⚡ Intimacy And Desire

Books that probe the complex interplay between emotional closeness and erotic longing, exploring why desire sometimes thrives on distance and sometimes on depth.

Love Worth Making

by Stephen Snyder • 2018

Great sex isn't technique. It's a selfish, childlike part of you that wants to be enjoyed.

4.15

1k+

🔥 Sexual Desire 🏠 Monogamy 🫂 Vulnerability 🪞 Self-Acceptance 🛋️ Sex Therapy

Love Worth Making 89%

Great sex isn't technique. It's a selfish, childlike part of you that wants to be enjoyed.

by Stephen Snyder 2018

4.15

1k+ ratings

🔥 Sexual Desire 🏠 Monogamy 🫂 Vulnerability 🪞 Self-Acceptance 🛋️ Sex Therapy

Mating in Captivity

by Esther Perel • 2006

Love wants closeness. Lust wants distance. A couples therapist on the clash that deadens bedrooms.

4.17

50k+

🔥 Erotic Desire 💑 Couples Therapy 🔑 Sexual Autonomy 🌙 Fantasy And Desire 💔 Infidelity

Mating in Captivity 89%

Love wants closeness. Lust wants distance. A couples therapist on the clash that deadens bedrooms.

by Esther Perel 2006

4.17

50k+ ratings

🔥 Erotic Desire 💑 Couples Therapy 🔑 Sexual Autonomy 🌙 Fantasy And Desire 💔 Infidelity

Want

by Gillian Anderson • 2024

Women's secret sexual fantasies, from their own anonymous letters: a map of hidden desire.

3.37

23k+

🔥 Female Desire 🤫 Sexual Fantasies 🧠 Psychology Of Sexuality 🗣️ Sexual Shame ⛓️ Kink And Fetish

Want 89%

Women's secret sexual fantasies, from their own anonymous letters: a map of hidden desire.

by Gillian Anderson 2024

3.37

23k+ ratings

🔥 Female Desire 🤫 Sexual Fantasies 🧠 Psychology Of Sexuality 🗣️ Sexual Shame ⛓️ Kink And Fetish

Passionate Marriage

by David Schnarch • 1997

Lasting passion requires selfhood more than skill. Your sexual prime arrives in midlife, not youth.

4.15

3k+

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔥 Sexual Intimacy 💍 Long-Term Relationships 🪞 Selfhood In Relationships 🧠 Psychological Intimacy

Passionate Marriage 88%

Lasting passion requires selfhood more than skill. Your sexual prime arrives in midlife, not youth.

by David Schnarch 1997

4.15

3k+ ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔥 Sexual Intimacy 💍 Long-Term Relationships 🪞 Selfhood In Relationships 🧠 Psychological Intimacy

Intimacy & Desire

by David Schnarch • 2009

Desire fades when growth stops. The bedroom is just the first place it shows up.

4.21

466

🔥 Sexual Desire 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🧱 Differentiation 💘 Rekindling Desire 🕸️ Family Systems

Intimacy & Desire 88%

Desire fades when growth stops. The bedroom is just the first place it shows up.

by David Schnarch 2009

4.21

466 ratings

🔥 Sexual Desire 🛋️ Couples Therapy 🧱 Differentiation 💘 Rekindling Desire 🕸️ Family Systems

Eleven Minutes

by Paulo Coelho • 2003

A Brazilian prostitute in Geneva meets a painter who sees her soul, not her body.

3.72

192k+

🔮 Philosophical Romance 🎨 Artist And Muse ✨ Sacred Sexuality 💼 Sex Work Narrative ⚡ Power And Desire

Eleven Minutes 88%

A Brazilian prostitute in Geneva meets a painter who sees her soul, not her body.

by Paulo Coelho 2003

3.72

192k+ ratings

🔮 Philosophical Romance 🎨 Artist And Muse ✨ Sacred Sexuality 💼 Sex Work Narrative ⚡ Power And Desire

The Heart of Tantric Sex

by Diana Richardson • 2003

Fifteen hours of orgasm across a lifetime. Real ecstasy arrives when you stop chasing the peak.

