Consent And Sexuality Books | Summaries & Audio

Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again

by Katherine Angel • 2021

Consent asks women to know what they want before anything starts. Desire doesn't work that way.

4.06

6k+

🏛️ Sexual Ethics 🔍 Consent Critique 🌺 Female Desire 🫂 Sexual Vulnerability 🌓 Sexual Ambivalence

Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again 91%

Consent asks women to know what they want before anything starts. Desire doesn't work that way.

by Katherine Angel 2021

4.06

6k+ ratings

🏛️ Sexual Ethics 🔍 Consent Critique 🌺 Female Desire 🫂 Sexual Vulnerability 🌓 Sexual Ambivalence

Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between

by Shafia Zaloom • 2019

The sex talk is broken. What to say about consent, porn, and healthy relationships with teens.

4.19

134

🗣️ Teen Sex Education ✋ Consent Education 💬 Talking To Teens 🛑 Sexual Violence Prevention 📚 Comprehensive Sex Ed

Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between Summary

Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between 90%

The sex talk is broken. What to say about consent, porn, and healthy relationships with teens.

by Shafia Zaloom 2019

4.19

134 ratings

🗣️ Teen Sex Education ✋ Consent Education 💬 Talking To Teens 🛑 Sexual Violence Prevention 📚 Comprehensive Sex Ed

Rethinking Sex

by Christine Emba • 2022

Consent was meant to be enough. It isn't. Why sex needs an older, more demanding rule.

3.61

1k+

🧭 Sexual Ethics 📱 Hookup Culture ⚖️ Consent Critique 😞 Sexual Dissatisfaction 👫 Heterosexual Dynamics

Rethinking Sex 90%

Consent was meant to be enough. It isn't. Why sex needs an older, more demanding rule.

by Christine Emba 2022

3.61

1k+ ratings

🧭 Sexual Ethics 📱 Hookup Culture ⚖️ Consent Critique 😞 Sexual Dissatisfaction 👫 Heterosexual Dynamics

Yes Means Yes!

by Jaclyn Friedman • 2008

Rape culture silences women's desire. The real consent standard requires an enthusiastic yes.

4.20

5k+

✋ Consent Culture 🔥 Sex-Positive Feminism ⚠️ Rape Culture 🧘 Body Politics 📚 Feminist Anthologies

Yes Means Yes! 90%

Rape culture silences women's desire. The real consent standard requires an enthusiastic yes.

by Jaclyn Friedman 2008

4.20

5k+ ratings

✋ Consent Culture 🔥 Sex-Positive Feminism ⚠️ Rape Culture 🧘 Body Politics 📚 Feminist Anthologies

The Psychology of Sex

by Meg John Barker • 2018

Sexuality runs on spectrums, not switches. Culture writes the script your body follows.

3.88

185

🧠 Sexual Psychology 🔍 Critical Psychology 🏗️ Social Constructionism 🌈 Sexual Diversity 🤝 Consent Culture

The Psychology of Sex 90%

Sexuality runs on spectrums, not switches. Culture writes the script your body follows.

by Meg John Barker 2018

3.88

185 ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 🔍 Critical Psychology 🏗️ Social Constructionism 🌈 Sexual Diversity 🤝 Consent Culture

Ace

by Angela Chen • 2020

The world assumes everyone wants sex. Asexuality reveals what that assumption costs all of us.

4.34

20k+

📘 Asexuality Studies 🌈 Queer Theory 📏 Sexual Normativity 🤝 Non-Sexual Intimacy 🛡️ Consent Culture

Ace 89%

The world assumes everyone wants sex. Asexuality reveals what that assumption costs all of us.

by Angela Chen 2020

4.34

20k+ ratings

📘 Asexuality Studies 🌈 Queer Theory 📏 Sexual Normativity 🤝 Non-Sexual Intimacy 🛡️ Consent Culture

Girls & Sex

by Peggy Orenstein • 2016

Girls learn to perform sex before they want it. Orenstein asked 70 of them why.

4.07

11k+

👯 Sexual Double Standards 🎓 Hookup Culture 🪞 Body Image ✋ Consent Culture ⛪ Purity Culture

Girls & Sex 89%

Girls learn to perform sex before they want it. Orenstein asked 70 of them why.

by Peggy Orenstein 2016

4.07

11k+ ratings

👯 Sexual Double Standards 🎓 Hookup Culture 🪞 Body Image ✋ Consent Culture ⛪ Purity Culture

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition

by Eve Kingsley • 2008

Pleasure she can't ask for: introduce dominance through dirty talk, safe words, reading her signals.

