Mutual Pleasure Books | Summaries & Audio

The Joy of Sex

by Alex Comfort • 1972

A couple's manual for erotic skill, honest talk, and the play that deepens with every decade.

3.62

3k+

🛠️ Sexual Technique ✨ Sex Positivity 🕰️ Aging And Sexuality 💬 Sexual Communication 🎭 Erotic Play

The Joy of Sex 89%

A couple's manual for erotic skill, honest talk, and the play that deepens with every decade.

by Alex Comfort 1972

3.62

3k+ ratings

🛠️ Sexual Technique ✨ Sex Positivity 🕰️ Aging And Sexuality 💬 Sexual Communication 🎭 Erotic Play

Female Orgasm Black Book

by Lee Jenkins • 2011

Chasing her orgasm kills it. The reframe, anatomy, and sequence that actually deliver.

3.90

124

🔥 Female Pleasure 🛠️ Sexual Technique 💦 Female Ejaculation ⏳ Arousal Pacing 🎯 Performance Anxiety

Female Orgasm Black Book 89%

Chasing her orgasm kills it. The reframe, anatomy, and sequence that actually deliver.

by Lee Jenkins 2011

3.90

124 ratings

🔥 Female Pleasure 🛠️ Sexual Technique 💦 Female Ejaculation ⏳ Arousal Pacing 🎯 Performance Anxiety

She Comes First

by Ian Kerner • 2004

Why the best sex starts with her: the oral-first method that turns the script on intimacy.

4.07

13k+

📘 Sex Manuals 💥 Female Orgasm 👅 Oral Sex 💬 Sexual Communication 👨 Men's Sex Advice

She Comes First 88%

Why the best sex starts with her: the oral-first method that turns the script on intimacy.

by Ian Kerner 2004

4.07

13k+ ratings

📘 Sex Manuals 💥 Female Orgasm 👅 Oral Sex 💬 Sexual Communication 👨 Men's Sex Advice

David Shade's manual

by David Shade

Turn her mind into the ultimate trigger: hypnosis and technique for orgasms she's never had.

3.61

🔮 Erotic Hypnosis ⛓️ BDSM Dynamics 🧘 Tantric Sexuality 💥 Orgasm Mastery 🌸 Female Pleasure

David Shade's manual 88%

Turn her mind into the ultimate trigger: hypnosis and technique for orgasms she's never had.

by David Shade

3.61

18 ratings

🔮 Erotic Hypnosis ⛓️ BDSM Dynamics 🧘 Tantric Sexuality 💥 Orgasm Mastery 🌸 Female Pleasure

Slow Sex

by Nicole Daedone • 2011

Fifteen minutes, one fingertip, no goal. The practice that proves orgasm isn't climax.

3.77

1k+

💗 Sexual Wellness 🌺 Female Sexuality 🧘 Mindful Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌊 Female Orgasm

Slow Sex 88%

Fifteen minutes, one fingertip, no goal. The practice that proves orgasm isn't climax.

by Nicole Daedone 2011

3.77

1k+ ratings

💗 Sexual Wellness 🌺 Female Sexuality 🧘 Mindful Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌊 Female Orgasm

Slow Sex

by Diana Richardson • 2011

End the race to orgasm. Relax into sex so mindful it heals and becomes spiritual practice.

3.61

365

🕯️ Conscious Sexuality 🧘 Neo-Tantra ❤️ Sexual Intimacy ⚡ Polarity Work 🩹 Healing Through Intimacy

Slow Sex 88%

End the race to orgasm. Relax into sex so mindful it heals and becomes spiritual practice.

by Diana Richardson 2011

3.61

365 ratings

🕯️ Conscious Sexuality 🧘 Neo-Tantra ❤️ Sexual Intimacy ⚡ Polarity Work 🩹 Healing Through Intimacy

The Ethical Slut

by Janet W. Hardy • 1997

How to love more than one person without deception: the rules, scripts, and hard conversations.

3.94

28k+

🏳️‍🌈 Ethical Non-Monogamy 🔓 Open Relationships 💚 Jealousy Management 📝 Relationship Agreements 🌻 Sex Positivity

The Ethical Slut 88%

How to love more than one person without deception: the rules, scripts, and hard conversations.

by Janet W. Hardy 1997

3.94

28k+ ratings

🏳️‍🌈 Ethical Non-Monogamy 🔓 Open Relationships 💚 Jealousy Management 📝 Relationship Agreements 🌻 Sex Positivity

The Heart of Tantric Sex

by Diana Richardson • 2003

Fifteen hours of orgasm across a lifetime. Real ecstasy arrives when you stop chasing the peak.

