceless men, and the path out.

4.20

386

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧠 Personality Disorders 💔 Emotional Abuse ⛓️ Trauma Bonds 🎭 Manipulation Tactics

Women Who Love Psychopaths 95%

The brain chemistry that keeps capable women tethered to conscienceless men, and the path out.

by Sandra L. Brown 2008

4.20

386 ratings

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧠 Personality Disorders 💔 Emotional Abuse ⛓️ Trauma Bonds 🎭 Manipulation Tactics

The Tactical Guide to Women

by Shawn T. Smith • 2017

Three traits predict a happy marriage, and why 18 months is the minimum to spot them.

4.41

777

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Men's Relationships 💑 Modern Dating 🔍 Partner Selection 🚩 Relationship Red Flags 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Tactical Guide to Women 95%

Three traits predict a happy marriage, and why 18 months is the minimum to spot them.

by Shawn T. Smith 2017

4.41

777 ratings

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Men's Relationships 💑 Modern Dating 🔍 Partner Selection 🚩 Relationship Red Flags 🚧 Boundary Setting

Narcissistic Lovers

by Cynthia Zayn • 2007

Worshipped, then discarded: recognize the cycle, break free, and rebuild on your own terms.

4.02

351

💔 Narcissistic Abuse ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🔗 Codependency 💡 Gaslighting

Narcissistic Lovers 95%

Worshipped, then discarded: recognize the cycle, break free, and rebuild on your own terms.

by Cynthia Zayn 2007

4.02

351 ratings

💔 Narcissistic Abuse ☣️ Toxic Relationships 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🔗 Codependency 💡 Gaslighting

Controlling People

by Patricia Evans • 2002

Controllers need to define you because they have no real self of their own.

3.91

1k+

🧌 Controlling Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🔍 External Validation 🕹️ Manipulation Tactics 🚧 Boundary Setting

Controlling People 95%

Controllers need to define you because they have no real self of their own.

by Patricia Evans 2002

3.91

1k+ ratings

🧌 Controlling Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🔍 External Validation 🕹️ Manipulation Tactics 🚧 Boundary Setting

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship

by Margalis Fjelstad • 2017

Your empathy made you a target. The recovery path for caretakers after a narcissistic relationship.

4.26

347

🔥 Narcissistic Abuse 🪢 Codependency Recovery 💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting 🪞 Self Esteem Rebuilding

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship Summary

Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship 95%

Your empathy made you a target. The recovery path for caretakers after a narcissistic relationship.

by Margalis Fjelstad 2017

4.26

347 ratings

🔥 Narcissistic Abuse 🪢 Codependency Recovery 💔 Emotional Abuse Recovery 🚧 Boundary Setting 🪞 Self Esteem Rebuilding

The Mindful Attraction Plan

by Athol Kay • 2013

Fix your body, your bank account, and your confidence. The relationship fixes itself.

4.10

242

🩹 Relationship Repair 💘 Attraction Dynamics 📋 Personal Accountability ⚡ Burnout Prevention 💪 Confidence Building

The Mindful Attraction Plan 95%

Fix your body, your bank account, and your confidence. The relationship fixes itself.

by Athol Kay 2013

4.10

242 ratings

🩹 Relationship Repair 💘 Attraction Dynamics 📋 Personal Accountability ⚡ Burnout Prevention 💪 Confidence Building

Things No One Taught Us About Love

by Vex King • 2024

Most people learn to love backwards. The real work starts with you, not them.

4.06

3k+

💑 Romantic Relationships 💖 Self-Love 🧘 Inner Work 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🔓 Vulnerability

Things No One Taught Us About Love Summary

Things No One Taught Us About Love 95%

Most people learn to love backwards. The real work starts with you, not them.

by Vex King 2024

4.06

3k+ ratings

💑 Romantic Relationships 💖 Self-Love 🧘 Inner Work 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🔓 Vulnerability

Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse

by Nicole Barrett • 2019

It leaves no bruises. Why you stayed, how the cycle traps you, and what recovery demands.