4.01

735

🕉️ Sacred Sexuality 🧘 Modern Tantra ⚡ Sexual Energy Work 🌸 Female Arousal 💞 Embodied Intimacy

The Heart of Tantric Sex 88%

Fifteen hours of orgasm across a lifetime. Real ecstasy arrives when you stop chasing the peak.

by Diana Richardson 2003

4.01

735 ratings

🕉️ Sacred Sexuality 🧘 Modern Tantra ⚡ Sexual Energy Work 🌸 Female Arousal 💞 Embodied Intimacy

Intimacy

by Ita O'Brien • 2026

An intimacy coordinator's guide to embodiment: how presence and clear boundaries unlock real desire.

3.52

🫂 Intimacy Coaching 🦶 Embodiment 🤝 Consent Culture ✨ Sex Positivity 🚧 Boundary Setting

Intimacy 88%

An intimacy coordinator's guide to embodiment: how presence and clear boundaries unlock real desire.

by Ita O'Brien 2026

3.52

81 ratings

🫂 Intimacy Coaching 🦶 Embodiment 🤝 Consent Culture ✨ Sex Positivity 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Power of Divine Eros

by A.H. Almaas • 2013

Desire isn't your obstacle to awakening. It's the path, and sex is its most direct route.

4.07

📿 Sacred Sexuality 🧘 Embodied Spirituality 🔍 Spiritual Psychology 🕳️ Depth Psychology ☯️ Nondual Spirituality

The Power of Divine Eros 88%

Desire isn't your obstacle to awakening. It's the path, and sex is its most direct route.

by A.H. Almaas 2013

4.07

59 ratings

📿 Sacred Sexuality 🧘 Embodied Spirituality 🔍 Spiritual Psychology 🕳️ Depth Psychology ☯️ Nondual Spirituality

Dear Lover

by David Deida • 2002

Love's deepest bliss requires a discipline of staying open that draws a man into his full integrity.

3.81

1k+

🧲 Sexual Polarity 🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 🙏 Spiritual Intimacy 🌸 Feminine Energy ॐ Modern Tantra

Dear Lover 88%

Love's deepest bliss requires a discipline of staying open that draws a man into his full integrity.

by David Deida 2002

3.81

1k+ ratings

🧲 Sexual Polarity 🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 🙏 Spiritual Intimacy 🌸 Feminine Energy ॐ Modern Tantra

Rekindling Desire

by Barry W. McCarthy • 2003

A couples program for low-desire marriages: why pressure-free touch rekindles what talking cannot.

3.86

🧩 Desire Discrepancy 🛋️ Couples Therapy 💞 Intimacy Building 💬 Sexual Communication 😰 Performance Anxiety

Rekindling Desire 88%

A couples program for low-desire marriages: why pressure-free touch rekindles what talking cannot.

by Barry W. McCarthy 2003

3.86

95 ratings

🧩 Desire Discrepancy 🛋️ Couples Therapy 💞 Intimacy Building 💬 Sexual Communication 😰 Performance Anxiety

Better Sex Through Mindfulness

by Lori A. Brotto • 2018

Desire often follows arousal, not the reverse. Mindfulness exercises that help women close that gap.

4.02

963

🧠 Female Desire 💫 Sexual Wellness 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🔗 Mind-Body Connection 💔 Sexual Pain

Better Sex Through Mindfulness 88%

Desire often follows arousal, not the reverse. Mindfulness exercises that help women close that gap.

by Lori A. Brotto 2018

4.02

963 ratings

🧠 Female Desire 💫 Sexual Wellness 🧘 Mindfulness Practice 🔗 Mind-Body Connection 💔 Sexual Pain

Slow Sex

by Nicole Daedone • 2011

Fifteen minutes, one fingertip, no goal. The practice that proves orgasm isn't climax.

3.77

1k+

💗 Sexual Wellness 🌺 Female Sexuality 🧘 Mindful Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌊 Female Orgasm

Slow Sex 88%

Fifteen minutes, one fingertip, no goal. The practice that proves orgasm isn't climax.

by Nicole Daedone 2011

3.77

1k+ ratings

💗 Sexual Wellness 🌺 Female Sexuality 🧘 Mindful Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌊 Female Orgasm

Slow Sex

by Diana Richardson • 2011

End the race to orgasm. Relax into sex so mindful it heals and becomes spiritual practice.