4.01

735

🕉️ Sacred Sexuality 🧘 Modern Tantra ⚡ Sexual Energy Work 🌸 Female Arousal 💞 Embodied Intimacy

The Heart of Tantric Sex 88%

Fifteen hours of orgasm across a lifetime. Real ecstasy arrives when you stop chasing the peak.

by Diana Richardson 2003

4.01

735 ratings

🕉️ Sacred Sexuality 🧘 Modern Tantra ⚡ Sexual Energy Work 🌸 Female Arousal 💞 Embodied Intimacy

Hot and Unbothered

by Yana Tallon-Hicks • 2022

Your sex life improves when you stop performing and start asking for what you actually want.

4.27

298

🎓 Sex Education 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🌈 Pleasure Advocacy 🔓 Sexual Shame 🧠 Cognitive Reframing

Hot and Unbothered 88%

Your sex life improves when you stop performing and start asking for what you actually want.

by Yana Tallon-Hicks 2022

4.27

298 ratings

🎓 Sex Education 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🌈 Pleasure Advocacy 🔓 Sexual Shame 🧠 Cognitive Reframing

Sexual Ecstasy

by Margot Anand • 2000

Full-body orgasm, lasting up to twenty minutes: a practical training for men and women.

3.79

🧘 Sexual Wellness ✨ Sacred Sexuality 🔥 Modern Tantra 💞 Conscious Intimacy 💫 Orgasm Techniques

Sexual Ecstasy 88%

Full-body orgasm, lasting up to twenty minutes: a practical training for men and women.

by Margot Anand 2000

3.79

34 ratings

🧘 Sexual Wellness ✨ Sacred Sexuality 🔥 Modern Tantra 💞 Conscious Intimacy 💫 Orgasm Techniques

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition

by Eve Kingsley • 2008

Pleasure she can't ask for: introduce dominance through dirty talk, safe words, reading her signals.

3.33

163

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Sexuality 💬 Dirty Talk 😳 Sexual Shame ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition Summary

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition 88%

Pleasure she can't ask for: introduce dominance through dirty talk, safe words, reading her signals.

by Eve Kingsley 2008

3.33

163 ratings

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Sexuality 💬 Dirty Talk 😳 Sexual Shame ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

More Than Two

by Franklin Veaux • 2014

Polyamory fails with rules, not jealousy. The guide to multiple relationships built on boundaries.

4.23

5k+

🫂 Polyamory 🛤️ Relational Autonomy 💚 Jealousy Management 🤝 Consent Based Intimacy 🏴 Relationship Anarchy

More Than Two 87%

Polyamory fails with rules, not jealousy. The guide to multiple relationships built on boundaries.

by Franklin Veaux 2014

4.23

5k+ ratings

🫂 Polyamory 🛤️ Relational Autonomy 💚 Jealousy Management 🤝 Consent Based Intimacy 🏴 Relationship Anarchy

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book

by Felice Newman • 1999

From first touch to BDSM scenes: the unabashed guide to lesbian sex, anatomy, and connection.

4.11

937

🏳️‍🌈 Lesbian Sexuality 🧬 Pleasure Anatomy 💥 Orgasm Guide 🗣️ Erotic Communication 🪞 Body Image Healing

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book 87%

From first touch to BDSM scenes: the unabashed guide to lesbian sex, anatomy, and connection.

by Felice Newman 1999

4.11

937 ratings

🏳️‍🌈 Lesbian Sexuality 🧬 Pleasure Anatomy 💥 Orgasm Guide 🗣️ Erotic Communication 🪞 Body Image Healing

Sex Without Stress

by Jessa Zimmerman • 2018

The spiral of avoidance and pressure kills sex. One 10-minute exercise can reverse it, together.

4.17

173

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔬 Sex Therapy ⚖️ Desire Discrepancy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌈 Sex Positivity

Sex Without Stress 87%

The spiral of avoidance and pressure kills sex. One 10-minute exercise can reverse it, together.

by Jessa Zimmerman 2018

4.17

173 ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔬 Sex Therapy ⚖️ Desire Discrepancy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌈 Sex Positivity

The Sexually Confident Wife

by Shannon Ethridge • 2008

Pleasure is not a concession. How Christian wives can shed shame and own desire in marriage.