3.33

163

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Sexuality 💬 Dirty Talk 😳 Sexual Shame ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition Summary

Just F*ck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition 89%

Pleasure she can't ask for: introduce dominance through dirty talk, safe words, reading her signals.

by Eve Kingsley 2008

3.33

163 ratings

🗣️ Sexual Communication 💑 Couples Sexuality 💬 Dirty Talk 😳 Sexual Shame ✊ Sex-Positive Feminism

The Great Sex Rescue

by Sheila Wray Gregoire • 2021

Christian sex advice promised better marriages. Research on 20,000 women says it did the opposite.

4.54

7k+

✝️ Christian Marriage 💫 Female Sexual Pleasure 📋 Purity Culture Critique 🤝 Marital Consent 📊 Sex Research

The Great Sex Rescue 89%

Christian sex advice promised better marriages. Research on 20,000 women says it did the opposite.

by Sheila Wray Gregoire 2021

4.54

7k+ ratings

✝️ Christian Marriage 💫 Female Sexual Pleasure 📋 Purity Culture Critique 🤝 Marital Consent 📊 Sex Research

For Goodness Sex

by Al Vernacchio • 2023

Raise teens who understand consent, pleasure, and respect: a sex-positive framework beyond the talk.

4.69

🌈 Sex-Positive Parenting 💬 Talking About Sex 🤝 Consent Education 📚 Comprehensive Sex Ed 📱 Media Literacy

For Goodness Sex 89%

Raise teens who understand consent, pleasure, and respect: a sex-positive framework beyond the talk.

by Al Vernacchio 2023

4.69

32 ratings

🌈 Sex-Positive Parenting 💬 Talking About Sex 🤝 Consent Education 📚 Comprehensive Sex Ed 📱 Media Literacy

The Purity Myth

by Jessica Valenti • 2009

The virginity movement teaches shame as science, then codifies it. Real women bear the cost.

4.08

9k+

🏛️ Purity Culture ✊ Body Autonomy 💪 Toxic Masculinity 🎯 Victim Blaming ⚖️ Sexual Ethics

The Purity Myth 89%

The virginity movement teaches shame as science, then codifies it. Real women bear the cost.

by Jessica Valenti 2009

4.08

9k+ ratings

🏛️ Purity Culture ✊ Body Autonomy 💪 Toxic Masculinity 🎯 Victim Blaming ⚖️ Sexual Ethics

Hot and Unbothered

by Yana Tallon-Hicks • 2022

Your sex life improves when you stop performing and start asking for what you actually want.

4.27

298

🎓 Sex Education 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🌈 Pleasure Advocacy 🔓 Sexual Shame 🧠 Cognitive Reframing

Hot and Unbothered 89%

Your sex life improves when you stop performing and start asking for what you actually want.

by Yana Tallon-Hicks 2022

4.27

298 ratings

🎓 Sex Education 🗣️ Sexual Communication 🌈 Pleasure Advocacy 🔓 Sexual Shame 🧠 Cognitive Reframing

Intimacy

by Ita O'Brien • 2026

An intimacy coordinator's guide to embodiment: how presence and clear boundaries unlock real desire.

3.52

🫂 Intimacy Coaching 🦶 Embodiment 🤝 Consent Culture ✨ Sex Positivity 🚧 Boundary Setting

Intimacy 89%

An intimacy coordinator's guide to embodiment: how presence and clear boundaries unlock real desire.

by Ita O'Brien 2026

3.52

81 ratings

🫂 Intimacy Coaching 🦶 Embodiment 🤝 Consent Culture ✨ Sex Positivity 🚧 Boundary Setting

The Ethical Slut

by Janet W. Hardy • 1997

How to love more than one person without deception: the rules, scripts, and hard conversations.

3.94

28k+

🏳️‍🌈 Ethical Non-Monogamy 🔓 Open Relationships 💚 Jealousy Management 📝 Relationship Agreements 🌻 Sex Positivity

The Ethical Slut 89%

How to love more than one person without deception: the rules, scripts, and hard conversations.

by Janet W. Hardy 1997

3.94

28k+ ratings

🏳️‍🌈 Ethical Non-Monogamy 🔓 Open Relationships 💚 Jealousy Management 📝 Relationship Agreements 🌻 Sex Positivity

Asking for It

by Kate Harding • 2014

Ninety-eight percent of rape reports are true. Why does the two percent dominate every conversation?