3.61

365

🕯️ Conscious Sexuality 🧘 Neo-Tantra ❤️ Sexual Intimacy ⚡ Polarity Work 🩹 Healing Through Intimacy

Slow Sex 88%

End the race to orgasm. Relax into sex so mindful it heals and becomes spiritual practice.

by Diana Richardson 2011

3.61

365 ratings

🕯️ Conscious Sexuality 🧘 Neo-Tantra ❤️ Sexual Intimacy ⚡ Polarity Work 🩹 Healing Through Intimacy

Mind The Gap

by Karen Gurney • 2020

The science of desire that closes the gap between your real sex life and the fantasy.

4.20

981

🚺 Female Sexuality 💔 Mismatched Desire 🧘‍♀️ Mindful Sex 💍 Desire In Couples 💖 Self-Compassion

Mind The Gap 88%

The science of desire that closes the gap between your real sex life and the fantasy.

by Karen Gurney 2020

4.20

981 ratings

🚺 Female Sexuality 💔 Mismatched Desire 🧘‍♀️ Mindful Sex 💍 Desire In Couples 💖 Self-Compassion

Tell Me What You Want

by Justin J. Lehmiller • 2018

Nearly every sexual fantasy turns out to be common. The real dysfunction is hiding from desire.

3.82

1k+

🔬 Sex Research 💭 Sexual Fantasy 😔 Sexual Shame 🎢 Relationship Novelty 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Tell Me What You Want 88%

Nearly every sexual fantasy turns out to be common. The real dysfunction is hiding from desire.

by Justin J. Lehmiller 2018

3.82

1k+ ratings

🔬 Sex Research 💭 Sexual Fantasy 😔 Sexual Shame 🎢 Relationship Novelty 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom

by John Gray • 1995

Why men and women misfire in bed, and the timing and touch fixes that restore passion.

3.83

3k+

🛠️ Sexual Technique ♂️♀️ Gender Differences ✨ Female Arousal 💍 Marriage And Intimacy 💬 Relationship Communication

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom 88%

Why men and women misfire in bed, and the timing and touch fixes that restore passion.

by John Gray 1995

3.83

3k+ ratings

🛠️ Sexual Technique ♂️♀️ Gender Differences ✨ Female Arousal 💍 Marriage And Intimacy 💬 Relationship Communication

5 Sex Languages

by Douglas Weiss • 2016

Your partner's sexual brain works differently than yours. A therapist's map for making the two meet.

4.19

🏠 Marriage Enrichment 💞 Sexual Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Desire Differences 🚧 Intimacy Avoidance

5 Sex Languages 88%

Your partner's sexual brain works differently than yours. A therapist's map for making the two meet.

by Douglas Weiss 2016

4.19

16 ratings

🏠 Marriage Enrichment 💞 Sexual Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Desire Differences 🚧 Intimacy Avoidance

What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire

by Daniel Bergner • 2013

The machines don't lie: women's desire is far more indiscriminate than we admit.

3.60

2k+

🎯 Female Desire 🔬 Sex Research ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism 💔 Monogamy And Desire ⚖️ Sexual Double Standards

What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire Summary

What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire 88%

The machines don't lie: women's desire is far more indiscriminate than we admit.

by Daniel Bergner 2013

3.60

2k+ ratings

🎯 Female Desire 🔬 Sex Research ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism 💔 Monogamy And Desire ⚖️ Sexual Double Standards

The Enlightened Sex Manual

by David Deida • 2004

Sex as spiritual practice: breath and energy techniques that turn pleasure into full-body awakening.

4.07

908

🧘 Tantric Sex ⚡ Energy Work 🌬️ Breathwork 💚 Sexual Healing 💞 Intimacy Practices

The Enlightened Sex Manual 88%

Sex as spiritual practice: breath and energy techniques that turn pleasure into full-body awakening.

by David Deida 2004

4.07

908 ratings

🧘 Tantric Sex ⚡ Energy Work 🌬️ Breathwork 💚 Sexual Healing 💞 Intimacy Practices

Your Brain on Sex

by Stanley Siegel • 2011

What you find hottest is a coded message from your childhood. Decoding it changes everything.