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse 💔 Toxic Relationships 🌫️ Gaslighting ⛓️ Trauma Bonding 🚧 Boundary Setting

Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse Summary

Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse 94%

It leaves no bruises. Why you stayed, how the cycle traps you, and what recovery demands.

by Nicole Barrett 2019

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse 💔 Toxic Relationships 🌫️ Gaslighting ⛓️ Trauma Bonding 🚧 Boundary Setting

Radical Acceptance

by Andrea Miller • 2017

Stop fixing him, start accepting him. The binary choice that ends relationship doubt for good.

3.66

166

🔧 Relationship Skills 🤝 Partner Acceptance 🧘 Emotional Regulation 💬 Communication Skills 💍 Commitment Decisions

Radical Acceptance 94%

Stop fixing him, start accepting him. The binary choice that ends relationship doubt for good.

by Andrea Miller 2017

3.66

166 ratings

🔧 Relationship Skills 🤝 Partner Acceptance 🧘 Emotional Regulation 💬 Communication Skills 💍 Commitment Decisions

Deeper Dating

by Ken Page • 2014

Hidden vulnerabilities, not polished pickup moves, attract the love that lasts.

3.99

552

🧠 Dating Psychology 💞 Authentic Connection 💝 Vulnerability In Dating 🔄 Relationship Patterns 🫂 Emotional Availability

Deeper Dating 94%

Hidden vulnerabilities, not polished pickup moves, attract the love that lasts.

by Ken Page 2014

3.99

552 ratings

🧠 Dating Psychology 💞 Authentic Connection 💝 Vulnerability In Dating 🔄 Relationship Patterns 🫂 Emotional Availability

1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships

by Marc Chernoff • 2021

The tiny habits that hold relationships together: presence, boundaries, and the self-worth to start.

3.76

255

💑 Relationship Advice 🗣️ Interpersonal Skills 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics 👯 Friendship 💎 Self-Worth

1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships Summary

1000+ Little Habits of Happy, Successful Relationships 94%

The tiny habits that hold relationships together: presence, boundaries, and the self-worth to start.

by Marc Chernoff 2021

3.76

255 ratings

💑 Relationship Advice 🗣️ Interpersonal Skills 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Dynamics 👯 Friendship 💎 Self-Worth

Unmasking Narcissism

by Mark Ettensohn • 2016

Recognize the two faces of narcissism, set boundaries that actually hold, and stop taking the bait.

4.04

679

🪞 Narcissism Guides 🧨 Toxic Relationships 🧠 Personality Disorders 🚧 Boundary Setting 🩹 Emotional Healing

Unmasking Narcissism 94%

Recognize the two faces of narcissism, set boundaries that actually hold, and stop taking the bait.

by Mark Ettensohn 2016

4.04

679 ratings

🪞 Narcissism Guides 🧨 Toxic Relationships 🧠 Personality Disorders 🚧 Boundary Setting 🩹 Emotional Healing

Unfuck Your Boundaries

by Faith G. Harper • 2020

Say no, mean it, and stop feeling guilty. The profane guide to boundaries that actually hold.

4.00

4k+

🧱 Boundary Setting 🤝 Consent Culture 🗣️ Assertive Communication 🔗 Attachment Theory ☣️ Toxic Relationships

Unfuck Your Boundaries 94%

Say no, mean it, and stop feeling guilty. The profane guide to boundaries that actually hold.

by Faith G. Harper 2020

4.00

4k+ ratings

🧱 Boundary Setting 🤝 Consent Culture 🗣️ Assertive Communication 🔗 Attachment Theory ☣️ Toxic Relationships

Dodging Energy Vampires

by Christiane Northrup • 2018

Why draining people make you physically sick, and the spiritual practice that makes you immune.