4.37

4k+

⚠️ Rape Culture 👉 Victim Blaming 🗯️ Rape Myths 🎓 Campus Sexual Assault ⚖️ Legal System Failure

Asking for It 88%

Ninety-eight percent of rape reports are true. Why does the two percent dominate every conversation?

by Kate Harding 2014

4.37

4k+ ratings

⚠️ Rape Culture 👉 Victim Blaming 🗯️ Rape Myths 🎓 Campus Sexual Assault ⚖️ Legal System Failure

The New Topping Book

by Dossie Easton • 1996

Real dominance runs on empathy. The top who can't ask for care is the dangerous one.

4.01

2k+

🔄 Power Exchange 🤝 Consent Culture 🌑 Shadow Work 👑 Empathic Authority 🫀 Somatic Signals

The New Topping Book 88%

Real dominance runs on empathy. The top who can't ask for care is the dangerous one.

by Dossie Easton 1996

4.01

2k+ ratings

🔄 Power Exchange 🤝 Consent Culture 🌑 Shadow Work 👑 Empathic Authority 🫀 Somatic Signals

The Joy of Sex

by Alex Comfort • 1972

A couple's manual for erotic skill, honest talk, and the play that deepens with every decade.

3.62

3k+

🛠️ Sexual Technique ✨ Sex Positivity 🕰️ Aging And Sexuality 💬 Sexual Communication 🎭 Erotic Play

The Joy of Sex 88%

A couple's manual for erotic skill, honest talk, and the play that deepens with every decade.

by Alex Comfort 1972

3.62

3k+ ratings

🛠️ Sexual Technique ✨ Sex Positivity 🕰️ Aging And Sexuality 💬 Sexual Communication 🎭 Erotic Play

Ultimate Guide to Kink

by Tristan Taormino • 2012

A practical guide to BDSM: how to play hard, communicate clearly, and care deeply.

4.06

807

⛓️ Kink Education 🤝 Consent Culture ⚡ Power Exchange 🎭 Erotic Roleplay 🖐️ Impact Play

Ultimate Guide to Kink 88%

A practical guide to BDSM: how to play hard, communicate clearly, and care deeply.

by Tristan Taormino 2012

4.06

807 ratings

⛓️ Kink Education 🤝 Consent Culture ⚡ Power Exchange 🎭 Erotic Roleplay 🖐️ Impact Play

A Return to Modesty

by Wendy Shalit • 1998

The sexual revolution's casualties are women, and the way back is the virtue it mocked.

3.79

1k+

🔄 Sexual Revolution Critique 🛡️ Protecting Girlhood 🧱 Emotional Boundaries 🚫 Hookup Culture ⚧️ Sex Differences

A Return to Modesty 88%

The sexual revolution's casualties are women, and the way back is the virtue it mocked.

by Wendy Shalit 1998

3.79

1k+ ratings

🔄 Sexual Revolution Critique 🛡️ Protecting Girlhood 🧱 Emotional Boundaries 🚫 Hookup Culture ⚧️ Sex Differences

More Than Two

by Franklin Veaux • 2014

Polyamory fails with rules, not jealousy. The guide to multiple relationships built on boundaries.

4.23

5k+

🫂 Polyamory 🛤️ Relational Autonomy 💚 Jealousy Management 🤝 Consent Based Intimacy 🏴 Relationship Anarchy

More Than Two 88%

Polyamory fails with rules, not jealousy. The guide to multiple relationships built on boundaries.

by Franklin Veaux 2014

4.23

5k+ ratings

🫂 Polyamory 🛤️ Relational Autonomy 💚 Jealousy Management 🤝 Consent Based Intimacy 🏴 Relationship Anarchy

Is It Ever Just Sex?

by Darian Leader • 2023

A psychoanalyst argues sex is not about pleasure: a stage for infantile anxieties, guilt, and power.