3.99

219

💒 Christian Marriage 💑 Married Sexuality 🕊️ Purity Culture Recovery 🌸 Female Sexual Pleasure 💃 Body Confidence

The Sexually Confident Wife 87%

Pleasure is not a concession. How Christian wives can shed shame and own desire in marriage.

by Shannon Ethridge 2008

3.99

219 ratings

💒 Christian Marriage 💑 Married Sexuality 🕊️ Purity Culture Recovery 🌸 Female Sexual Pleasure 💃 Body Confidence

Love Worth Making

by Stephen Snyder • 2018

Great sex isn't technique. It's a selfish, childlike part of you that wants to be enjoyed.

4.15

1k+

🔥 Sexual Desire 🏠 Monogamy 🫂 Vulnerability 🪞 Self-Acceptance 🛋️ Sex Therapy

Love Worth Making 87%

Great sex isn't technique. It's a selfish, childlike part of you that wants to be enjoyed.

by Stephen Snyder 2018

4.15

1k+ ratings

🔥 Sexual Desire 🏠 Monogamy 🫂 Vulnerability 🪞 Self-Acceptance 🛋️ Sex Therapy

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex

by Barbara Keesling • 2001

Sexual confidence, step by step: from the underwear you wear to the way you walk.

3.52

452

👩 Women's Sexuality 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Self-Help 💔 Sexual Shame 💋 Seduction Techniques

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex Summary

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex 87%

Sexual confidence, step by step: from the underwear you wear to the way you walk.

by Barbara Keesling 2001

3.52

452 ratings

👩 Women's Sexuality 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Self-Help 💔 Sexual Shame 💋 Seduction Techniques

The Enlightened Sex Manual

by David Deida • 2004

Sex as spiritual practice: breath and energy techniques that turn pleasure into full-body awakening.

4.07

908

🧘 Tantric Sex ⚡ Energy Work 🌬️ Breathwork 💚 Sexual Healing 💞 Intimacy Practices

The Enlightened Sex Manual 87%

Sex as spiritual practice: breath and energy techniques that turn pleasure into full-body awakening.

by David Deida 2004

4.07

908 ratings

🧘 Tantric Sex ⚡ Energy Work 🌬️ Breathwork 💚 Sexual Healing 💞 Intimacy Practices

The Cheating Wife

by David Stone • 2018

A husband offers his wife to their heartbroken friend for a weekend that reignites all three.

3.88

186

🚪 Open Marriage 📚 Sexual Mentorship 👁️ Voyeurism 💑 Rekindled Marriage 🎭 Playful Erotica

The Cheating Wife 87%

A husband offers his wife to their heartbroken friend for a weekend that reignites all three.

by David Stone 2018

3.88

186 ratings

🚪 Open Marriage 📚 Sexual Mentorship 👁️ Voyeurism 💑 Rekindled Marriage 🎭 Playful Erotica

Sex Talks

by Vanessa Marin • 2023

Desire fades when talking stops. Five conversations that bring it back, awkwardness and all.

4.28

4k+

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Therapy 🧱 Intimacy Building 📚 Sex Education ⚖️ Desire Mismatch

Sex Talks 87%

Desire fades when talking stops. Five conversations that bring it back, awkwardness and all.

by Vanessa Marin 2023

4.28

4k+ ratings

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Therapy 🧱 Intimacy Building 📚 Sex Education ⚖️ Desire Mismatch

The Guide to Getting It On

by Paul Joannides • 1996

A lifetime guide to sex: the brain, the myths, the pleasure anatomy, and staying connected.

4.28

3k+

🛏️ Sexual Wellness 💞 Relationship Guides ✨ Sex Positivity 🔥 Desire Mismatch 💬 Sexual Communication

The Guide to Getting It On 87%

A lifetime guide to sex: the brain, the myths, the pleasure anatomy, and staying connected.

by Paul Joannides 1996

4.28

3k+ ratings

🛏️ Sexual Wellness 💞 Relationship Guides ✨ Sex Positivity 🔥 Desire Mismatch 💬 Sexual Communication

Intimacy

by Ita O'Brien • 2026

An intimacy coordinator's guide to embodiment: how presence and clear boundaries unlock real desire.