3.97

122

💭 Sexual Fantasies 🛌 Sexual Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Sustaining Desire

Your Brain on Sex 87%

What you find hottest is a coded message from your childhood. Decoding it changes everything.

by Stanley Siegel 2011

3.97

122 ratings

💭 Sexual Fantasies 🛌 Sexual Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Sustaining Desire

Sex Without Stress

by Jessa Zimmerman • 2018

The spiral of avoidance and pressure kills sex. One 10-minute exercise can reverse it, together.

4.17

173

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔬 Sex Therapy ⚖️ Desire Discrepancy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌈 Sex Positivity

Sex Without Stress 87%

The spiral of avoidance and pressure kills sex. One 10-minute exercise can reverse it, together.

by Jessa Zimmerman 2018

4.17

173 ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔬 Sex Therapy ⚖️ Desire Discrepancy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌈 Sex Positivity

Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again

by Katherine Angel • 2021

Consent asks women to know what they want before anything starts. Desire doesn't work that way.

4.06

6k+

🏛️ Sexual Ethics 🔍 Consent Critique 🌺 Female Desire 🫂 Sexual Vulnerability 🌓 Sexual Ambivalence

Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again 87%

Consent asks women to know what they want before anything starts. Desire doesn't work that way.

by Katherine Angel 2021

4.06

6k+ ratings

🏛️ Sexual Ethics 🔍 Consent Critique 🌺 Female Desire 🫂 Sexual Vulnerability 🌓 Sexual Ambivalence

The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire • 2012

Commitment is the real aphrodisiac. A practical guide to sex that Christian wives actually enjoy.

4.20

2k+

✝️ Christian Sexuality 💒 Christian Marriage 🌸 Female Desire 💞 Sexual Intimacy 🕊️ Overcoming Shame

The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex Summary

The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex 87%

Commitment is the real aphrodisiac. A practical guide to sex that Christian wives actually enjoy.

by Sheila Wray Gregoire 2012

4.20

2k+ ratings

✝️ Christian Sexuality 💒 Christian Marriage 🌸 Female Desire 💞 Sexual Intimacy 🕊️ Overcoming Shame

Sheet Music

by Kevin Leman • 2002

The bedroom conversation Christian couples avoid: what your spouse needs and why it matters.

4.07

8k+

🏠 Christian Marriage 💑 Marital Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 📖 Biblical Sexuality ✝️ Christian Counseling

Sheet Music 87%

The bedroom conversation Christian couples avoid: what your spouse needs and why it matters.

by Kevin Leman 2002

4.07

8k+ ratings

🏠 Christian Marriage 💑 Marital Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 📖 Biblical Sexuality ✝️ Christian Counseling

Resurrecting Sex

by David Schnarch • 2002

Better sex comes not from technique or pills but from becoming someone who can tolerate discomfort.

4.04

157

🍑 Sexual Desire 💞 Long-Term Relationships 💍 Married Sex ⚡ Anxiety And Arousal 🩺 Sexual Dysfunction

Resurrecting Sex 87%

Better sex comes not from technique or pills but from becoming someone who can tolerate discomfort.

by David Schnarch 2002

4.04

157 ratings

🍑 Sexual Desire 💞 Long-Term Relationships 💍 Married Sex ⚡ Anxiety And Arousal 🩺 Sexual Dysfunction

You Could Be Having Better Sex

by Nicole McNichols • 2026

Great sex is a skill. Master the pleasure cycle, honest talk, and outgrow mediocre sex.

4.24

102

🧘 Sexual Wellness 🧠 Desire Mechanics 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🔥 Long-Term Desire ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

You Could Be Having Better Sex 87%

Great sex is a skill. Master the pleasure cycle, honest talk, and outgrow mediocre sex.

by Nicole McNichols 2026

4.24

102 ratings

🧘 Sexual Wellness 🧠 Desire Mechanics 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🔥 Long-Term Desire ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

Come As You Are

by Emily Nagoski • 2015

The science of female desire overturns the dominant story. Your body works; learn what blocks it.