3.37

479

📚 Psychoanalytic Theory 🌍 Sex And Culture 👶 Childhood Sexuality 😈 Guilt And Desire 🚻 Heteronormativity

Is It Ever Just Sex? 88%

A psychoanalyst argues sex is not about pleasure: a stage for infantile anxieties, guilt, and power.

by Darian Leader 2023

3.37

479 ratings

📚 Psychoanalytic Theory 🌍 Sex And Culture 👶 Childhood Sexuality 😈 Guilt And Desire 🚻 Heteronormativity

The Pride Guide

by Jo Langford • 2018

From coming out to safer sex to online safety: the honest guide every LGBTQ teen deserves.

4.06

121

🏳️‍🌈 Lgbtq Youth 📚 Sex Education ⚧️ Gender Identity 🚪 Coming Out 😰 Minority Stress

The Pride Guide 88%

From coming out to safer sex to online safety: the honest guide every LGBTQ teen deserves.

by Jo Langford 2018

4.06

121 ratings

🏳️‍🌈 Lgbtq Youth 📚 Sex Education ⚧️ Gender Identity 🚪 Coming Out 😰 Minority Stress

Becoming Cliterate

by Laurie Mintz • 2017

64% of women orgasm vs 91% of men. The gap has one overlooked cause, and it's fixable.

4.26

3k+

🩺 Female Sexuality 📚 Sexual Education ✊ Feminist Sexuality 🔬 Sexual Anatomy 👐 Masturbation

Becoming Cliterate 88%

64% of women orgasm vs 91% of men. The gap has one overlooked cause, and it's fixable.

by Laurie Mintz 2017

4.26

3k+ ratings

🩺 Female Sexuality 📚 Sexual Education ✊ Feminist Sexuality 🔬 Sexual Anatomy 👐 Masturbation

Ethical Porn for Dicks

by David J. Ley • 2016

Watch porn without the shame spiral. A clinical psychologist rewrites the rules for male sexuality.

4.09

129

🧭 Sexual Ethics ♂️ Men's Sexuality 😳 Sexual Shame 💬 Porn Debate 💪 Positive Masculinity

Ethical Porn for Dicks 88%

Watch porn without the shame spiral. A clinical psychologist rewrites the rules for male sexuality.

by David J. Ley 2016

4.09

129 ratings

🧭 Sexual Ethics ♂️ Men's Sexuality 😳 Sexual Shame 💬 Porn Debate 💪 Positive Masculinity

The Feminist Porn Book

by Tristan Taormino • 2012

Feminism's porn war: dispatches from the women who chose cameras over censorship.

3.98

636

🎬 Feminist Film 📖 Porn Studies ✊ Sex Worker Rights 🗣️ Sex-Positive Feminism 🖼️ Sexual Representation

The Feminist Porn Book 88%

Feminism's porn war: dispatches from the women who chose cameras over censorship.

by Tristan Taormino 2012

3.98

636 ratings

🎬 Feminist Film 📖 Porn Studies ✊ Sex Worker Rights 🗣️ Sex-Positive Feminism 🖼️ Sexual Representation

Sex by Numbers

by David Spiegelhalter • 2015

Sex surveys are performances. A statistician reveals what the data hides about modern desire.

3.84

213

🔄 Modern Sexuality 🔬 Sex Research 💥 Debunking Myths 📊 Statistical Literacy 📈 Popular Statistics

Sex by Numbers 88%

Sex surveys are performances. A statistician reveals what the data hides about modern desire.

by David Spiegelhalter 2015

3.84

213 ratings

🔄 Modern Sexuality 🔬 Sex Research 💥 Debunking Myths 📊 Statistical Literacy 📈 Popular Statistics

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book

by Felice Newman • 1999

From first touch to BDSM scenes: the unabashed guide to lesbian sex, anatomy, and connection.

4.11

937

🏳️‍🌈 Lesbian Sexuality 🧬 Pleasure Anatomy 💥 Orgasm Guide 🗣️ Erotic Communication 🪞 Body Image Healing

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book 88%

From first touch to BDSM scenes: the unabashed guide to lesbian sex, anatomy, and connection.

by Felice Newman 1999

4.11

937 ratings

🏳️‍🌈 Lesbian Sexuality 🧬 Pleasure Anatomy 💥 Orgasm Guide 🗣️ Erotic Communication 🪞 Body Image Healing

Opening Up

by Tristan Taormino • 2007

Communication makes open relationships work. Get the scripts, the jealousy tools, the safety rules.