3.52

🫂 Intimacy Coaching 🦶 Embodiment 🤝 Consent Culture ✨ Sex Positivity 🚧 Boundary Setting

Intimacy 87%

An intimacy coordinator's guide to embodiment: how presence and clear boundaries unlock real desire.

by Ita O'Brien 2026

3.52

81 ratings

🫂 Intimacy Coaching 🦶 Embodiment 🤝 Consent Culture ✨ Sex Positivity 🚧 Boundary Setting

Designer Relationships

by Mark A. Michaels • 2015

Stop inheriting your relationship model. Design one that actually fits.

3.68

854

🔓 Ethical Nonmonogamy ✏️ Relationship Design 🗣️ Radical Honesty 🧘 Managing Jealousy 🌶️ Sexual Exploration

Designer Relationships 87%

Stop inheriting your relationship model. Design one that actually fits.

by Mark A. Michaels 2015

3.68

854 ratings

🔓 Ethical Nonmonogamy ✏️ Relationship Design 🗣️ Radical Honesty 🧘 Managing Jealousy 🌶️ Sexual Exploration

Come Together

by Emily Nagoski • 2024

Desire and pleasure aren't the same thing. Lasting couples prioritize the right one.

4.12

5k+

🏠 Long-Term Relationships 🔄 Responsive Desire 🎉 Pleasure-Centered Sex 💬 Sexual Communication 🛋️ Modern Sex Therapy

Come Together 87%

Desire and pleasure aren't the same thing. Lasting couples prioritize the right one.

by Emily Nagoski 2024

4.12

5k+ ratings

🏠 Long-Term Relationships 🔄 Responsive Desire 🎉 Pleasure-Centered Sex 💬 Sexual Communication 🛋️ Modern Sex Therapy

Tantric Sex

by Grace Mason • 2017

Shift from chasing climax to savoring sensation: tantric practices for deeper connection.

3.42

🕉️ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Intimacy 🌬️ Breathwork For Sex 🔄 Polarity Work 💫 Full-Body Orgasm

Tantric Sex 87%

Shift from chasing climax to savoring sensation: tantric practices for deeper connection.

by Grace Mason 2017

3.42

78 ratings

🕉️ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Intimacy 🌬️ Breathwork For Sex 🔄 Polarity Work 💫 Full-Body Orgasm

The Great Sex Rescue

by Sheila Wray Gregoire • 2021

Christian sex advice promised better marriages. Research on 20,000 women says it did the opposite.

4.54

7k+

✝️ Christian Marriage 💫 Female Sexual Pleasure 📋 Purity Culture Critique 🤝 Marital Consent 📊 Sex Research

The Great Sex Rescue 87%

Christian sex advice promised better marriages. Research on 20,000 women says it did the opposite.

by Sheila Wray Gregoire 2021

4.54

7k+ ratings

✝️ Christian Marriage 💫 Female Sexual Pleasure 📋 Purity Culture Critique 🤝 Marital Consent 📊 Sex Research

Sex Yourself

by Carlyle Jansen • 2015

How to master solo sex, amplify orgasm, and bring what you learn into any bedroom.

4.04

🚺 Female Sexuality 🧘‍♀️ Solo Sex 💥 Orgasm Mastery 🪀 Sex Toy Guides 🗺️ Anatomy Of Pleasure

Sex Yourself 87%

How to master solo sex, amplify orgasm, and bring what you learn into any bedroom.

by Carlyle Jansen 2015

4.04

48 ratings

🚺 Female Sexuality 🧘‍♀️ Solo Sex 💥 Orgasm Mastery 🪀 Sex Toy Guides 🗺️ Anatomy Of Pleasure

How To Think More About Sex

by Alain de Botton • 2012

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

3.47

6k+

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

How To Think More About Sex 87%

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

by Alain de Botton 2012

3.47

6k+ ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom

by John Gray • 1995

Why men and women misfire in bed, and the timing and touch fixes that restore passion.