3.83

2k+

🧛 Toxic Relationships 💔 Narcissistic Abuse 🧘 High Sensitivity 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🧬 Mind Body Connection

Dodging Energy Vampires 94%

Why draining people make you physically sick, and the spiritual practice that makes you immune.

by Christiane Northrup 2018

3.83

2k+ ratings

🧛 Toxic Relationships 💔 Narcissistic Abuse 🧘 High Sensitivity 🚧 Emotional Boundaries 🧬 Mind Body Connection

If Only I'd Known

by Chelsey Brooke Cole • 2023

The trauma bond explains why leaving feels impossible. A repair manual for what comes next.

4.51

300

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse ☠️ Toxic Relationships ⛓️ Trauma Bonding 🧸 Inner Child Healing 🚧 Boundary Setting

If Only I'd Known 94%

The trauma bond explains why leaving feels impossible. A repair manual for what comes next.

by Chelsey Brooke Cole 2023

4.51

300 ratings

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse ☠️ Toxic Relationships ⛓️ Trauma Bonding 🧸 Inner Child Healing 🚧 Boundary Setting

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

by Mira Kirshenbaum • 1996

Stuck between staying and leaving? Diagnostic questions that answer what love alone cannot.

4.19

4k+

🌀 Relationship Ambivalence 💔 Divorce Contemplation 💀 Toxic Relationship Patterns 📋 Self-Assessment Tools 🗣️ Communication Breakdown

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay Summary

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay 94%

Stuck between staying and leaving? Diagnostic questions that answer what love alone cannot.

by Mira Kirshenbaum 1996

4.19

4k+ ratings

🌀 Relationship Ambivalence 💔 Divorce Contemplation 💀 Toxic Relationship Patterns 📋 Self-Assessment Tools 🗣️ Communication Breakdown

Toxic People

by Tim Cantopher • 2017

Why you attract draining people, and the boundary skills that finally keep them out.

3.74

405

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧱 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🛡️ Emotional Resilience 🎭 Manipulation Tactics

Toxic People 94%

Why you attract draining people, and the boundary skills that finally keep them out.

by Tim Cantopher 2017

3.74

405 ratings

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧱 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🛡️ Emotional Resilience 🎭 Manipulation Tactics

Who's Pulling Your Strings?

by Harriet B. Braiker • 1955

Your need to be liked is their lever. The resistance tactics that make manipulation fail.

4.07

823

🛡️ Emotional Manipulation ☣️ Toxic Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse 🚧 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Assertiveness Training

Who's Pulling Your Strings? 94%

Your need to be liked is their lever. The resistance tactics that make manipulation fail.

by Harriet B. Braiker 1955

4.07

823 ratings

🛡️ Emotional Manipulation ☣️ Toxic Relationships 💔 Emotional Abuse 🚧 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Assertiveness Training

The New Codependency

by Melody Beattie • 2008

Vanishing into other people is not love. The updated guide for boundaries that keep you here.

3.92

2k+

🧩 Codependency 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Family Dysfunction 🎭 Emotional Repression 🍃 Letting Go

The New Codependency 94%

Vanishing into other people is not love. The updated guide for boundaries that keep you here.

by Melody Beattie 2008

3.92

2k+ ratings

🧩 Codependency 🚧 Boundary Setting 💔 Family Dysfunction 🎭 Emotional Repression 🍃 Letting Go

The Rules of Love

by Richard Templar • 2008

Before you find the one, become the one. Twelve rules for love that outlasts the lust.

3.88

2k+

💕 Romantic Relationships 🧘 Self-Sufficiency 🛡️ Emotional Readiness 🔄 Pattern Breaking 🚧 Boundaries

The Rules of Love 94%

Before you find the one, become the one. Twelve rules for love that outlasts the lust.

by Richard Templar 2008

3.88

2k+ ratings

💕 Romantic Relationships 🧘 Self-Sufficiency 🛡️ Emotional Readiness 🔄 Pattern Breaking 🚧 Boundaries

How to Deal with Toxic People

by Gregory L. Jantz • 2021

Toxic people will not change just because you forgive them. Pairing grace with backbone.