4.07

4k+

🧩 Ethical Nonmonogamy 🗣️ Radical Honesty 💚 Jealousy Management 🩺 Safer Sex Education 🌈 Sex Positivity

Opening Up 88%

Communication makes open relationships work. Get the scripts, the jealousy tools, the safety rules.

by Tristan Taormino 2007

4.07

4k+ ratings

🧩 Ethical Nonmonogamy 🗣️ Radical Honesty 💚 Jealousy Management 🩺 Safer Sex Education 🌈 Sex Positivity

Slow Sex

by Nicole Daedone • 2011

Fifteen minutes, one fingertip, no goal. The practice that proves orgasm isn't climax.

3.77

1k+

💗 Sexual Wellness 🌺 Female Sexuality 🧘 Mindful Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌊 Female Orgasm

Slow Sex 88%

Fifteen minutes, one fingertip, no goal. The practice that proves orgasm isn't climax.

by Nicole Daedone 2011

3.77

1k+ ratings

💗 Sexual Wellness 🌺 Female Sexuality 🧘 Mindful Intimacy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌊 Female Orgasm

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex

by Barbara Keesling • 2001

Sexual confidence, step by step: from the underwear you wear to the way you walk.

3.52

452

👩 Women's Sexuality 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Self-Help 💔 Sexual Shame 💋 Seduction Techniques

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex Summary

The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex 88%

Sexual confidence, step by step: from the underwear you wear to the way you walk.

by Barbara Keesling 2001

3.52

452 ratings

👩 Women's Sexuality 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Self-Help 💔 Sexual Shame 💋 Seduction Techniques

Sex from Scratch

by Sarah Mirk • 2014

The relationship rulebook is optional. How to write your own, from singleness to parting.

3.76

655

🪢 Ethical Non-Monogamy ✏️ Relationship Design ✊ Intersectional Feminism 🌈 Gender Spectrum 💔 Conscious Uncoupling

Sex from Scratch 88%

The relationship rulebook is optional. How to write your own, from singleness to parting.

by Sarah Mirk 2014

3.76

655 ratings

🪢 Ethical Non-Monogamy ✏️ Relationship Design ✊ Intersectional Feminism 🌈 Gender Spectrum 💔 Conscious Uncoupling

Non-Toxic Masculinity

by Zachary Wagner • 2023

Purity culture delivered shame, not great sex. A path back to healthy sexuality, modeled on Christ.

4.27

412

🤍 Purity Culture ⛪ Christian Sexuality 💔 Sexual Shame 💪 Healthy Masculinity 👥 Gender Roles

Non-Toxic Masculinity 88%

Purity culture delivered shame, not great sex. A path back to healthy sexuality, modeled on Christ.

by Zachary Wagner 2023

4.27

412 ratings

🤍 Purity Culture ⛪ Christian Sexuality 💔 Sexual Shame 💪 Healthy Masculinity 👥 Gender Roles

Pleasure Activism

by Adrienne Maree Brown • 2019

Reclaim joy as a radical political act, and use pleasure to fuel your activism and your life.

4.22

9k+

📚 Feminist Theory 🏗️ Movement Building 🧘 Body Liberation 🔥 Sexual Empowerment 💊 Harm Reduction

Pleasure Activism 88%

Reclaim joy as a radical political act, and use pleasure to fuel your activism and your life.

by Adrienne Maree Brown 2019

4.22

9k+ ratings

📚 Feminist Theory 🏗️ Movement Building 🧘 Body Liberation 🔥 Sexual Empowerment 💊 Harm Reduction

The Come as You Are Workbook

by Emily Nagoski • 2019

Science-backed exercises mapping sexual response and clearing what blocks your path to pleasure.

4.19

383

🌸 Women's Sexuality 🧘 Sexual Wellbeing 💖 Body Acceptance 📜 Cultural Scripts 🛋️ Modern Sex Therapy

The Come as You Are Workbook 88%

Science-backed exercises mapping sexual response and clearing what blocks your path to pleasure.

by Emily Nagoski 2019

4.19

383 ratings

🌸 Women's Sexuality 🧘 Sexual Wellbeing 💖 Body Acceptance 📜 Cultural Scripts 🛋️ Modern Sex Therapy

Pornland

by Gail Dines • 2010

The porn industry didn't just sell fantasy; it built the scripts now governing real-world intimacy.