3.83

3k+

🛠️ Sexual Technique ♂️♀️ Gender Differences ✨ Female Arousal 💍 Marriage And Intimacy 💬 Relationship Communication

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom 87%

Why men and women misfire in bed, and the timing and touch fixes that restore passion.

by John Gray 1995

3.83

3k+ ratings

🛠️ Sexual Technique ♂️♀️ Gender Differences ✨ Female Arousal 💍 Marriage And Intimacy 💬 Relationship Communication

The Sensuous Woman

by "J" • 1969

Your pleasure first. Then his. The 1969 sexual confidence manual that named what no one else would.

3.38

286

🔍 Sexual Self-Discovery 📚 Vintage Sex Manuals 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Technique 💋 Seduction Guides

The Sensuous Woman 87%

Your pleasure first. Then his. The 1969 sexual confidence manual that named what no one else would.

by "J" 1969

3.38

286 ratings

🔍 Sexual Self-Discovery 📚 Vintage Sex Manuals 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Technique 💋 Seduction Guides

The Soul of Sex

by Thomas Moore • 1998

Beyond biology: how myth, imagination, and everyday beauty reveal the spiritual depths of sex.

3.94

639

🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 🏛️ Erotic Philosophy 🏺 Archetypal Psychology 🌌 Erotic Imagination 🧘 Mindful Sexuality

The Soul of Sex 87%

Beyond biology: how myth, imagination, and everyday beauty reveal the spiritual depths of sex.

by Thomas Moore 1998

3.94

639 ratings

🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 🏛️ Erotic Philosophy 🏺 Archetypal Psychology 🌌 Erotic Imagination 🧘 Mindful Sexuality

Finding God Through Sex

by David Deida • 2002

Sex as portal to divine love: open the heart through the body; let desire fuel awakening.

4.02

325

🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 🧘 Modern Tantra 🌑 Shadow Integration ⚡ Polarity Dynamics

Finding God Through Sex 87%

Sex as portal to divine love: open the heart through the body; let desire fuel awakening.

by David Deida 2002

4.02

325 ratings

🕯️ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 🧘 Modern Tantra 🌑 Shadow Integration ⚡ Polarity Dynamics

Tantric Touches

by Zoe Zensual • 2017

Unlock full-body pleasure and deepen intimacy with tantric massage: no experience needed.

3.00

🙌 Tantric Massage 🔮 Sacred Sexuality ⚡ Energy Work 💗 Sexual Healing 💑 Couples Intimacy

Tantric Touches 87%

Unlock full-body pleasure and deepen intimacy with tantric massage: no experience needed.

by Zoe Zensual 2017

3.00

2 ratings

🙌 Tantric Massage 🔮 Sacred Sexuality ⚡ Energy Work 💗 Sexual Healing 💑 Couples Intimacy

Ultimate Guide to Kink

by Tristan Taormino • 2012

A practical guide to BDSM: how to play hard, communicate clearly, and care deeply.

4.06

807

⛓️ Kink Education 🤝 Consent Culture ⚡ Power Exchange 🎭 Erotic Roleplay 🖐️ Impact Play

Ultimate Guide to Kink 87%

A practical guide to BDSM: how to play hard, communicate clearly, and care deeply.

by Tristan Taormino 2012

4.06

807 ratings

⛓️ Kink Education 🤝 Consent Culture ⚡ Power Exchange 🎭 Erotic Roleplay 🖐️ Impact Play

Good Vibrations Guide to Sex

by Cathy Winks • 1994

Every zone, every technique, no shame: the manual that treats pleasure as a skill.

4.15

466

📖 Sex Manuals 🌈 Sex Positivity ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism 💬 Sexual Communication 💥 Orgasm

Good Vibrations Guide to Sex 87%

Every zone, every technique, no shame: the manual that treats pleasure as a skill.

by Cathy Winks 1994

4.15

466 ratings

📖 Sex Manuals 🌈 Sex Positivity ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism 💬 Sexual Communication 💥 Orgasm

He Comes Next

by Ian Kerner • 2006

Shift from orgasm-chasing to full-body arousal: the woman's guide to unlocking male pleasure.

3.69

1k+

🛠️ Sexual Technique ♂️ Male Sexuality ⚙️ Arousal Mechanics 🌌 Sexual Fantasy 🧠 Foreplay Mindset

He Comes Next 87%

Shift from orgasm-chasing to full-body arousal: the woman's guide to unlocking male pleasure.

by Ian Kerner 2006

3.69

1k+ ratings

🛠️ Sexual Technique ♂️ Male Sexuality ⚙️ Arousal Mechanics 🌌 Sexual Fantasy 🧠 Foreplay Mindset

The Multi-Orgasmic Woman

by Mantak Chia • 2005

A Taoist method that turns climax into a circulating current, so pleasure builds instead of ending.