4.28

88k+

🚺 Female Sexuality 😰 Stress And Desire 💜 Body Acceptance ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism 🧠 Neuroscience Of Sex

Come As You Are 87%

The science of female desire overturns the dominant story. Your body works; learn what blocks it.

by Emily Nagoski 2015

4.28

88k+ ratings

🚺 Female Sexuality 😰 Stress And Desire 💜 Body Acceptance ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism 🧠 Neuroscience Of Sex

Love Relations

by Otto F. Kernberg • 1998

Aggression is built into love from infancy. Mature love means holding both forces at once.

4.02

195

🛋️ Psychoanalytic Theory 🧱 Object Relations 💕 Psychology Of Love 🔥 Erotic Desire 🪞 Narcissism And Love

Love Relations 87%

Aggression is built into love from infancy. Mature love means holding both forces at once.

by Otto F. Kernberg 1998

4.02

195 ratings

🛋️ Psychoanalytic Theory 🧱 Object Relations 💕 Psychology Of Love 🔥 Erotic Desire 🪞 Narcissism And Love

Sex Talks

by Vanessa Marin • 2023

Desire fades when talking stops. Five conversations that bring it back, awkwardness and all.

4.28

4k+

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Therapy 🧱 Intimacy Building 📚 Sex Education ⚖️ Desire Mismatch

Sex Talks 87%

Desire fades when talking stops. Five conversations that bring it back, awkwardness and all.

by Vanessa Marin 2023

4.28

4k+ ratings

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Therapy 🧱 Intimacy Building 📚 Sex Education ⚖️ Desire Mismatch

An Introduction To Tantra And Sacred Sexuality

by Michael Mirdad • 2008

Ancient tantric wisdom: how presence, ritual, and energy circulation turn sex into a spiritual path.

3.87

🧘 Tantric Practices 🙏 Spiritual Intimacy ⚡ Energy Work 🩹 Sexual Healing 🧠 Mindful Sex

An Introduction To Tantra And Sacred Sexuality Summary

An Introduction To Tantra And Sacred Sexuality 87%

Ancient tantric wisdom: how presence, ritual, and energy circulation turn sex into a spiritual path.

by Michael Mirdad 2008

3.87

31 ratings

🧘 Tantric Practices 🙏 Spiritual Intimacy ⚡ Energy Work 🩹 Sexual Healing 🧠 Mindful Sex

We Do

by PsyD Stan Tatkin • 2018

A relationship system that shields you both from the world and from your own worst instincts.

4.18

493

🧠 Attachment Theory 💑 Couples Therapy 🛡️ Emotional Safety ⚔️ Conflict Resolution 🧭 Negativity Bias

We Do 87%

A relationship system that shields you both from the world and from your own worst instincts.

by PsyD Stan Tatkin 2018

4.18

493 ratings

🧠 Attachment Theory 💑 Couples Therapy 🛡️ Emotional Safety ⚔️ Conflict Resolution 🧭 Negativity Bias

Sounds Fake But Okay

by Sarah Costello • 2023

Remove attraction from the center, and relationships, romance, and sex look entirely different.

3.66

1k+

🖤 Asexuality 💚 Aromanticism 💛 Platonic Intimacy 🔀 Relationship Anarchy 📚 Queer Theory

Sounds Fake But Okay 87%

Remove attraction from the center, and relationships, romance, and sex look entirely different.

by Sarah Costello 2023

3.66

1k+ ratings

🖤 Asexuality 💚 Aromanticism 💛 Platonic Intimacy 🔀 Relationship Anarchy 📚 Queer Theory

The Erotic Mind

by Jack Morin • 1995

Your hottest turn-ons are not perversions; they are ingenious attempts to heal your oldest wounds.