3.96

2k+

📼 Pornography Studies 📺 Media Criticism ⛓️ Sexual Exploitation 💋 Raunch Culture ✊ Anti-Porn Feminism

Pornland 88%

The porn industry didn't just sell fantasy; it built the scripts now governing real-world intimacy.

by Gail Dines 2010

3.96

2k+ ratings

📼 Pornography Studies 📺 Media Criticism ⛓️ Sexual Exploitation 💋 Raunch Culture ✊ Anti-Porn Feminism

The Secret Life of a Submissive

by Sarah K. • 2012

She wrote kink for years but never lived it. One Dom changed that.

3.80

377

🖤 Bdsm Lifestyle 📖 Sexual Memoir ⛓️ Power Exchange 🕯️ Submissive Journey 🛡️ Consent Culture

The Secret Life of a Submissive 88%

She wrote kink for years but never lived it. One Dom changed that.

by Sarah K. 2012

3.80

377 ratings

🖤 Bdsm Lifestyle 📖 Sexual Memoir ⛓️ Power Exchange 🕯️ Submissive Journey 🛡️ Consent Culture

Beyond My Control

by Nancy Friday • 2009

The forbidden fuels us. Nancy Friday reveals the secret fantasies millions share but never voice.

3.35

198

🧠 Pop Psychology 💭 Sexual Fantasy 👩 Female Desire 🚫 Taboo Fantasies 🔗 Dominance And Submission

Beyond My Control 88%

The forbidden fuels us. Nancy Friday reveals the secret fantasies millions share but never voice.

by Nancy Friday 2009

3.35

198 ratings

🧠 Pop Psychology 💭 Sexual Fantasy 👩 Female Desire 🚫 Taboo Fantasies 🔗 Dominance And Submission

The Sensuous Woman

by "J" • 1969

Your pleasure first. Then his. The 1969 sexual confidence manual that named what no one else would.

3.38

286

🔍 Sexual Self-Discovery 📚 Vintage Sex Manuals 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Technique 💋 Seduction Guides

The Sensuous Woman 88%

Your pleasure first. Then his. The 1969 sexual confidence manual that named what no one else would.

by "J" 1969

3.38

286 ratings

🔍 Sexual Self-Discovery 📚 Vintage Sex Manuals 💪 Sexual Confidence 🔥 Erotic Technique 💋 Seduction Guides

Feel It All

by Casey Tanner • 2024

Sexual insecurity isn't a personal flaw. It's the predictable echo of systemic neglect.

4.20

996

🫂 Sexual Healing 🧘 Somatic Therapy 🧱 Attachment Theory ⚖️ Systemic Oppression 🔇 Sexual Shame

Feel It All 88%

Sexual insecurity isn't a personal flaw. It's the predictable echo of systemic neglect.

by Casey Tanner 2024

4.20

996 ratings

🫂 Sexual Healing 🧘 Somatic Therapy 🧱 Attachment Theory ⚖️ Systemic Oppression 🔇 Sexual Shame

Oooooh . . . Say It Again

by Alan Roger Currie • 2011

Much of what feels like rejection is really her conscience fighting her own desire.

4.33

185

🧔 Male Dating Advice 🗣️ Sexual Frankness ⚡ Erotic Tension 😰 Approach Anxiety 🔒 Sexual Shame

Oooooh . . . Say It Again 88%

Much of what feels like rejection is really her conscience fighting her own desire.

by Alan Roger Currie 2011

4.33

185 ratings

🧔 Male Dating Advice 🗣️ Sexual Frankness ⚡ Erotic Tension 😰 Approach Anxiety 🔒 Sexual Shame

How To Think More About Sex

by Alain de Botton • 2012

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

3.47

6k+

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

How To Think More About Sex 88%

Love and desire often can't coexist. The problem isn't you; it's the ideal.

by Alain de Botton 2012

3.47

6k+ ratings

🧠 Sexual Psychology 💘 Modern Love 🧩 Relationship Realism 📽️ Pornography Critique 📚 Philosophical Self-Help

Want

by Gillian Anderson • 2024

Women's secret sexual fantasies, from their own anonymous letters: a map of hidden desire.