4.01

261

🌸 Female Sexuality ☯️ Taoist Sexuality 💫 Multiple Orgasm 🔥 Energy Cultivation 📘 Sexual Self-Help

The Multi-Orgasmic Woman 87%

A Taoist method that turns climax into a circulating current, so pleasure builds instead of ending.

by Mantak Chia 2005

4.01

261 ratings

🌸 Female Sexuality ☯️ Taoist Sexuality 💫 Multiple Orgasm 🔥 Energy Cultivation 📘 Sexual Self-Help

Your Brain on Sex

by Stanley Siegel • 2011

What you find hottest is a coded message from your childhood. Decoding it changes everything.

3.97

122

💭 Sexual Fantasies 🛌 Sexual Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Sustaining Desire

Your Brain on Sex 87%

What you find hottest is a coded message from your childhood. Decoding it changes everything.

by Stanley Siegel 2011

3.97

122 ratings

💭 Sexual Fantasies 🛌 Sexual Healing 👶 Inner Child Work 💬 Sexual Communication 🔥 Sustaining Desire

Tantric Love

by Diana Richardson • 2009

Love is a steady state, not a fleeting emotion. Your storms are old pain in disguise.

4.53

🕉️ Tantric Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 💧 Emotional Release Work 🧍 Somatic Awareness 🧘 Present-Moment Awareness

Tantric Love 87%

Love is a steady state, not a fleeting emotion. Your storms are old pain in disguise.

by Diana Richardson 2009

4.53

30 ratings

🕉️ Tantric Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 💧 Emotional Release Work 🧍 Somatic Awareness 🧘 Present-Moment Awareness

Feel It All

by Casey Tanner • 2024

Sexual insecurity isn't a personal flaw. It's the predictable echo of systemic neglect.

4.20

996

🫂 Sexual Healing 🧘 Somatic Therapy 🧱 Attachment Theory ⚖️ Systemic Oppression 🔇 Sexual Shame

Feel It All 87%

Sexual insecurity isn't a personal flaw. It's the predictable echo of systemic neglect.

by Casey Tanner 2024

4.20

996 ratings

🫂 Sexual Healing 🧘 Somatic Therapy 🧱 Attachment Theory ⚖️ Systemic Oppression 🔇 Sexual Shame

Becoming Cliterate

by Laurie Mintz • 2017

64% of women orgasm vs 91% of men. The gap has one overlooked cause, and it's fixable.

4.26

3k+

🩺 Female Sexuality 📚 Sexual Education ✊ Feminist Sexuality 🔬 Sexual Anatomy 👐 Masturbation

Becoming Cliterate 87%

64% of women orgasm vs 91% of men. The gap has one overlooked cause, and it's fixable.

by Laurie Mintz 2017

4.26

3k+ ratings

🩺 Female Sexuality 📚 Sexual Education ✊ Feminist Sexuality 🔬 Sexual Anatomy 👐 Masturbation

Opening Up

by Tristan Taormino • 2007

Communication makes open relationships work. Get the scripts, the jealousy tools, the safety rules.

4.07

4k+

🧩 Ethical Nonmonogamy 🗣️ Radical Honesty 💚 Jealousy Management 🩺 Safer Sex Education 🌈 Sex Positivity

Opening Up 87%

Communication makes open relationships work. Get the scripts, the jealousy tools, the safety rules.

by Tristan Taormino 2007

4.07

4k+ ratings

🧩 Ethical Nonmonogamy 🗣️ Radical Honesty 💚 Jealousy Management 🩺 Safer Sex Education 🌈 Sex Positivity

The Psychology of Sex

by Meg John Barker • 2018

Sexuality runs on spectrums, not switches. Culture writes the script your body follows.