4.23

1k+

🧠 Erotic Psychology 🩹 Sexual Healing 🔮 Fantasy Exploration 🏺 Depth Psychology ✨ Sex-Positive Therapy

The Erotic Mind 87%

Your hottest turn-ons are not perversions; they are ingenious attempts to heal your oldest wounds.

by Jack Morin 1995

4.23

1k+ ratings

🧠 Erotic Psychology 🩹 Sexual Healing 🔮 Fantasy Exploration 🏺 Depth Psychology ✨ Sex-Positive Therapy

Taking Sexy Back

by Alexandra H. Solomon • 2020

Your sex drive isn't broken. The instruction manual was just written for someone else's body.

4.13

311

🐚 Female Sexuality 💪 Sexual Empowerment 🔥 Desire And Arousal 🧘 Sexual Mindfulness 🪞 Body Image

Taking Sexy Back 87%

Your sex drive isn't broken. The instruction manual was just written for someone else's body.

by Alexandra H. Solomon 2020

4.13

311 ratings

🐚 Female Sexuality 💪 Sexual Empowerment 🔥 Desire And Arousal 🧘 Sexual Mindfulness 🪞 Body Image

The Joy of Sex

by Alex Comfort • 1972

A couple's manual for erotic skill, honest talk, and the play that deepens with every decade.

3.62

3k+

🛠️ Sexual Technique ✨ Sex Positivity 🕰️ Aging And Sexuality 💬 Sexual Communication 🎭 Erotic Play

The Joy of Sex 87%

A couple's manual for erotic skill, honest talk, and the play that deepens with every decade.

by Alex Comfort 1972

3.62

3k+ ratings

🛠️ Sexual Technique ✨ Sex Positivity 🕰️ Aging And Sexuality 💬 Sexual Communication 🎭 Erotic Play

Sexual Ecstasy

by Margot Anand • 2000

Full-body orgasm, lasting up to twenty minutes: a practical training for men and women.

3.79

🧘 Sexual Wellness ✨ Sacred Sexuality 🔥 Modern Tantra 💞 Conscious Intimacy 💫 Orgasm Techniques

Sexual Ecstasy 87%

Full-body orgasm, lasting up to twenty minutes: a practical training for men and women.

by Margot Anand 2000

3.79

34 ratings

🧘 Sexual Wellness ✨ Sacred Sexuality 🔥 Modern Tantra 💞 Conscious Intimacy 💫 Orgasm Techniques

The Come as You Are Workbook

by Emily Nagoski • 2019

Science-backed exercises mapping sexual response and clearing what blocks your path to pleasure.

4.19

383

🌸 Women's Sexuality 🧘 Sexual Wellbeing 💖 Body Acceptance 📜 Cultural Scripts 🛋️ Modern Sex Therapy

The Come as You Are Workbook 87%

Science-backed exercises mapping sexual response and clearing what blocks your path to pleasure.

by Emily Nagoski 2019

4.19

383 ratings

🌸 Women's Sexuality 🧘 Sexual Wellbeing 💖 Body Acceptance 📜 Cultural Scripts 🛋️ Modern Sex Therapy

Conversations on Love

by Natasha Lunn • 2021

Love is a skill you build, not a feeling you chase. Conversations across romance, friendship, loss.

4.20

48k+

🧠 Psychology Of Love 💌 Modern Love 🔧 Love As A Skill 🫂 Vulnerability 💞 Emotional Intimacy

Conversations on Love 87%

Love is a skill you build, not a feeling you chase. Conversations across romance, friendship, loss.

by Natasha Lunn 2021

4.20

48k+ ratings

🧠 Psychology Of Love 💌 Modern Love 🔧 Love As A Skill 🫂 Vulnerability 💞 Emotional Intimacy

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition

by Eve Kingsley • 2008

Pleasure she can't ask for: introduce dominance through dirty talk, safe words, reading her signals.

3.33

163

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Sexuality 💬 Dirty Talk 😳 Sexual Shame ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition Summary

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition 87%

Pleasure she can't ask for: introduce dominance through dirty talk, safe words, reading her signals.

by Eve Kingsley 2008

3.33

163 ratings

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Sexuality 💬 Dirty Talk 😳 Sexual Shame ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

February

by Audrey Carlan • 2015

A French artist hires an escort as his muse, turning their charged intimacy into something real.