3.76

218

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧱 Boundary Setting 🎭 People-Pleasing 🗣️ Conflict Communication ✝️ Christian Counseling

How to Deal with Toxic People 94%

Toxic people will not change just because you forgive them. Pairing grace with backbone.

by Gregory L. Jantz 2021

3.76

218 ratings

🧪 Toxic Relationships 🧱 Boundary Setting 🎭 People-Pleasing 🗣️ Conflict Communication ✝️ Christian Counseling

Cómo mandar a la mierda de forma educada

by Alba Cardalda • 2023

Stop being a yes person. A psychologist's step-by-step system for boundaries that actually hold.

3.88

3k+

🧱 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🎭 People Pleasing ⚠️ Toxic Relationships 😔 Guilt And Shame

Cómo mandar a la mierda de forma educada Summary

Cómo mandar a la mierda de forma educada 94%

Stop being a yes person. A psychologist's step-by-step system for boundaries that actually hold.

by Alba Cardalda 2023

3.88

3k+ ratings

🧱 Boundary Setting 🗣️ Assertiveness Training 🎭 People Pleasing ⚠️ Toxic Relationships 😔 Guilt And Shame

Breakup Bootcamp

by Amy Chan • 2020

Decode the attachment wounds your breakup exposed before you pick the next one.

4.18

867

🫀 Breakup Recovery 🧸 Attachment Theory 💬 Dating Advice 🤲 Self-Compassion 🧠 Inner Critic Work

Breakup Bootcamp 94%

Decode the attachment wounds your breakup exposed before you pick the next one.

by Amy Chan 2020

4.18

867 ratings

🫀 Breakup Recovery 🧸 Attachment Theory 💬 Dating Advice 🤲 Self-Compassion 🧠 Inner Critic Work

Healing from Hidden Abuse

by Shannon Thomas • 2016

Six stages out of covert abuse: spot gaslighting, set boundaries, rebuild a life that's yours.

4.36

3k+

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by Shannon Thomas 2016

4.36

3k+ ratings

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by Richard Banks • 2023

Spot the manipulation tactics, exit the narcissist's cycle, and reclaim the confidence they broke.

5.00

🪞 Narcissistic Abuse 💔 Toxic Relationships 🕯️ Gaslighting 🎭 Emotional Manipulation 🚧 Boundary Setting

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The Narcissist’s Hall of Mirrors 94%

Spot the manipulation tactics, exit the narcissist's cycle, and reclaim the confidence they broke.

by Richard Banks 2023

5.00

1 ratings

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by Henry Cloud • 1995

Say no without losing connection: a biblical path from guilt to freedom.

4.32

1k+

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Boundaries 94%

Say no without losing connection: a biblical path from guilt to freedom.

by Henry Cloud 1995

4.32

1k+ ratings

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Whole Again

by Jackson MacKenzie • 2019

The wound lives in your body. A protocol for healing what talk therapy cannot touch.

4.19

4k+

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Whole Again 94%

The wound lives in your body. A protocol for healing what talk therapy cannot touch.

by Jackson MacKenzie 2019

4.19

4k+ ratings

🧨 Toxic Relationships 🩹 Trauma Recovery 🧘 Somatic Healing 💗 Self-Compassion 😔 Shame And Guilt

Love Lost, Love Found

by Tatiana Jerome • 2017

Heal the breakup, rebuild your standards, and open your heart again: the full recovery roadmap.

3.63

115

💔 Breakup Recovery 🧘 Self-Care Routines 💪 Emotional Resilience 🚧 Boundary Setting 🙏 Gratitude Practice

Love Lost, Love Found 94%

Heal the breakup, rebuild your standards, and open your heart again: the full recovery roadmap.

by Tatiana Jerome 2017

3.63

115 ratings

💔 Breakup Recovery 🧘 Self-Care Routines 💪 Emotional Resilience 🚧 Boundary Setting 🙏 Gratitude Practice

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