3.88

185

🧠 Sexual Psychology 🔍 Critical Psychology 🏗️ Social Constructionism 🌈 Sexual Diversity 🤝 Consent Culture

The Psychology of Sex 87%

Sexuality runs on spectrums, not switches. Culture writes the script your body follows.

by Meg John Barker 2018

3.88

185 ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 🔍 Critical Psychology 🏗️ Social Constructionism 🌈 Sexual Diversity 🤝 Consent Culture

You Could Be Having Better Sex

by Nicole McNichols • 2026

Great sex is a skill. Master the pleasure cycle, honest talk, and outgrow mediocre sex.

4.24

102

🧘 Sexual Wellness 🧠 Desire Mechanics 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🔥 Long-Term Desire ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

You Could Be Having Better Sex 87%

Great sex is a skill. Master the pleasure cycle, honest talk, and outgrow mediocre sex.

by Nicole McNichols 2026

4.24

102 ratings

🧘 Sexual Wellness 🧠 Desire Mechanics 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🔥 Long-Term Desire ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

Anal Pleasure & Health

by Jack Morin • 1980

The anus stores stress and contains the keys to pleasure. Release one to find the other.

4.18

230

🍑 Anal Sexuality 🏋️ Pelvic Floor Health 🚫 Taboo Confrontation 🧠 Mind-Body Connection 🗣️ Partner Communication

Anal Pleasure & Health 87%

The anus stores stress and contains the keys to pleasure. Release one to find the other.

by Jack Morin 1980

4.18

230 ratings

🍑 Anal Sexuality 🏋️ Pelvic Floor Health 🚫 Taboo Confrontation 🧠 Mind-Body Connection 🗣️ Partner Communication

Sounds Fake But Okay

by Sarah Costello • 2023

Remove attraction from the center, and relationships, romance, and sex look entirely different.

3.66

1k+

🖤 Asexuality 💚 Aromanticism 💛 Platonic Intimacy 🔀 Relationship Anarchy 📚 Queer Theory

Sounds Fake But Okay 87%

Remove attraction from the center, and relationships, romance, and sex look entirely different.

by Sarah Costello 2023

3.66

1k+ ratings

🖤 Asexuality 💚 Aromanticism 💛 Platonic Intimacy 🔀 Relationship Anarchy 📚 Queer Theory

Sex in Human Loving

by Eric Berne • 1970

You think you choose your partners. Three ego states and a childhood script do.

3.62

364

🧠 Transactional Analysis 🔍 Sexual Psychology 📜 Psychological Scripts 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🌱 Humanistic Psychology

Sex in Human Loving 87%

You think you choose your partners. Three ego states and a childhood script do.

by Eric Berne 1970

3.62

364 ratings

🧠 Transactional Analysis 🔍 Sexual Psychology 📜 Psychological Scripts 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology 🌱 Humanistic Psychology

Femdom for Nice Girls

by Lucy Fairbourne • 2015

No leather, no cruelty, no act. A caring woman's path to confident, loving dominance.

3.71

121

🖤 Female Dominance 🌸 Gentle Femdom 🔗 Power Exchange 🔒 Orgasm Control 💬 Sexual Communication

Femdom for Nice Girls 87%

No leather, no cruelty, no act. A caring woman's path to confident, loving dominance.

by Lucy Fairbourne 2015

3.71

121 ratings

🖤 Female Dominance 🌸 Gentle Femdom 🔗 Power Exchange 🔒 Orgasm Control 💬 Sexual Communication

An Introduction To Tantra And Sacred Sexuality

by Michael Mirdad • 2008

Ancient tantric wisdom: how presence, ritual, and energy circulation turn sex into a spiritual path.

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Ancient tantric wisdom: how presence, ritual, and energy circulation turn sex into a spiritual path.

by Michael Mirdad 2008

3.87

31 ratings

🧘 Tantric Practices 🙏 Spiritual Intimacy ⚡ Energy Work 🩹 Sexual Healing 🧠 Mindful Sex

Tantra Made Easy

by Shashi Solluna • 2018

Tantra without the mystery: heal sexual shame, circulate energy, and turn the bedroom into a temple.

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✨ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 🔥 Sexual Energy 🌸 Sexual Healing 🕉️ Neo-Tantra

Tantra Made Easy 87%

Tantra without the mystery: heal sexual shame, circulate energy, and turn the bedroom into a temple.

by Shashi Solluna 2018

4.23

48 ratings

✨ Sacred Sexuality 💞 Conscious Relationships 🔥 Sexual Energy 🌸 Sexual Healing 🕉️ Neo-Tantra

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