3.37

23k+

🔥 Female Desire 🤫 Sexual Fantasies 🧠 Psychology Of Sexuality 🗣️ Sexual Shame ⛓️ Kink And Fetish

Want 88%

Women's secret sexual fantasies, from their own anonymous letters: a map of hidden desire.

by Gillian Anderson 2024

3.37

23k+ ratings

🔥 Female Desire 🤫 Sexual Fantasies 🧠 Psychology Of Sexuality 🗣️ Sexual Shame ⛓️ Kink And Fetish

A Billion Wicked Thoughts

by Ogi Ogas • 2011

A billion anonymous searches expose the true architecture of male and female desire.

3.83

4k+

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💑 Mate Selection 🔥 Sexual Desire ⚡ Gender Differences 💻 Internet Data

A Billion Wicked Thoughts 88%

A billion anonymous searches expose the true architecture of male and female desire.

by Ogi Ogas 2011

3.83

4k+ ratings

🧠 Evolutionary Psychology 💑 Mate Selection 🔥 Sexual Desire ⚡ Gender Differences 💻 Internet Data

Adam and Eve After the Pill

by Mary Eberstadt • 2012

The sexual revolution promised freedom but delivered misery to women, children, and the poor.

3.95

512

🏴 Sexual Revolution ✝️ Catholic Social Thought 🔗 Hookup Culture 🏛️ Cultural Conservatism 💔 Decline Of Marriage

Adam and Eve After the Pill 88%

The sexual revolution promised freedom but delivered misery to women, children, and the poor.

by Mary Eberstadt 2012

3.95

512 ratings

🏴 Sexual Revolution ✝️ Catholic Social Thought 🔗 Hookup Culture 🏛️ Cultural Conservatism 💔 Decline Of Marriage

Don't Get Caught

by Jaye Pratt • 2024

Shamed Lily flees to a town where masked men chase her fantasies into life on Halloween.

3.89

8k+

🖤 Consensual Non-Consent 👺 Masked Encounters 🏡 Found Family 🎃 Halloween Vibes 📋 Boundary Negotiation

Don't Get Caught 87%

Shamed Lily flees to a town where masked men chase her fantasies into life on Halloween.

by Jaye Pratt 2024

3.89

8k+ ratings

🖤 Consensual Non-Consent 👺 Masked Encounters 🏡 Found Family 🎃 Halloween Vibes 📋 Boundary Negotiation

The Sexually Confident Wife

by Shannon Ethridge • 2008

Pleasure is not a concession. How Christian wives can shed shame and own desire in marriage.

3.99

219

💒 Christian Marriage 💑 Married Sexuality 🕊️ Purity Culture Recovery 🌸 Female Sexual Pleasure 💃 Body Confidence

The Sexually Confident Wife 87%

Pleasure is not a concession. How Christian wives can shed shame and own desire in marriage.

by Shannon Ethridge 2008

3.99

219 ratings

💒 Christian Marriage 💑 Married Sexuality 🕊️ Purity Culture Recovery 🌸 Female Sexual Pleasure 💃 Body Confidence

Sex Without Stress

by Jessa Zimmerman • 2018

The spiral of avoidance and pressure kills sex. One 10-minute exercise can reverse it, together.

4.17

173

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔬 Sex Therapy ⚖️ Desire Discrepancy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌈 Sex Positivity

Sex Without Stress 87%

The spiral of avoidance and pressure kills sex. One 10-minute exercise can reverse it, together.

by Jessa Zimmerman 2018

4.17

173 ratings

🛋️ Couples Therapy 🔬 Sex Therapy ⚖️ Desire Discrepancy 💬 Sexual Communication 🌈 Sex Positivity

Tell Me What You Want

by Justin J. Lehmiller • 2018

Nearly every sexual fantasy turns out to be common. The real dysfunction is hiding from desire.

3.82

1k+

🔬 Sex Research 💭 Sexual Fantasy 😔 Sexual Shame 🎢 Relationship Novelty 🧬 Evolutionary Psychology

Tell Me What You Want 87%

Nearly every sexual fantasy turns out to be common. The real dysfunction is hiding from desire.

by Justin J. Lehmiller 2018

3.82

1k+ ratings

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Why the best sex starts with her: the oral-first method that turns the script on intimacy.

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Why the best sex starts with her: the oral-first method that turns the script on intimacy.

by Ian Kerner 2004

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by Diana Richardson • 2003

Fifteen hours of orgasm across a lifetime. Real ecstasy arrives when you stop chasing the peak.

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Fifteen hours of orgasm across a lifetime. Real ecstasy arrives when you stop chasing the peak.

by Diana Richardson 2003

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