3.77

16k+

🫦 Escort Romance 🎨 Artist's Muse 🏠 Forced Proximity 🫂 Intimacy As Therapy ⏳ Brief Encounter

February 87%

A French artist hires an escort as his muse, turning their charged intimacy into something real.

by Audrey Carlan 2015

3.77

16k+ ratings

🫦 Escort Romance 🎨 Artist's Muse 🏠 Forced Proximity 🫂 Intimacy As Therapy ⏳ Brief Encounter

Tantric Love

by Diana Richardson • 2009

Love is a steady state, not a fleeting emotion. Your storms are old pain in disguise.

4.53

🕉️ Tantric Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 💧 Emotional Release Work 🧍 Somatic Awareness 🧘 Present-Moment Awareness

Tantric Love 87%

Love is a steady state, not a fleeting emotion. Your storms are old pain in disguise.

by Diana Richardson 2009

4.53

30 ratings

🕉️ Tantric Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 💧 Emotional Release Work 🧍 Somatic Awareness 🧘 Present-Moment Awareness

How To Think More About Sex

by Alain de Botton • 2012

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

3.47

6k+

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

How To Think More About Sex 87%

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

by Alain de Botton 2012

3.47

6k+ ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

The Soul of Sex

by Thomas Moore • 1998

Beyond biology: how myth, imagination, and everyday beauty reveal the spiritual depths of sex.

3.94

639

🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 🏛️ Erotic Philosophy 🏺 Archetypal Psychology 🌌 Erotic Imagination 🧘 Mindful Sexuality

The Soul of Sex 87%

Beyond biology: how myth, imagination, and everyday beauty reveal the spiritual depths of sex.

by Thomas Moore 1998

3.94

639 ratings

🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 🏛️ Erotic Philosophy 🏺 Archetypal Psychology 🌌 Erotic Imagination 🧘 Mindful Sexuality

Through a Man's Eyes

by Shaunti Feldhahn • 2015

His first glance is involuntary. Understanding that rewires a marriage from suspicion to safety.

3.75

274

⛪ Christian Marriage 💑 Marital Intimacy ⚔️ Sexual Temptation 🧠 Neuroscience Of Desire 🛡️ Emotional Safety

Through a Man's Eyes 87%

His first glance is involuntary. Understanding that rewires a marriage from suspicion to safety.

by Shaunti Feldhahn 2015

3.75

274 ratings

⛪ Christian Marriage 💑 Marital Intimacy ⚔️ Sexual Temptation 🧠 Neuroscience Of Desire 🛡️ Emotional Safety

Tantric Touches

by Zoe Zensual • 2017

Unlock full-body pleasure and deepen intimacy with tantric massage: no experience needed.

3.00

🙌 Tantric Massage 🔮 Sacred Sexuality ⚡ Energy Work 💗 Sexual Healing 💑 Couples Intimacy

Tantric Touches 87%

Unlock full-body pleasure and deepen intimacy with tantric massage: no experience needed.

by Zoe Zensual 2017

3.00

2 ratings

🙌 Tantric Massage 🔮 Sacred Sexuality ⚡ Energy Work 💗 Sexual Healing 💑 Couples Intimacy

Tantra Made Easy

by Shashi Solluna • 2018

Tantra without the mystery: heal sexual shame, circulate energy, and turn the bedroom into a temple.

4.23

✨ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 🔥 Sexual Energy 🌸 Sexual Healing 🕉️ Neo-Tantra

Tantra Made Easy 87%

Tantra without the mystery: heal sexual shame, circulate energy, and turn the bedroom into a temple.

by Shashi Solluna 2018

4.23

48 ratings

✨ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 🔥 Sexual Energy 🌸 Sexual Healing 🕉️ Neo-Tantra

Brain Talk

by David Schnarch • 2018

Wanting your partner again starts with being more yourself. A couples therapist shows why.

4.2

137

💍 Marriage Counseling 🔥 Sexual Intimacy 💫 Sexual Desire 💬 Sexual Communication 🧘 Mindful Sex

Brain Talk 87%

Wanting your partner again starts with being more yourself. A couples therapist shows why.

by David Schnarch 2018

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